Hey Guys,
I'm a 23 year old university student and have been going bald since the age of 19. It's getting pretty bad and it has had an extreme effect on my self-confidence. I am naturally personable and am able to convince everyone else I'm happy with myself and am confident, which is great for the current relationships in my life. However I am almost always aware and conscious of this issue during any social interaction. I am fine with my friends and family who know me, but whenever I meet anyone new my age I am always thinking things like "They probably think I'm a lot older than them. I'm probably coming across as a creepy old man." Again, I am generally confident and outgoing so I get along with people great and make friends easily, but I wish I didn't believe that everyone has an initial negative view of me which I have to work to "convince" them out of. Any advice on this issue? I just don't want to think about it so much. I believe hair is an incredibly attractive feature, and while I'm happy with my life I avoid looking in mirrors and can't help thinking it's the first thing everyone notices.
I have attached a photo of the disaster if anyone has feedback, haha.
Thanks! Interested to hear if anyone has been through a similar thing/ has advice.
I'm a 23 year old university student and have been going bald since the age of 19. It's getting pretty bad and it has had an extreme effect on my self-confidence. I am naturally personable and am able to convince everyone else I'm happy with myself and am confident, which is great for the current relationships in my life. However I am almost always aware and conscious of this issue during any social interaction. I am fine with my friends and family who know me, but whenever I meet anyone new my age I am always thinking things like "They probably think I'm a lot older than them. I'm probably coming across as a creepy old man." Again, I am generally confident and outgoing so I get along with people great and make friends easily, but I wish I didn't believe that everyone has an initial negative view of me which I have to work to "convince" them out of. Any advice on this issue? I just don't want to think about it so much. I believe hair is an incredibly attractive feature, and while I'm happy with my life I avoid looking in mirrors and can't help thinking it's the first thing everyone notices.
I have attached a photo of the disaster if anyone has feedback, haha.
Thanks! Interested to hear if anyone has been through a similar thing/ has advice.