MadScientist
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Lost hair when i was 22. called it my college graduation gift. grew up in a very rural area and went to a mostly male college. Had minimal interaction with girls during those periods of my life. Not that i was good enough looking to do well anyways.
Got a job in a small town after college. Was locked out of the local single bar scene, I seemed to be actively ignored by my same age crowd. later was introduced to one of them. she said they thought i was 40 while she was walking away and laughing. I remember she had a cute butt. One time I got together with college buddies and they tried to get me to go to a club with them. I didn't make the cut at the door. bouncers at the door weren't really rude about it, just said I would have more fun and spend less money at other places. I said it was fine with me. Made some jokes referring to hookers.
Since then have done a lot of international travel. Have had a great time with girls from Europe, Asia and South America. Also have been with several hundred hookers in my life. Nearly all were non American. Non Americans were much funner. would consider all of my hooker experiences very positive. More aggressive sex with hookers and more respect from hookers. have gotten vibe from american non hookers that they were doing me a favor or they were too shy and lame. American hookers either have too much attitude or seem scared of me. Have had opportunity to bring back foreign girls as wife, but health insurance here is just too expensive, like about $600-$1000/month for just me. double that for a spouse and triple if they have kids. its changing some now with the very high deductable plans but that poses risks too.
Have lived in the NYC area for about 25yrs. hookers used to very aggressively approach me on the street. I suspect the bald head means no gf and desperate. I would just say 'not now' and keepon walking. its not disrespectful so i don't get any push back and unusual enough that they have to think about it while i keep on walking. I have been in situations where i figure a non hooker (sometimes refer to them as civilians) have approached me and its so surprising to me i just say 'not now' and walked away. From the confused look on their face and since the scenario wasn't typical hooker environment, i'd guess in retrospect they weren't hookers.
in recent past have interacted with women at various events usually outdoor events in summer, something music, art, or boating related. Usually the scenario goes like this: i start talking to a guy or married couple i know vaguely or even a complete stranger. I have a pretty animated way of talking and can joke and laugh pretty well and bs about a variety of subjects. Girls see this and want to get in on the conversation. when I start to make any overture to the women about getting together later I've gotten some pretty aggressive rejection lately. One said 'do you actually think i would date a bald guy?'. another just bluntly said 'l don't date bald guys'. (In both cases they were both noticeably younger then me, mid 30s vs 50). In the past few years I've been at alot of outdoor events with a hat on. Rather than push for a verbal response I just take my hat off midway in the conversation to see what the response is. Most times the conversation just ends there. Sometimes the women seem to get angry that I'm testing them. Sometimes they seem shocked but the conversation goes on, but gets awkward enough that i just cut it off and say i have to be somewhere. I've also gotten some push back that i push women to hard for a sexual relationship and women just want to be an intellectual friend. I've thought about that some and pretty much decided for various reason i don't want platonic female friends, mostly because i know the relation ship will die pretty quickly.
I never wanted to have a family. for that matter never wanted to have long term relation either. just play the field and meet women and see whats available, so being alone at 50 is not a surprise to me.
Got a job in a small town after college. Was locked out of the local single bar scene, I seemed to be actively ignored by my same age crowd. later was introduced to one of them. she said they thought i was 40 while she was walking away and laughing. I remember she had a cute butt. One time I got together with college buddies and they tried to get me to go to a club with them. I didn't make the cut at the door. bouncers at the door weren't really rude about it, just said I would have more fun and spend less money at other places. I said it was fine with me. Made some jokes referring to hookers.
Since then have done a lot of international travel. Have had a great time with girls from Europe, Asia and South America. Also have been with several hundred hookers in my life. Nearly all were non American. Non Americans were much funner. would consider all of my hooker experiences very positive. More aggressive sex with hookers and more respect from hookers. have gotten vibe from american non hookers that they were doing me a favor or they were too shy and lame. American hookers either have too much attitude or seem scared of me. Have had opportunity to bring back foreign girls as wife, but health insurance here is just too expensive, like about $600-$1000/month for just me. double that for a spouse and triple if they have kids. its changing some now with the very high deductable plans but that poses risks too.
Have lived in the NYC area for about 25yrs. hookers used to very aggressively approach me on the street. I suspect the bald head means no gf and desperate. I would just say 'not now' and keepon walking. its not disrespectful so i don't get any push back and unusual enough that they have to think about it while i keep on walking. I have been in situations where i figure a non hooker (sometimes refer to them as civilians) have approached me and its so surprising to me i just say 'not now' and walked away. From the confused look on their face and since the scenario wasn't typical hooker environment, i'd guess in retrospect they weren't hookers.
in recent past have interacted with women at various events usually outdoor events in summer, something music, art, or boating related. Usually the scenario goes like this: i start talking to a guy or married couple i know vaguely or even a complete stranger. I have a pretty animated way of talking and can joke and laugh pretty well and bs about a variety of subjects. Girls see this and want to get in on the conversation. when I start to make any overture to the women about getting together later I've gotten some pretty aggressive rejection lately. One said 'do you actually think i would date a bald guy?'. another just bluntly said 'l don't date bald guys'. (In both cases they were both noticeably younger then me, mid 30s vs 50). In the past few years I've been at alot of outdoor events with a hat on. Rather than push for a verbal response I just take my hat off midway in the conversation to see what the response is. Most times the conversation just ends there. Sometimes the women seem to get angry that I'm testing them. Sometimes they seem shocked but the conversation goes on, but gets awkward enough that i just cut it off and say i have to be somewhere. I've also gotten some push back that i push women to hard for a sexual relationship and women just want to be an intellectual friend. I've thought about that some and pretty much decided for various reason i don't want platonic female friends, mostly because i know the relation ship will die pretty quickly.
I never wanted to have a family. for that matter never wanted to have long term relation either. just play the field and meet women and see whats available, so being alone at 50 is not a surprise to me.
