Update here: Did the rounds with hair transplant Dr's again, both said 1800-2200 grafts via FUT would be the right route if I wanted to do a hair transplant. 1 claimed the finasteride seemed to be helping but it certainly doesn't feel that way/ I am happy to go ahead to pull the trigger BUT I have a major hang up about people finding out I had something done. Not clear how much time I would need to take off to make sure it's totally undetectable. I never wear my hair that short so would make it hard if the if the recipient area needed to be shaved (and obviously would look weird with donor area still having longer hair). Anyone who has had it done would appreciate your input.
Here's the proposal by 1 Doctor as well, i think it was ~1800 grafts. Thought appreciated, too conservative? Just right? Should I wait?