Anyone else struggle for life motivation due to being ugly/bald?

[Feelsbadman]

You';d think being ugly and bald would motivate you to max other areas of your life like get more money and be rich and succesful but to me its the opposite
its kind of like whats the point of driving a nice car living in a big house being when ull still be ugly and lonely?
sure being mega rich will make a difference but that's unlikely to happen

so why grind and climb the corporate ladder giving away years of your life for well.. what exactly?

In the past, i had a motivation to do these things so one day i could get married and have a family
but its pointless

 

[doubleindemnity]

Yes definitely. People already consider me somewhat hardworking and so I wonder what kind of amazing person I might have been with hair.

 

[boomroasted]

Yeah, it's really easy to be happy and optimistic about life when you look good. People will tell you things like "looks don't matter". Maybe 40 years ago looks mattered less, but in the times we live in now, looks are the most important thing. Most things in life are derived from how you look.

My advice to you? Hang in there. Don't give up. Save up for surgeries/transplants if needed.

 

[doubleindemnity]

Yeah, it's really easy to be happy and optimistic about life when you look good. People will tell you things like "looks don't matter". Maybe 40 years ago looks mattered less, but in the times we live in now, looks are the most important thing. Most things in life are derived from how you look.

My advice to you? Hang in there. Don't give up. Save up for surgeries/transplants if needed.

I would disagree. Having hope and positivity has only made me feel worse when things went wrong. Going for around 3 years now. @Feelsbadman wasn't a good candidate for a hair transplant I thought. If somebody had told me and predicted the future about what hair loss would do to me when I first had crown loss, it would have been much better.

 

[Pacho]

when you are bald you should have kids already. they will give you purpose and help you to get out of the bed every morning.

if you are old and ugly with no children there is nothing much to live for, just waiting for the bitter end

 

[Pacho]

I would disagree. Having hope and positivity has only made me feel worse when things went wrong. Going for around 3 years now. @Feelsbadman wasn't a good candidate for a hair transplant I thought. If somebody had told me and predicted the future about what hair loss would do to me when I first had crown loss, it would have been much better.

now that you basically gave up on everythinh do you think it was a wise decision to not even try finasteride?

 

[KevinEdEddEddy]

Even I won't get married at least I will become a scientist I always wanted to be

 

[HansMetjen]

Even I won't get married at least I will become a scientist I always wanted to be

Scientist of what?