i would shag a million rabbits to get myself back to a nw3
And if you went completely bald young, it's a sign of serious inferior genetics, there's no hiding that.
This is an interesting topic. I have also wondered why such hate exists against people who want to gain their hair back.
I really don't know why people think hair transplants are a thing to be ashamed of.
Generally hate and shame are linked to gender, race, money or sexuality.
The only thing that comes to mind is that this may be related to the idea that society as a whole prefers that men should for some reason retain their masculinity and forgo any "metrosexual" or feminine trait.
Perhaps people mistakenly think that the men who want their hair back are being vain. And vanity is associated to metrosexuality or - worse - homosexuality? On the contrary, beards are considered masculine and desirable for a "real" man even for fundamentalists of all monotheistic religions.
I know it is a far stretch. If someone has a better theory, they are welcome to share it.
Don't worry about hair colour unless you're under 25. Even under that, it can look cool with good hair though, lots of people dye their hair salt and pepper too. Also hair dye provides an easy fix to restore colour. No grey/white for me yet and I'm in my early 30s.
A guy like below could dye it or not, still would be attractive.
Romney is all white hair basically but selectively dyes it for an age appropriate look. He looks fantastic for 70, a handsome guy.
So your problem is not the gray then but hair loss coupled with grey hair. Different story.