BadHairGenes
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Okay, my story is not that much different from most other stories in here, but never the less i still feel the need to share it 
I'm a 20year old male, and up until the age of 18 i had never experienced any signs of hairloss. It actually began at around mid 18, where i first got my hair dyed all blonde. At that time i had relatively long hair for a dude, slicked all back. God i miss those days sitting here thinking about it. Anyway, from that point on i just hit an era of what i would call extreme hairloss. When i was about 19 i realized that i had to try a new hairstyle as the old one clearly left my receding hairline all exposed. At that time it didn't really bother me that much as i still had plenty of hair to cover up the temples. However, things rapidly got worse, and i got to a point where i couldn't stand the hair which i had always held so dear, and saw as one of my best features. I spend an insane amount of time in the bathroom trying to fix my hair in the best possible position to cover up my hairloss, only to walk out on a windy day and get it ruined, and i would in turn spend the same amount of time in a bathroom at school fixing my hair back. Lets just say that era caps and hats became my best friends, and the wind my worst enemy :woot:
However, i couldn't always hide under a cap, and often i naturally got reminded of the horrible truth that laid underneath. It became so depressing that at times i would just stand in front of the mirror, cursing god and even my mom and dad for giving birth to me and my horrible hair genes. At first i went for the support of my parents, which isn't and never really was there. They can’t see the problem and my mom would tell me that i am still a really handsome guy even if i lose all my hair and then cast the issue aside, and my dad would just shake his head at my vanity, naturally he can't put himself in my position having a full head of hair himself. What a b**ch :woot:
What is even more frustrating is the fact that no one of my friends are experiencing the same as I am. They are not so understanding, and whenever I might bring up the issue, they just tell me that they are soooo glad that they are not losing their hair as I am, and that they would probably kill themselves if they did and so on and so forth.
I recently cut my hair very short, and I’m really down and depressed about my current hair-state. I just don’t know what the hell I’m going to do.
Anyway, right now I just feel like I have this major problem in my life and no one understands how I feel, and I can’t really do anything about it myself. Or yes I can naturally get treatments for it, but I’m just scared to death about all the horror stories of permanent sides from finasteride etc. However, just going bald is not really a solution either, as I have yet another problem. I got this “!&/â€Â¤%& huge scar in the back of my head from an accident when I was very young. Sometimes I just think to myself how darn unlucky I am… What are the odds.
I would really appreciate any thoughts, support or ideas that u guys might have.
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I'm a 20year old male, and up until the age of 18 i had never experienced any signs of hairloss. It actually began at around mid 18, where i first got my hair dyed all blonde. At that time i had relatively long hair for a dude, slicked all back. God i miss those days sitting here thinking about it. Anyway, from that point on i just hit an era of what i would call extreme hairloss. When i was about 19 i realized that i had to try a new hairstyle as the old one clearly left my receding hairline all exposed. At that time it didn't really bother me that much as i still had plenty of hair to cover up the temples. However, things rapidly got worse, and i got to a point where i couldn't stand the hair which i had always held so dear, and saw as one of my best features. I spend an insane amount of time in the bathroom trying to fix my hair in the best possible position to cover up my hairloss, only to walk out on a windy day and get it ruined, and i would in turn spend the same amount of time in a bathroom at school fixing my hair back. Lets just say that era caps and hats became my best friends, and the wind my worst enemy :woot:
However, i couldn't always hide under a cap, and often i naturally got reminded of the horrible truth that laid underneath. It became so depressing that at times i would just stand in front of the mirror, cursing god and even my mom and dad for giving birth to me and my horrible hair genes. At first i went for the support of my parents, which isn't and never really was there. They can’t see the problem and my mom would tell me that i am still a really handsome guy even if i lose all my hair and then cast the issue aside, and my dad would just shake his head at my vanity, naturally he can't put himself in my position having a full head of hair himself. What a b**ch :woot:
What is even more frustrating is the fact that no one of my friends are experiencing the same as I am. They are not so understanding, and whenever I might bring up the issue, they just tell me that they are soooo glad that they are not losing their hair as I am, and that they would probably kill themselves if they did and so on and so forth.
I recently cut my hair very short, and I’m really down and depressed about my current hair-state. I just don’t know what the hell I’m going to do.
Anyway, right now I just feel like I have this major problem in my life and no one understands how I feel, and I can’t really do anything about it myself. Or yes I can naturally get treatments for it, but I’m just scared to death about all the horror stories of permanent sides from finasteride etc. However, just going bald is not really a solution either, as I have yet another problem. I got this “!&/â€Â¤%& huge scar in the back of my head from an accident when I was very young. Sometimes I just think to myself how darn unlucky I am… What are the odds.
I would really appreciate any thoughts, support or ideas that u guys might have.
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