Balding Men Must Accept Their Subpar Genetics, And That They're Less Desirable.

tracker54

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This is actually something I've heard from multiple women, when just shooting sh*t about hairloss and such. Their rationale is:

- Balding men that haven't shaved their heads (i.e elaborate cover-ups / combovers / concealers / etc.) yet, are signaling denial or desperation - which is a turn-off.

- Balding men that actively treat their hair loss, are seen as insecure and superficial - because they're trying to fight the inevitable, and should just be men enough to shave their heads. Which is also a turn-off. It's signaling "I'm so self-conscious about my hair, I'm willing to spend thousands of dollars to keep what is left, instead of just getting over with it".

- However, once you've first shaved your hair, you must not show insecurity - as that's a turn-off as well. You must also accept that certain women just don't like the shaved / short haired look...but only if it's natural / not contrived.

- Women get a free pass on all kinds of cosmetic enhancements, while men do not. Men should figure out, and survive with the tools they're given.

That's the gist of what I've hear from some. It all really boils down to: Showing insecurity or denial is a turn-off, and you should spend your time and resources on more important things - But you should also accept that certain women only like fullheads.
 

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This is actually something I've heard from multiple women, when just shooting sh*t about hairloss and such. Their rationale is:

- Balding men that haven't shaved their heads (i.e elaborate cover-ups / combovers / concealers / etc.) yet, are signaling denial or desperation - which is a turn-off.

- Balding men that actively treat their hair loss, are seen as insecure and superficial - because they're trying to fight the inevitable, and should just be men enough to shave their heads. Which is also a turn-off. It's signaling "I'm so self-conscious about my hair, I'm willing to spend thousands of dollars to keep what is left, instead of just getting over with it".

- However, once you've first shaved your hair, you must not show insecurity - as that's a turn-off as well. You must also accept that certain women just don't like the shaved / short haired look...but only if it's natural / not contrived.

- Women get a free pass on all kinds of cosmetic enhancements, while men do not. Men should figure out, and survive with the tools they're given.

That's the gist of what I've hear from some. It all really boils down to: Showing insecurity or denial is a turn-off, and you should spend your time and resources on more important things - But you should also accept that certain women only like fullheads.
Unfortunately you are correct.

Not much we can do apart from take our medication in private and not exhibit fear of baldness in public.
 

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In five years this kind of thread will be redundant.
 

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You are correct but the reasoning is wrong.

Bald men are singled out as being undateable. It's the baldness directly, not the qualities (insecurity etc.) that a man shows with it. For example, I've been openly flirtatious while having a grown out diffuse NW6. Insecure? Superficial? Absolutely not. The point is that a NW6 can not and will not be successful in dating or having children. The bald genes must not be allowed to propagate.
 

blackg

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You are correct but the reasoning is wrong.

Bald men are singled out as being undateable. It's the baldness directly, not the qualities (insecurity etc.) that a man shows with it. For example, I've been openly flirtatious while having a grown out diffuse NW6. Insecure? Superficial? Absolutely not. The point is that a NW6 can not and will not be successful in dating or having children. The bald genes must not be allowed to propagate.
No woman secretly wants her offspring to inherit the bald gene.
 

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This is why the best thing you can do as a balding man is effectively treat your hairloss and never speak a word of it to the women you are dating

Let her put the pieces together on her own, when you are living together and applying minoxidil before bed :D
 

doubleindemnity

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No woman secretly wants her offspring to inherit the bald gene.

It's not even 'secretly wants'. It is almost like there is this feeling inside a woman that she can't explain that stops her from giving any bald man a chance. I don't blame women because I don't feel like it's conscious. There's something wrong with us and we must be purged. "How could you be so insolent to think that you could ever have children?" It's incredibly harsh but that's the vibe that I get from women.
 
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