Baldness Is Worse As You Get Older. The Reasons Why

[KyleTroy]

Im constantly hearing "if I can just make it to 30 or 40 before going cue-ball I'm good".

I think this is very-well reasoned out thinking. However, when you get to 30 or 40, or talk to a single or divorced man at that age (or 50 for that matter).......who is trying to meet an even somewhat attractive female at that point. IT IS HARDER.

1. The women at that age are almost all divorced. And the first reality with trying to ask a woman out of that age is she has vowed to herself that she is going to "have it all" this go-around. In other words, she is going to date UP........WAY UP. (or try to)

2. With the internet, these women ALL conflate attention with "interest". But it usually doesnt matter, because she probably is on alimony and wouldnt want to actually remarry anyway. So what you have is that the 60 percent of "datable" women of that range, they are almost universally self delusional that alphas are actually "interested in them".

3. Feminism. My young friends, you have no idea what life was like before feminism completely polluted men women relationships. The basis of which that women are to be "equal" with men, but that men have to be smarter, richer, taller, stronger, and tougher than them.

4. Baldness in the workplace as you age......to middle age.......is perhaps even worse. You are utterly replaceable by young college graduates. The only exception are certain "white male" tradcons such as "nuclear energy" in which they cannot have any exceptions ot actual mathematical ability and an established military trajectory, etc.

5. When you get older you get uglier and fatter. Combine that with baldness and you are suddenly that guy on "match" who is a 7 and now a 4 will not even RESPOND to your "hello"

To make this graphic, THIS guy can only get a date if he is famous and rich.

 

[shookwun]

rele?

My foreman is in his early fifties Diffuse NW4 and gets laid more his entire crew, including myself. Thanks to Tinder.

The guy is literally smashing five different chicks at once. He jokes all the time, about his dick falling off in the process.

The difference? He's a handsome balding guy.


Ugly is ugly. deal with it.



Ugly dudes are always justifying there inability to get laid.

 

[Saurabhaj]

I strongly dislike when people say (hairloss is common in men and some specific study says that research has found out hairloss affect 50 % of men at 50.(whatever.).

Hairloss of young 18/20 year guy should not be compared with hairloss of 45 years old guy.

In young guys..hair loss can ruin every aspect of that person.

Young guys do not have experience and ability to handle such unfortunate experiences.

 

[Obesecat]

Look Baldness sucks at any age. Honestly though if you see a 40+ year old who is bald you are not going to think he looks abnormal or old. You are going to think. Hey he looks his age.

 

[Trichosan]

Sorry, it's much easier. Trust me.

 

[Chromedome1990]

Sorry, but balding before 20 takes the cake. You haven't even had a chance to live life yet. While others around you are constantly experimenting with crazy hairstyles, you're stuck having to resort to elaborate combovers just to look even remotely normal. You won't look your age, and your peers will assume you're just some creepy guy 10 years older than them when really you're the same age as them. The halo effect is very real, and people will assume just because you look like garbage, you're a garbage person. This is especially true for Gen Z kids who grew up on social media and take selfies every 5 minutes, hell it's bad enough for millennials like myself. First impressions are incredibly important in this day and age, whether it's trying to talk to a girl, meeting new people, or going in for your first job interview. What exactly is going to go through someone's mind when you're talking to them, they see your diffusing/receding bird's nest, and you tell them how old you are?

End of my mini rant. Now I'll dissect each of your points from the perspective of someone who started going bald before 20:

1. The women at this age are used to dating guys with Zayn Malik heads of hair. Imagine trying to ask out a girl when you're already diffusing badly. Women don't even date up at this age, because the vast, vast, vast majority of guys still have incredible heads of hair and are pretty much 7s by default. Any guy with hair who is remotely good looking can get women at this age. Except for the poor sap who got cucked by DHT sensitive follicles passed down to him by his bowling ball-headed ancestors.

2. With the internet, women are screwing numerous guys thanks to applications that promote promiscuity and degeneracy, namely Tinder and OKCupid. What matters the most on these hubs of degeneracy? Looks. And hair is an incredibly important part of your appearance, it's practically the first thing anybody sees in a person. Are you really going to be taken seriously if you're plain faced, but also Norwood 4 at age 19? Probably not. Compare that to someone with an identical face who's still got their 12 year old hairline.

3. Feminism. While 3rd wave feminism has left its mark on society, it itself really hasn't had an effect on dating preferences on women. Women in 1970 would have been disgusted by a plain faced 19 year old Norwood 4, albeit probably to a slightly lesser extent. Smartphones and the cancer they've inflicted on society are much more to blame.

4. Imagine baldness in the workplace at your first job straight out of college. You are utterly replaceable by more extroverted fullheads who don't have a chip on their shoulder since they weren't genetically cursed. To put it another way, would these balding middle aged employees really be that easily replaceable by a balding 23 year old? I don't think so.

5. Now imagine getting older and fatter when you've never gotten to live life in your teens, 20s, and 30s. Sounds like fun, doesn't it? At middle age being bald doesn't matter as much anymore, except for the fact that you have no good memories/fun times to look back on. People who never responded to you, guess what? They'll still never respond to you!

I was incredibly close to disliking the OP, but I didn't want to turn into "that guy."

 

[CopeForLife]

what you listed is just a subset of what young bald guy experiences

 

[RayCox]

It is not getting easier, no matter what age you started. Women are still picky with unbelievably high standards. A new female acquaintance of mine is mid forties and heavily overweight of course. I would rate her a 3. When she told me that she had a date, I thought "Good for her; can't have that many." Guess what? She has at least two dates per month; sometimes more. I don't know what the guys look like, but jeez. If she was a guy, it would be game over.

 

[Exodus2011]

well i was norwood 6 bald at 21 and now at 24 and a half i think i've been getting deeper into dead cope mode as the years have gone by.

my avatar represents what i have become. i'm a wizard but not just any wizard, i'm a master warlock of otherwordly magicks. i exist entirely in a 5th dimensional color-negative alternative astral plane, unseen and unheard. years of baldcel basement dwelling coping autism has rendered me invulnerable to harm, but unable to affect physical reality.

 

[DoctorHouse]

It is not getting easier, no matter what age you started. Women are still picky with unbelievably high standards. A new female acquaintance of mine is mid forties and heavily overweight of course. I would rate her a 3. When she told me that she had a date, I thought "Good for her; can't have that many." Guess what? She has at least two dates per month; sometimes more. I don't know what the guys look like, but jeez. If she was a guy, it would be game over.

Now a days, people are so lonely and depressed that if anyone just talks to them, they might welcome the company. I also think many people are open to charity dating too so they won't have to be alone. Misery loves company.

 

[Saurabhaj]

Sorry, but balding before 20 takes the cake. You haven't even had a chance to live life yet. While others around you are constantly experimenting with crazy hairstyles, you're stuck having to resort to elaborate combovers just to look even remotely normal. You won't look your age, and your peers will assume you're just some creepy guy 10 years older than them when really you're the same age as them. The halo effect is very real, and people will assume just because you look like garbage, you're a garbage person. This is especially true for Gen Z kids who grew up on social media and take selfies every 5 minutes, hell it's bad enough for millennials like myself. First impressions are incredibly important in this day and age, whether it's trying to talk to a girl, meeting new people, or going in for your first job interview. What exactly is going to go through someone's mind when you're talking to them, they see your diffusing/receding bird's nest, and you tell them how old you are?

End of my mini rant. Now I'll dissect each of your points from the perspective of someone who started going bald before 20:

1. The women at this age are used to dating guys with Zayn Malik heads of hair. Imagine trying to ask out a girl when you're already diffusing badly. Women don't even date up at this age, because the vast, vast, vast majority of guys still have incredible heads of hair and are pretty much 7s by default. Any guy with hair who is remotely good looking can get women at this age. Except for the poor sap who got cucked by DHT sensitive follicles passed down to him by his bowling ball-headed ancestors.

2. With the internet, women are screwing numerous guys thanks to applications that promote promiscuity and degeneracy, namely Tinder and OKCupid. What matters the most on these hubs of degeneracy? Looks. And hair is an incredibly important part of your appearance, it's practically the first thing anybody sees in a person. Are you really going to be taken seriously if you're plain faced, but also Norwood 4 at age 19? Probably not. Compare that to someone with an identical face who's still got their 12 year old hairline.

3. Feminism. While 3rd wave feminism has left its mark on society, it itself really hasn't had an effect on dating preferences on women. Women in 1970 would have been disgusted by a plain faced 19 year old Norwood 4, albeit probably to a slightly lesser extent. Smartphones and the cancer they've inflicted on society are much more to blame.

4. Imagine baldness in the workplace at your first job straight out of college. You are utterly replaceable by more extroverted fullheads who don't have a chip on their shoulder since they weren't genetically cursed. To put it another way, would these balding middle aged employees really be that easily replaceable by a balding 23 year old? I don't think so.

5. Now imagine getting older and fatter when you've never gotten to live life in your teens, 20s, and 30s. Sounds like fun, doesn't it? At middle age being bald doesn't matter as much anymore, except for the fact that you have no good memories/fun times to look back on. People who never responded to you, guess what? They'll still never respond to you!

"

Awesome.

 

[CopeForLife]

well i was norwood 6 bald at 21 and now at 24 and a half i think i've been getting deeper into dead cope mode as the years have gone by.

my avatar represents what i have become. i'm a wizard but not just any wizard, i'm a master warlock of otherwordly magicks. i exist entirely in a 5th dimensional color-negative alternative astral plane, unseen and unheard. years of baldcel basement dwelling coping autism has rendered me invulnerable to harm, but unable to affect physical reality.

amazing drugs supply in your neighborhood

 

[shookwun]

Sorry, but balding before 20 takes the cake. You haven't even had a chance to live life yet. While others around you are constantly experimenting with crazy hairstyles, you're stuck having to resort to elaborate combovers just to look even remotely normal. You won't look your age, and your peers will assume you're just some creepy guy 10 years older than them when really you're the same age as them. The halo effect is very real, and people will assume just because you look like garbage, you're a garbage person. This is especially true for Gen Z kids who grew up on social media and take selfies every 5 minutes, hell it's bad enough for millennials like myself. First impressions are incredibly important in this day and age, whether it's trying to talk to a girl, meeting new people, or going in for your first job interview. What exactly is going to go through someone's mind when you're talking to them, they see your diffusing/receding bird's nest, and you tell them how old you are?

End of my mini rant. Now I'll dissect each of your points from the perspective of someone who started going bald before 20:

1. The women at this age are used to dating guys with Zayn Malik heads of hair. Imagine trying to ask out a girl when you're already diffusing badly. Women don't even date up at this age, because the vast, vast, vast majority of guys still have incredible heads of hair and are pretty much 7s by default. Any guy with hair who is remotely good looking can get women at this age. Except for the poor sap who got cucked by DHT sensitive follicles passed down to him by his bowling ball-headed ancestors.

2. With the internet, women are screwing numerous guys thanks to applications that promote promiscuity and degeneracy, namely Tinder and OKCupid. What matters the most on these hubs of degeneracy? Looks. And hair is an incredibly important part of your appearance, it's practically the first thing anybody sees in a person. Are you really going to be taken seriously if you're plain faced, but also Norwood 4 at age 19? Probably not. Compare that to someone with an identical face who's still got their 12 year old hairline.

3. Feminism. While 3rd wave feminism has left its mark on society, it itself really hasn't had an effect on dating preferences on women. Women in 1970 would have been disgusted by a plain faced 19 year old Norwood 4, albeit probably to a slightly lesser extent. Smartphones and the cancer they've inflicted on society are much more to blame.

4. Imagine baldness in the workplace at your first job straight out of college. You are utterly replaceable by more extroverted fullheads who don't have a chip on their shoulder since they weren't genetically cursed. To put it another way, would these balding middle aged employees really be that easily replaceable by a balding 23 year old? I don't think so.

5. Now imagine getting older and fatter when you've never gotten to live life in your teens, 20s, and 30s. Sounds like fun, doesn't it? At middle age being bald doesn't matter as much anymore, except for the fact that you have no good memories/fun times to look back on. People who never responded to you, guess what? They'll still never respond to you!

I was incredibly close to disliking the OP, but I didn't want to turn into "that guy."

Have you considered wearing a hat and learning game?

 

[Exodus2011]

amazing drugs supply in your neighborhood

lol its stuff thats popped into my head over the years from years of basement dwelling. especialy cuz i havent even done online school since 2016. so im a true dweller now

i like ambient electronic a lot and my avatar is from an ambient music video. great song and video. it really vibes with me, stuff that sounds like youre an invisible ghost living that kind of negative zone existence

 

[Calchas]

my avatar represents what i have become. i'm a wizard but not just any wizard, i'm a master warlock of otherwordly magicks. i exist entirely in a 5th dimensional color-negative alternative astral plane, unseen and unheard. years of baldcel basement dwelling coping autism has rendered me invulnerable to harm, but unable to affect physical reality.

The real misery is to still feel uninspired to affect physical reality,even though you can...That's the real dead-end for me.

 

[Exodus2011]

Deep but terrifying for you. Do well at school, start living as best as you can in all areas and get some therapy to help you Ex. Make a few normal good friends to socialise with and open up to.

lol dont worry i was being half scarcastic

the joke is once you're a 30 year old virgin you become a wizard lmfao. hence the name of the infamous forum wizardchan

 

[Exodus2011]

The real misery is to still feel uninspired to affect physical reality,even though you can...That's the real dead-end for me.

thats my situation too, i could work and get a hair transplant i just don't have the motivation lol

 

[sadila]

the amount of data we have in some threads in here about all the wild impacts hairloss can have on someone is enough evidence to demonstrate how urgent it is to adress hairloss, that's even more urgent to adress than the 2nd amendment in my opinion.
The first candidate for presidency promessing to cure hairloss will be getting my vote.

 

[kj6723]

Eh, I don't think so. More or your peers will be bald/balding so even though it still sucks it will be less isolating

However I do agree that the "I just want a good head of hair till I'm 30" crowd are in for a wake up call

 

[Chromedome1990]

Have you considered wearing a hat and learning game?

"Game" can only take you so far when you're practically a gargoyle with pathetic hair.