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cacciato

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I started noticing changes maybe a year or so ago, but honestly I had even noted what type of hairline I had, and had longish hair at the time. I thought I was just mistreating my hair in some way, balding didn't seem to be a potential affliction at 21! I was not aware of how common it was, and did not look at other people my age.

In my 3rd year of college, totally caught by surprise. I feel I am now so much older looking, I am an outcast among all my peers who have normal hair. I cut it shorter and make no more attempts to cover it up. I was not going to hide it, as I know that would be even more unhealthy. I see looks of pity from some people. I was already stressed out, but this adds to my worries and I feel a large aspect of my youth is lost. My self-esteem is also much worse. I am short (5'6") and had struggled with that, the flat out dismissal from certain women, the ridicule by certain people, and finally, for about a period of 2 years, I had been attractive and confident. Now I am hit with another uncontrollable physical trait, a victim of genetics. Others have it worse, but I definitely got a shorter stick.


4 months of partial misery and worrying, and now I am adjusting to the idea of shaving my head. From reading forums, I know that those are worse off are the ones that dwell, the ones who cannot let go. No changes in my hair for the rest of my life, I will still be able to attract some people. It still is a big drag, though.

Treatment right now is Minoxidil and Finastertide (1.25 fincar a day). Going on 3 months for the former and .5 months for the latter. I am still optimistic, I am young so recovery should be good, but everything is slow and I still have thoughts like "this is all hair on lease that I am getting", "it may not even go back to being good for long, if at all".

I hope for some holy grail fix within 6 years, although for my mental health I do not count on it.

Here is a link to my pictures, norwood 2.5 - 3 I believe.

http://www.hairlosshelp.com/websites/carrotcake/

I suppose what I would appreciate is anyone who has seen similar hairloss at my age, I'd like to know how they recovered and for how long so I can see possible outcomes for the future, what my expectations should be. Is there a chance I will be a poor responder?

Look forward to posting on these forums, have a nice day everyone.
 

psych721027

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You know, if it doesn't go back to the way it used to be, who cares. The experiment failed and you can always shave it.

And there's always the hope for HM to come out soon.

If all else fails, just shave it. Seems ok for Vin Deisel.
 
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