Do you feel you have a talent that is being held back?

[Guest]

Everyone here who's going through the horrible situation of losing their hair; do you have a particular skill that you are proud of or that you feel many people can't do? - and when you get out of the baldness situation you will use it to it's maximum? :twisted:

Do you feel hairloss is holding you back?

I suppose this question would (maybe) apply to those in their early 20's like myself.

I'm a big Football fan (Soccer to the Americans on here) and I like to practice as much a possible. It's probably one of the few things that keeps the smile on the face. Anyway, yesterday I was playing by myself when I started to do some ball juggling - I ended up doing a total of 1080 keepy uppy's with a football (soccer ball) without the ball touching the floor - beating my previous record of 711 by a mile. This lasted for around 15 minutes, when I got to 1079 losing concentration thus finishing on 1080. (one thousand and eighty ) I should have felt 100% proud because 1000+ is a great target. Problem was, only I was their to witness this. I never thought I'd reach the holy grail of 1000+ tap ups but I did yesterday.

It sounds silly, but when my appearance returns and my hair isn’t a problem, I feel I can use this to it's maximum. It's like I need that 'one' thing to click into place before everything does. That's the difference I seriously think it makes for me.

I wasn’t prepared for this situation (hairloss = altered appearance, losing my best asset) and it's hurt me a lot. No matter what I say to myself, the thought of having shocking hair doesn’t leave my head. I think about it 24/7 and that is shocking. I had normal hair 2 years ago so that's the reason why I am feeling like I am.

Anyway, do any of you feel you have a skill/talent that you will use to it's maximum, when/if your hair problem gets sorted?

:rockon:

 

[Ireallyhatethis]

I can't really relate to the talent thing lol. But I Can relate to the constant thinking about it 24/7 and the fact that its the one thing, that if it wasnt there, I would be totally happy and fine. Although we must face reality and we got two choices, try to stop it while we can, or just give up. Which in turn could mean letting yourself go bald and living with it, or the giving up completely, which we all know is way too drastic, but still crosses my mind every once in awhile. I think the hardest part about it is that all of my friends when I bring it up just dismiss it as if it is nothing to worry about, while I am sitting there pouring my heart out to them and they don't even care. Ahh what are you gonna do, just gotta keep truckin I suppose, but hang in there, and 1000 is alot dude, congratulations, I can do like 100 at most haha, see ya

 

[drinkrum]

I want to be a hair model, but alas ...

Gunner, I don't think you should let male pattern baldness get in the way of your dreams playing football. Girls will flock to any football player who is amazing ...

D.

 

[Grantspots]

I do.

Andre Agassi

So do I...

Bruce Willis

 

[Stingray]

No.

 

[black12inch]

ya like hitting on women with ease..swimming and getting out and not worryn' about how your hair looks.