Embarrassment at the Bar Post-Transplant

[Dude,Where'sMyHair]

So I am at the local watering hole down by the beach, which I frequent about three (3) times per week, with the guys the other night, and I got called out by a waitress. She was talking to my friend and then makes this random comment about how she likes my trucker hat.

She states that she wants to see it, and I tell her "no". The waitress then responds with "what are you bald or something?" I reply by telling her "yeah, so what...there are a lot of guys my age (29 years old, by the way) that are starting to go bald." She then says she was just wondering because I am always wearing a hat up there.

The crazy thing is that the older waitresses at his particular bar do not wonder what is under the hat because they have all seen me out without a hat. But, this waitress has not known us for long, and I just had work done a month ago!

Anyways, looks like I am going to have to avoid that place like a plague until my recipient area redness goes down because this young, little hottie is the type that would come up to me from behind and rip my damn hat off.

The night ended shortly after this incident. I finished my beer and got the guys convinced that it was time to take off. But, still, it was quite embarrassing!

 

[s.a.f]

:crazy: Painful to read! :blush: But I'm sure she just spoke before thinking, remember most people have no idea how it feels.

 

[Ackers24]

Dont worry about it mate, i just had a convo with my EX about being bald and she said she doesnt find me attractive because im bald and that she should of never dated me in the first place, and i would be good-looking if i had nice hair...life can suck sometimes!

 

[Hans Gruber]

Dont worry about it mate, i just had a convo with my EX about being bald and she said she doesnt find me attractive because im bald and that she should of never dated me in the first place, and i would be good-looking if i had nice hair...life can suck sometimes!

lol sounds like such a charming young lady!

 

[Ackers24]

Well we are still friends, and i asked her for her honest opinion on the matter, she's just one of the women who prefers hair, but shes told me shes fancied bald guys before, so obviously theres other factors involved, probably because i dont have a buff body, but was cool to here a real opinion from someone i can trust, i still really like the girl, so it kinda sucks she doesnt find me attractive, but feck all i can do about it....nevermind though eh, life goes on!!

 

[s.a.f]

Take her down a dark alley and put the moves on her. :mrgreen:

 

[Lucky_UK]

I had a few scary moments when I was recovering from my hair transplant, I ended up putting my social life on hold till I could do away with the hat

 

[Ackers24]

No way SAF, shes made it perfectly clear that we will never be anything more than friends, i asked her if shes ever gonna let me kiss her again, her answer was NO, so i said why?, because of the way i look, and she said YES! because of no hair..soooo im not gonna bother putting moves on her, all i will get in return is a kick in the balls and i kinda dont really like that

 

[s.a.f]

Dont worry I was only joking, :mrgreen: I was having a dig at an old CCS post about one of his sisters boyfreinds theories.

 

[blueshard]

Akers, your ex girlfriend effing sucks man, lol... why in the world would you want to be anywhere NEAR such a awful, inconsiderate, STUPID, highly impressionable, INSECURE piece of poop.

People like her FADE AWAY into the background and live meaningless bullshittt lives with a focal point of making impressions on people.

Rise above that crap......move on but be nothing but nice to her. Find strength and confidence through self exploration and YOU WILL NOT BELIEVE what will happen in your life....you will not believe how many GORGEOUS, COMPASSIONATE, INTELLIGENT WOMEN are out there who will WANT TO BE WITH YOU!

The media has efffed all of us up big time.... realize this and move on.

I am struggling with this as well man, but I know that when I find my confidence and strength... ssshit just falls into place and people respect the hell out of you.

 

[Nathaniel]

Wow this thread is depressing sorry guys. I feel all your pain even though I don't have a transplant and have yet to be called bald by a chic. It'll happen eventually I imagine.

 

[IBM]

At least she was honest. Would you kiss a fat and ugly chick if she insisted? I dont think so.

 

[RaginDemon]

Wow this thread is depressing sorry guys. I feel all your pain even though I don't have a transplant and have yet to be called bald by a chic. It'll happen eventually I imagine.

it all depends on your age, if you are 30+ and work in a corporation whereas half of the older fellas are balding, nobody would give a rat f*** about your hair loss/thinning.

 

[Bald Dave]

Dont worry about it mate, i just had a convo with my EX about being bald and she said she doesnt find me attractive because im bald and that she should of never dated me in the first place, and i would be good-looking if i had nice hair...life can suck sometimes!

Your better off without her mate! Biatches like that deserve an a**h** to treat them like sh*t!

 

[s.a.f]

If I had a NW1 I would be that a**h**!
She could expect some of this :smack:
Followed by some of this :hump:

 

[RaginDemon]

yeah ditch that b**ch.

 

[Bald Dave]

I think that biatch will meet the guy of her dreams (one with a full NW1 but with a sh*t personality that treats her like sh*t). I knew a girl who was into the handsome bad boys at a young age but now only goes for average nice guys (I wonder why that is lol). So don't worry mate you find someone who will love you and treat you with respect!

 

[Ackers24]

well hes 28 and yeah his hair is perfect from the picture ive seen...he aint a badboy though, hes sensible..thats why she likes him...sounds boring to me...ANYWAY...ive cut all contact with her now cos im sick of her sh*t, and i aint gonna hang around watching her date otherguys, its just torture...i dont actually understand why i like her, i mean shes quite the b**ch and she isnt amazingly good-looking, but i guess when she is being cool, i really love her personality...aw well i'll be more careful next time i pick a girl to go after.

rock on baldies!!! unk:

 

[blueshard]

good ackers, move on. :bravo:

 

[recboi]

If you've recently had the surgery, you probably shouldn't be drinking. it thins out the blood and make healing more difficult... I've had a worse problem. I had bad hair transplant, and my corrective procedures aren't perfect (though for some reason I can get good looking girls to date me, I gues you have to know what you're looking for), and some guy from across the bar asked "do you have plugs?" and of course I denied it... Good thing is that bars are usually low light..