Eve Removes Her Wig During Dinner | First Dates

[Aldrich]

Let's take a moment to think about this video and situation. We all know what would've happened if it was the other way around: the guy was wearing a wig. The b**ch would've stood up and walked away without a word. But, because it's a woman, everything changes. Even the comments section is full of MUH BRAVERY, MUH STRONG WOMAN, MUH BEAUTIFUL.

Do you f*****g think this would ever happen for a man? I'm pretty sure that bald shaming is at least 90% because of the gender. And guess what? Someone commented on the guy's teeth, of course. And it turns out that the b**ch rejected him in the end. Just look at some of the comments:

bhavisha_ s4 days ago
she's even more beautiful without hair!

thomascampr4 days ago
She looks 100 times better without that wig

Shafayat kn4 days ago
His teeth thou.....

Allia Mahmoud4 days ago (edited)
She is beautiful! And he is so sweet!

inodoras4 days ago
People with alopecia always look so beautiful without the hair. They just seem to have such a nice facial structure and a skull shape. I wish more women would be comfortable with their balds

f*****g lol. I'm on suicide watch.

 

[yetti]

She does actually look a lot better without the wig.

 

[Xander94]

What a jewel of a man.

 

[Patrick_Bateman]

I saw this on the frontpage of reddit the other day. According to what I read in the comments this woman didn't just reject him.

https://www.reddit.com/r/wholesomegifs/comments/6ar8bq/beautiful_first_date/

axflynn 229 points 2 days ago
Yeah. At the end they reveal , in each other's presence, whether they are up for a second date. She seemed into him; giggling and making positive noises. He was clearly into her. The interviewer asks would you like to meet again. She tells him to go first. He says that he would. She says nah. It's fine that she didn't want to but in this case I think you should have the good grace to go first. Just my opinion.

She didn't only reject him. She wanted to make sure that he wanted her and only then say no.

 

[Aldrich]

The more I think about it, the more bald shaming turns into the shaming of men who weren't born top 1% genetics. Women talk about unrealistic beauty standards not set by men, but set by themselves as they compete for the 1% man. 99% of all other men don't matter, which is why you can shame them into oblivion. What women call "oppression" is just top tier chad rejecting them. I can't imagine what it's like for manlets. That's even worse than balding. They can do f*** all about it, while we at least can "just shave it bro".

 

[whatevr]

I saw this on the frontpage of reddit the other day. According to what I read in the comments this woman didn't just reject him.

https://www.reddit.com/r/wholesomegifs/comments/6ar8bq/beautiful_first_date/

axflynn 229 points 2 days ago
Yeah. At the end they reveal , in each other's presence, whether they are up for a second date. She seemed into him; giggling and making positive noises. He was clearly into her. The interviewer asks would you like to meet again. She tells him to go first. He says that he would. She says nah. It's fine that she didn't want to but in this case I think you should have the good grace to go first. Just my opinion.

She didn't only reject him. She wanted to make sure that he wanted her and only then say no.

TBH he seemed kinda grossed out deep down but was trying to play it off as if he was taken back by her positivity and how brave she was to show it off. And then "it suits you" - yeah i mean it really does, doesn't it? Her head looks like a mess... He was just being PC at that point.
Sure the wig looks crap but it still looks better than what she's got underneath - if she got a semi-realistic wig who the hell would know? She wouldn't even have to tell anyone.

I don't know if I'd personally date a chick with hair loss. Even if she wore a wig the entire time - I know it takes an emotional toll and causes people to be insecure. As if I don't have enough of that on my own?

I mean TBH one of the things I look at in women now that I'm aware of hair loss is that they have legit and healthy hair. Think about that - if we potentially date and down the line want to have children, isn't it enough that I carry the male pattern baldness gene? Do we really have to double the chances of the kid getting absolutely fucked over by me dating a chick who has alopecia areata or FPB or any other type of hair loss? Hell no.

 

[TylerDurdenn]

I saw the same with a black dude, he set up dates via a dating app, waited 3-4(?) months, shaved his head, met them, took off his caps during the date and all the girls left lol.. He just told them he went bald since he took the pics haha. I think maybe one stayed to finish the date

Edit: Tried to find the video but no luck..

Edit 2:

, a link to the guy who did it, in the end its a link to the actual video, but it has been removed..

 

[Rudiger]

I saw this on the frontpage of reddit the other day. According to what I read in the comments this woman didn't just reject him.

https://www.reddit.com/r/wholesomegifs/comments/6ar8bq/beautiful_first_date/

axflynn 229 points 2 days ago
Yeah. At the end they reveal , in each other's presence, whether they are up for a second date. She seemed into him; giggling and making positive noises. He was clearly into her. The interviewer asks would you like to meet again. She tells him to go first. He says that he would. She says nah. It's fine that she didn't want to but in this case I think you should have the good grace to go first. Just my opinion.

She didn't only reject him. She wanted to make sure that he wanted her and only then say no.

I'm normally pretty level-headed when it comes to the women bashing on here, in comparison with the average "red-pilled" internet goer, but this action is un-for-f*****g-giveable.

I see this show and often the woman is at least decent enough to jump in early, and quickly diffuse potential embarrassment for him with the "we'd be good friends" sh*t. If he jumps in with "I LOVE HER" first then that's one thing, but she actually asked him to go first? So she could destroy him?

I will however say it's hard to truly hate her as she clearly has issues from being bullied, as someone else pointed out she seems to like getting messed about by fucked up guys, and when she meets a nice one she doesn't know what to do with herself.

That said, I think she liked to toy with him here, mess with him just like she's been messed with, and issues or not that shows some real immaturity that she needs to grow out of as an adult.

TBH he seemed kinda grossed out deep down but was trying to play it off as if he was taken back by her positivity and how brave she was to show it off. And then "it suits you" - yeah i mean it really does, doesn't it? Her head looks like a mess... He was just being PC at that point.
Sure the wig looks crap but it still looks better than what she's got underneath - if she got a semi-realistic wig who the hell would know? She wouldn't even have to tell anyone.

I don't know if I'd personally date a chick with hair loss. Even if she wore a wig the entire time - I know it takes an emotional toll and causes people to be insecure. As if I don't have enough of that on my own?

I mean TBH one of the things I look at in women now that I'm aware of hair loss is that they have legit and healthy hair. Think about that - if we potentially date and down the line want to have children, isn't it enough that I carry the male pattern baldness gene? Do we really have to double the chances of the kid getting absolutely fucked over by me dating a chick who has alopecia areata or FPB or any other type of hair loss? Hell no.

If you look directly at her head and the balding parts then yes, it is a mess, but if you look at her face and eyes, it actually does suit her! Amazingly. But that's only going off of the comparison of bald her, and her with that horrendous wig.

Does he seem fully comfortable with it? I don't think so, not at all, I don't even think he's hiding it that well.

I don't mind at all that she didn't want him, that's fine, it doesn't matter if he's a nice guy with the right intentions and if he's truly not put off by her alopecia, if there's no chemistry from her side then she's wasting both of their time. And actually I've started watching this episode just now, he's obviously nervous and possibly as a result he's a bit cheesy and disingenuous, but as if dating a stranger isn't hard enough without TV cameras.

Regardless, she's not impressed by this, and I can't blame her either. But as I've said this is no excuse to try and humiliate him for no good reason.

 

[rclark]

Let's take a moment to think about this video and situation. We all know what would've happened if it was the other way around: the guy was wearing a wig. The b**ch would've stood up and walked away without a word. But, because it's a woman, everything changes. Even the comments section is full of MUH BRAVERY, MUH STRONG WOMAN, MUH BEAUTIFUL.

Do you f*****g think this would ever happen for a man? I'm pretty sure that bald shaming is at least 90% because of the gender. And guess what? Someone commented on the guy's teeth, of course. And it turns out that the b**ch rejected him in the end. Just look at some of the comments:



f*****g lol. I'm on suicide watch.

You're WAY TO CYNICAL ABOUT WOMEN, DUDE! That is NOT What she would do.

At least not IN FRONT OF A PUBLIC CAMERA. She would WAIT UNTIL SHE GOT HOME, FACEBOOK ALL HER FRIENDS ABOUT WHAT A LOSER HE IS, and then... FIGHT WITH HER MOTHER/MOTHER IN LAW..

 

[Rudiger]

I saw this on the frontpage of reddit the other day. According to what I read in the comments this woman didn't just reject him.

https://www.reddit.com/r/wholesomegifs/comments/6ar8bq/beautiful_first_date/

axflynn 229 points 2 days ago
Yeah. At the end they reveal , in each other's presence, whether they are up for a second date. She seemed into him; giggling and making positive noises. He was clearly into her. The interviewer asks would you like to meet again. She tells him to go first. He says that he would. She says nah. It's fine that she didn't want to but in this case I think you should have the good grace to go first. Just my opinion.

She didn't only reject him. She wanted to make sure that he wanted her and only then say no.

I realise you're running off another persons info but I just watched the episode and this is bullshit, whether she was into him is debatable, personally if a woman reacted like that to me I wouldn't think she was that interested. But the major lie is that "she tells him to go first", he answered the "will you see each other again?" question in a millisecond.

Like I said before, often the woman will steal in to say that she's just interested as a friend, but she didn't get a chance here. You can't really steal in to give the friendzone spiel, but she didn't do anything wrong at all, she let him down gently and she definitely didn't tell him to go first or even wait for him.

And I got all pissed off over a lie.

She also acknowledges a point that he makes, she's pushing away a nice guy because she doesn't know how to handle it. Maybe she is being a bit of a dick but we have very little control over our own damn brains, and for whatever reason she can't control how she feels about the guy, even if logically she should be delighted that a decent, not ugly man, accepts her baldness.

I do think there's a chance she finds him disingenuous, she says in the cut-interviews how she has a hard time trusting people, and there's possibly something false about this guys positivity towards her baldness that, as someone else said, he might just be trying to be PC and a nice guy.

Just one final thing, I also found her facial expression of smirking while he talked about his failed rugby career and alcoholism, that was baffling. It's like she found the idea of someone getting depressed over sport was just hilarious, because her alopecia problem is probably considerably more damaging through childhood and adolescence. But I didn't see an ounce of empathy from her.

But overall they didn't give this a thorough run-through as a date, it's very difficult to tell how they got on, what he's actually like - but in their double interview at the end he did come off as a little bitter and snarky, possibly she saw more of this side of him than the editors included.

 

[Notcoolanymore]

Honestly this sh*t doesn't surprise me at all. Men are thrown under the bus all the time these days. They say we are superficial and try to use videos like this as proof. If that guy would have said he was not attracted to her because of the wig, he would have been destroyed. Now if the shoe was on the other foot and a young guy showed up with great hair only to later reveal that it was a hair piece they would have been on his case. He would have been accused of being a liar or even shamed for wearing a wig. Most comments would not have been that he is more attractive without hair. Men have it worse these days. It just doesn't make the news because if we get shamed, we are suppose to be tough and not care. If we care then we are wimps or vain. There are no acceptance movements for men. You notice all the obese acceptance stories on the internet these days. A day doesn't go by where I don't see a story about a "brave" woman posting pics of her overweight self. It's ridiculous. Surprisingly I don't see any stories about brave men posting pics of their dad bod's or bald heads.

 

[Rudiger]

Honestly this sh*t doesn't surprise me at all. Men are thrown under the bus all the time these days. They say we are superficial and try to use videos like this as proof. If that guy would have said he was not attracted to her because of the wig, he would have been destroyed. Now if the shoe was on the other foot and a young guy showed up with great hair only to later reveal that it was a hair piece they would have been on his case. He would have been accused of being a liar or even shamed for wearing a wig. Most comments would not have been that he is more attractive without hair. Men have it worse these days. It just doesn't make the news because if we get shamed, we are suppose to be tough and not care. If we care then we are wimps or vain. There are no acceptance movements for men. You notice all the obese acceptance stories on the internet these days. A day doesn't go by where I don't see a story about a "brave" woman posting pics of her overweight self. It's ridiculous. Surprisingly I don't see any stories about brave men posting pics of their dad bod's or bald heads.

A few people have said this but I just don't think it's that clear cut anymore when it comes to attitudes towards male pattern baldness. Because of our ultra-superficial society more people, even women, are sympathetic to the fact men feel sh*t about their lack of hair (doesn't mean they want to f*** these bald guys LOL).

It goes without saying that no doubt there is instantly a huge amount of sympathy towards a bald woman compared to a bald man, but with the bald man who throws his wig off- it depends on the guy and the situation, how he presents himself. I definitely don't think it's a cert that he'll be vilified at all, and there's a considerable chance people will empathise with how insecure he is.

And no doubt there will be people laughing it off "just shave it man you'll feel better! Look at Vin Diesel, he's a millionaire and a sex symbol!" but I think that kind of attitude is diminishing because it's so simplistic.

I won't deny there's a clear imbalance between sympathy towards men in comparison to women, but I feel there is some progress. I can understand why men feel it's unfair, because it is damn unfair, however let's not let this cloud our judgement, for example the OP talks about how one-sided the youtube comments are, and if you scroll through them there are more than enough popularly upvoted comments calling the woman a b**ch for rejecting him, which in itself I find unreasonable.

It's hard to stay unbiased when issues personally affect how your life runs, but I feel like 90% of people willingly let this happen to them.

 

[Dench57]

If its double-standards time, I caught this video recently. I cannot believe they are laughing about this. I legit want to shoot Sharon Osborne in the face.

I know this is old news and most have probably seen it before but for those who haven't:

 

[Roberto_72]

If its double-standards time, I caught this video recently. I cannot believe they are laughing about this. I legit want to shoot Sharon Osborne in the face.

I know this is old news and most have probably seen it before but for those who haven't:

It is actually scary. They are laughing about the mutilation of a human being.

The male organ is in such abundance that no one cares there is a human being behind it.

 

[barfacan]

White western men really need to grab their balls and take their world back, this is an outrage, you are being humiliated and slowly exterminated, and you're letting it happen. The self hatred needs to stop. God help Trump.

 

[Dench57]

@Xander94

just lol @ being male in 2017

 

[Trichosan]

White western men really need to grab their balls and take their world back, this is an outrage, you are being humiliated and slowly exterminated...

Someday in the future we will have nothing to grab:

https://www.endocrine.org/news-room/press-release-archives/2006/testosterone_lvls_in_men_decline

This was a US based study but others reveal it is a global phenomenon.

 

[ManinBlack]

Yeah I am not saying hair loss does not suck for women, because it does, but something tells me if it was the other way around, a fullhead girl and a guy wearing a hair system, she and the people watching would have thought he was a creep/freak/pedo and the just shave it bro brigade would have invaded the comment section of that video.