I saw this on the frontpage of reddit the other day. According to what I read in the comments this woman didn't just reject him.
https://www.reddit.com/r/wholesomegifs/comments/6ar8bq/beautiful_first_date/
axflynn 229 points 2 days ago
Yeah. At the end they reveal , in each other's presence, whether they are up for a second date. She seemed into him; giggling and making positive noises. He was clearly into her. The interviewer asks would you like to meet again. She tells him to go first. He says that he would. She says nah. It's fine that she didn't want to but in this case I think you should have the good grace to go first. Just my opinion.
She didn't only reject him. She wanted to make sure that he wanted her and only then say no.
I'm normally pretty level-headed when it comes to the women bashing on here, in comparison with the average "red-pilled" internet goer, but this action is un-for-f*****g-giveable.
I see this show and often the woman is at least decent enough to jump in early, and quickly diffuse potential embarrassment for him with the "we'd be good friends" sh*t. If he jumps in with "I LOVE HER" first then that's one thing, but she actually asked him to go first? So she could destroy him?
I will however say it's hard to truly hate her as she clearly has issues from being bullied, as someone else pointed out she seems to like getting messed about by fucked up guys, and when she meets a nice one she doesn't know what to do with herself.
That said, I think she liked to toy with him here, mess with him just like she's been messed with, and issues or not that shows some real immaturity that she needs to grow out of as an adult.
TBH he seemed kinda grossed out deep down but was trying to play it off as if he was taken back by her positivity and how brave she was to show it off. And then "it suits you" - yeah i mean it really does, doesn't it? Her head looks like a mess... He was just being PC at that point.
Sure the wig looks crap but it still looks better than what she's got underneath - if she got a semi-realistic wig who the hell would know? She wouldn't even have to tell anyone.
I don't know if I'd personally date a chick with hair loss. Even if she wore a wig the entire time - I know it takes an emotional toll and causes people to be insecure. As if I don't have enough of that on my own?
I mean TBH one of the things I look at in women now that I'm aware of hair loss is that they have legit and healthy hair. Think about that - if we potentially date and down the line want to have children, isn't it enough that I carry the male pattern baldness gene? Do we really have to double the chances of the kid getting absolutely fucked over by me dating a chick who has alopecia areata or FPB or any other type of hair loss? Hell no.
If you look directly at her head and the balding parts then yes, it is a mess, but if you look at her face and eyes, it actually does suit her! Amazingly. But that's only going off of the comparison of bald her, and her with that horrendous wig.
Does he seem fully comfortable with it? I don't think so, not at all, I don't even think he's hiding it that well.
I don't mind at all that she didn't want him, that's fine, it doesn't matter if he's a nice guy with the right intentions and if he's truly not put off by her alopecia, if there's no chemistry from her side then she's wasting both of their time. And actually I've started watching this episode just now, he's obviously nervous and possibly as a result he's a bit cheesy and disingenuous, but as if dating a stranger isn't hard enough without TV cameras.
Regardless, she's not impressed by this, and I can't blame her either. But as I've said this is no excuse to try and humiliate him for no good reason.
