Getting better with hair loss

[DaSand]

Recently, with school I only have some limited time to browse here and I just wanted to talk with you guys about something.

Over this year, I have come to realize that hair loss isn't really bothering me anymore. There's more to life than hair. It would be nice to get HM, but frankly there's other things to do like finishing school, getting work and living life. Overall, I have not been letting it bother me. I used to check myself in the mirror a lot to see my thin front and my back which is getting thinner.

There are guys who actually don't look bad bald, they look better. I've seen a guy at my college who looks 24 and is a Norwood 5-6. He's out getting along with hot girls and he doesn't care.

I'm just getting used to it and I'll probably shave it when the time comes. It just doesn't bother me anymore. I know when HM comes out, I'm getting it and then that's it. I'm living life finally and I'm enjoying it. I encourage those out there who are discouraged by it to not let it, do other things to make yourself better.

 

[cook'n'milkies]

Good for you man. That is absolutely inspiring.

 

[Guest]

yeah, I think we should all browse and visit less this forum, sometimes I am in a good day but when I come here all starts again... because I remember again about hairloss.

 

[Siberian]

There are guys who actually don't look bad bald, they look better. I've seen a guy at my college who looks 24 and is a Norwood 5-6. He's out getting along with hot girls and he doesn't care.

I think girls in general admire confidence (the real kind, not arrogance) in a guy more than hair count. In many ways, being bald, and being cool with it, is sexier than having a full head of hair, yet being an arrogant pretty-boy.

 

[cook'n'milkies]

There are guys who actually don't look bad bald, they look better. I've seen a guy at my college who looks 24 and is a Norwood 5-6. He's out getting along with hot girls and he doesn't care.

I think girls in general admire confidence (the real kind, not arrogance) in a guy more than hair count. In many ways, being bald, and being cool with it, is sexier than having a full head of hair, yet being an arrogant pretty-boy.

I definitely agree. When I had great hair, I was way more cocky, loud and sort of obnoxious. With my newfound intense insecurity, I've become way more kind, softspoken, and humble. Girls seem to throw themselves at me even though my hair sucks and I'm a skinny geek. Fine by me, but I still want my hair back.

 

[answer_q]

Good for you.

DaSand that's kind of what I'm going through, have started to let go and it feels so much better. At first I used to worry like crazy, and now I've calmed and know I'm still the same guy and I love it.

You cannot be anymore correct, there are a lot of people who do look great with a bald head.
You're right about that one, girls don't give a S#%T about hair, maybe some do notice it in the beginning....but they would much more care if you're masculine than anything else....which also means your manhood down there can rock her away !!

There are tons of things in life to learn, and losing hair teaches you how to experience them. What a waste it is to just focus on one thing, your looks, what will that do for you ?....ask your yourself is that living life or deadly living ?

Good for you, a few people realize it but the real battle is the one you've almost fought through. Chances are once HM comes out, the only thing you'll be thinking, I'm fine the way I am.

 

[jeffsss]

I think i'm getting better also..
losing your hair really f*****g freaks you out.. but going bald is going to happen sooner or later to all of us.

delaying it is the best we got right now.. and like the 1% of the lucky bastards who actually have regrowth.

 

[Aplunk1]

you mean 66% of people... 66% experience regrowth... 83% experience maintenance... the other 17% experience mild...MILD hairloss...

 

[jeffsss]

you mean 66% of people... 66% experience regrowth... 83% experience maintenance... the other 17% experience mild...MILD hairloss...

I love the numbers.. just dont see em' :cry: