Hair Loss Is Starting To Affect My Sex Life

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tracker54

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The past weeks I've scored with 4 girls on tinder (I'm using 2-3 year old pictures), and from the instant we met I noticed them checking out my hair. FWIW, I'm a NW3A with very thick hair other than in the front area. I'll admit, if I let my hair grow out, the front is covered pretty nicely, because of my thickness elsewhere.

Now, I'm pretty OK at talking. I used to get laid a lot back in the day, so the socializing part has never been a problem...but I'm so f*****g anxious about my hair - constantly thinking "Did she notice? Has she called my bluff?"

I managed to get them all in bed, but I simply can't have sex with them in front-facing positions. As soon as that happens, my anxiety shoots through the roof, and I go limp. It's like holding a fart while getting a BJ, it just fucks up with your mood.
 
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It will only get worse bro.


Hold onto that combover and get used to the empty encounters that end at a few night stands. Was in that position myself, putting on a front for the date and following night while being anxious around others.
 
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g.i joey said:
@shookwun calm down on all the relationship philosophy man, empty one night stands are awesome!
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Depends, but after a while it gets old. Wondering why you cannot form a relationship outside of alchohol & the cassanova front.

It only gets worse as we continue to bald.


But then again, I live in a small city at the moment where almost everyone around you are in long term relationships. When you live in a big city it's easier to dismiss the obvious because of the big social Enviroment.



That being said, it's one feeling to have one nights and be confident n the next. But when you are balding, it will eventually get harder to the point where most encounters feel empty and meaningless.


Handsome + full head has nothing to worry about. The stock is continious,but as op mentioned his time is running out and it's becoming harder to hold onto something of substance.


I know what it feels like to be anxious over your looks and get no where with women outside of randon encounters




 
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shookwun said:
Depends, but after a while it gets old. Wondering why you cannot form a relationship outside of alchohol & the cassanova front.

It only gets worse as we continue to bald.


But then again, I live in a small city at the moment where almost everyone around you are in long term relationships. When you live in a big city it's easier to dismiss the obvious because of the big social Enviroment.



That being said, it's one feeling to have one nights and be confident n the next. But when you are balding, it will eventually get harder to the point where most encounters feel empty and meaningless.


Handsome + full head has nothing to worry about. The stock is continious,but as op mentioned his time is running out and it's becoming harder to hold onto something of substance.


I know what it feels like to be anxious over your looks and get no where with women outside of randon encounters



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Can't argue with that, I've just never been someone to put so much stock into having a gf and feel like most people base their worth on that alone, I mean I've had girlfriends but I've also been single now for a little over a year. I get where you're coming from though if I wasn't balding I would give 0 fucks about finding a girl to settle down with, but my nw2a is a ticking time bomb, so at 24 I do feel a BIT of pressure to find someone to get serious with.
 
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tracker54 said:
The past weeks I've scored with 4 girls on tinder (I'm using 2-3 year old pictures), and from the instant we met I noticed them checking out my hair. FWIW, I'm a NW3A with very thick hair other than in the front area. I'll admit, if I let my hair grow out, the front is covered pretty nicely, because of my thickness elsewhere.

Now, I'm pretty OK at talking. I used to get laid a lot back in the day, so the socializing part has never been a problem...but I'm so f*****g anxious about my hair - constantly thinking "Did she notice? Has she called my bluff?"

I managed to get them all in bed, but I simply can't have sex with them in front-facing positions. As soon as that happens, my anxiety shoots through the roof, and I go limp. It's like holding a fart while getting a BJ, it just fucks up with your mood.
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I have no sympathy for you

You are exploiting people for your own evil greed
 
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At least you HAVE a sex drive mate. Many of us don't even have the luxury of that. Most girls my age look at my hair and are disgusted by the sight of it and turn away.
 
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At least you HAVE a sex drive mate. Many of us don't even have the luxury of that. Most girls my age look at my hair and are disgusted by the sight of it and turn away.
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Get a transplant and get on finasteride. I swear some people WANT women to be disgusted by them.
 
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