How can I turn my life around when i feel depressed and unmotivated daily?

Feelsbadman

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- minimum wage job
- no savings
- still get sad/sorry for myself that my gf left me 2 years ago and i missed out on sex etc
- only get laid by paying for it
- few friends
- wish i was dead daily
- short ugly and balding despite working out
 

doubleindemnity

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Hair transplant is the only way. Can you afford one in Turkey? It turns people's lives around. It changes the way that people see themselves and has a positive spillover effect to the rest of their life.
 

Feelsbadman

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Hair transplant is the only way. Can you afford one in Turkey? It turns people's lives around. It changes the way that people see themselves and has a positive spillover effect to the rest of their life.
I'm ugly though even when i had hair i peaked 2 years ago when i had a girlfriend. I tricked her in to believing i was good looking because i loooksmaxxd as hard asi could
 

doubleindemnity

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I'm ugly though even when i had hair i peaked 2 years ago when i had a girlfriend. I tricked her in to believing i was good looking because i loooksmaxxd as hard asi could
You think that. But all guys who get a hair transplant feel way differently, in ways that they didn't expect or predict, when they have hair. Styling the hair, combing it, shampooing it, choosing your hairstyle (so miserable to type that)... all those behaviours add up and change the way that you feel. I think that we don't see enough information online about how hair treatment affected a guy's feelings or general life and that's a shame.
 

Feelsbadman

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You think that. But all guys who get a hair transplant feel way differently, in ways that they didn't expect or predict, when they have hair. Styling the hair, combing it, shampooing it, choosing your hairstyle (so miserable to type that)... all those behaviours add up and change the way that you feel. I think that we don't see enough information online about how hair treatment affected a guy's feelings or general life and that's a shame.
maybe you're right bu nohing will bring me back to 2 years ago when i wa happy and good lookin gand ha a gf and life was good
 

Marion

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- minimum wage job
- no savings
- still get sad/sorry for myself that my gf left me 2 years ago and i missed out on sex etc
- only get laid by paying for it
- few friends
- wish i was dead daily
- short ugly and balding despite working out
Get educated! It’s never too late. My son just went back to school at 35.
forget girls now and focus on yourself. Join a gym and you can meet friends there or join Meet up. Find interests so you can socialize about them.
What do you call short? There are plenty of “short” women. I’m 5’1” and so is my daughter. I know people 4’11”! Ugly is in your eyes but not anothers. Be beautiful inside if you think your ugly because it projects outwards. Lastly, shave your head! Bald men can be hot!! I understand your pain. I helped my own son thru it. He’s 32 and shaves his head but he’s in shape and has a sense of humor and very personable. Girls love him but you need to love yourself! I’m a woman a losing my hair since 17. It’s even harder for women so trust me, I know how depressing it is. Good Luck! You got this!!
 
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