How do you accept you missed out as a male?

[Feelsbadman]

Missed out on sex with attractive women
but also missing out on a rlationship, love
imaging going on hliday with a women spending the weekend away
swimming and making love in a pool,everywhere
haivng alll that experience

ive never had this only once for a short period.

 

[Gergely]

I don't believe you're hopelessly ugly, there's more to life than just looks

 

[justinbieberscombover]

By making the same thread everyday

 

[Feelsbadman]

I don't believe you're hopelessly ugly, there's more to life than just looks

nah but i mised out on relationshis i go on social media and see people posting dates and sh*t sucks bad man.
a friend posted a pic at a gun range wiht his hot gf it was so cool

 

[DoctorHouse]

By making the same thread everyday

@Feelsbadman, why do you make the same thread everyday. You do realize it's counterproductive for you?

 

[Feelsbadman]

@Feelsbadman, why do you make the same thread everyday. You do realize it's counterproductive for you?

Because i have no one to talk to how do u deal with this as a male?

 

[DoctorHouse]

Because i have no one to talk to how do u deal with this as a male?

No one besides this forum? An old school mate? A cousin or family member?

 

[doubleindemnity]

No one besides this forum? An old school mate? A cousin or family member?

I had people to talk to like this but I scared them off with all of my misery. So it wouldn't be implausible if he had nobody. Remember that all self improvement gurus advocate cutting toxic people out of your life. Guys like me and @Feelsbadman get cut out.

 

[DoctorHouse]

I had people to talk to like this but I scared them off with all of my misery. So it wouldn't be implausible if he had nobody. Remember that all self improvement gurus advocate cutting toxic people out of your life. Guys like me and @Feelsbadman get cut out.

If they abandoned you over this subject matter, then I guess they were never a true friend. I am glad you have each other to lean on.

 

[doubleindemnity]

If they abandoned you over this subject matter, then I guess they were never a true friend. I am glad you have each other to lean on.

I disagree. See it from their point of view. We are always told that you are the average of the 5 people you last interacted with, that toxic or negative people can 'infect' you with their negativity etc. They're following that advice and also putting their own wellbeing first, in a way. That's why I don't think that it's safe for people to open up to each other regarding their mental health struggles, despite what everybody says these days.

 

[Feelsbadman]

I had people to talk to like this but I scared them off with all of my misery. So it wouldn't be implausible if he had nobody. Remember that all self improvement gurus advocate cutting toxic people out of your life. Guys like me and @Feelsbadman get cut out.

this

waht the f*** am i mean to say to my chad friends who have gfs?
i feel sad i dont have agf? they just say u got to goon tinder or soomething or i just turn them away due to my misery

 

[Feelsbadman]

my parents dont understand no one does
feels

 

[jeepwrangler]

swimming and making love in a pool,everywhere

What kind of careless whisper fantasy is this?



Do we have photos of Feelsbadman?

 

[spring15]

Maybe in the initial stages of the relationship (first 6 months to a year) those are all riveting experiences with a partner..

But after that being in a relationship can become quite mundane, sex, holidays, everything. Chances are you'd be more miserable if you were still with that ex who sounded troubled herself

 

[Ascension]

If they abandoned you over this subject matter, then I guess they were never a true friend. I am glad you have each other to lean on.

this is the biggest cope most people try to deepthroat socially condition onto everybody, If someone is an energy vampire and serves to project insecurities and kill the mood others naturally will remove the low status person from their lives as it is dangerous to keep hanging out with them, its evolutionary biology at its finest.

friendships have different dynamics and coming onto your friends and selfishly trying to comisorate with them instead of self amusing or elevating the mood is an absolute sure way to get selected out of the group(tribe), especially if you are a male. Only women can be silent and not be funny and proactively be wanted to be kept in the group as they have inherent value, unless theres a very attractive male in the situation then they have status too.

 

[Ascension]

my parents dont understand no one does
feels

males are disposable wake up, nobody cares about men. Biology and subconcious human dynamics laugh at the idea that males are supposed to get support and be understood. In terms of survival you are immediately showing your dna you are not fit to procreate for our species acting like this, its only normal to feel this way after being rejected by everyone. Would people really miss you if you suddenly disappeared from this life.

 

[DoctorHouse]

this is the biggest cope most people try to deepthroat socially condition onto everybody, If someone is an energy vampire and serves to project insecurities and kill the mood others naturally will remove the low status person from their lives as it is dangerous to keep hanging out with them, its evolutionary biology at its finest.

friendships have different dynamics and coming onto your friends and selfishly trying to comisorate with them instead of self amusing or elevating the mood is an absolute sure way to get selected out of the group(tribe), especially if you are a male. Only women can be silent and not be funny and proactively be wanted to be kept in the group as they have inherent value, unless theres a very attractive male in the situation then they have status too.

Sounds like you don't have too many friends. Sorry to hear that.

 

[DoctorHouse]

males are disposable wake up, nobody cares about men. Biology and subconcious human dynamics laugh at the idea that males are supposed to get support and be understood. In terms of survival you are immediately showing your dna you are not fit to procreate for our species acting like this, its only normal to feel this way after being rejected by everyone. Would people really miss you if you suddenly disappeared from this life.

I am not disposable. So cope.

 

[Derelict]

Take an interest in things other than women would be a start, stop obsessing, if you happen to come across a nice girl, good, if you don't then you don't. Im not saying you don't have to not take any initiative in looking for a nice woman at all, just not to the point of obsessing about it 24/7 and getting in to depressive states over it.

 

[DoctorHouse]

Missed out on sex with attractive women
but also missing out on a rlationship, love
imaging going on hliday with a women spending the weekend away
swimming and making love in a pool,everywhere
haivng alll that experience

ive never had this only once for a short period.

Are you writing your own eulogy now?