dudemon said:
I took one week the first hair transplant ... BIG MISTAKE!!! Not only was it 100% noticeable, but I had to wear a bandage and doo-rag on my head for 8 weeks, while being constantly stared at and questioned at work. I made up "lies" to explain it (ie - "I got into a motorcylce accident") but I doubt everyone believed me. I'm sure (I know) there were "rumors" going around at work that I had a "hair plug job" or something. Some of my coworkers were not fooled; they knew, and it WAS embarrassing!
The 2nd and 3rd hair transplant... I quit my job both times because I simply could not get enough time off from work. I did not want to go through waht I went through the first time. I began working 2 months POST-OP at DIFFERENT companies both times, because I did not leave on 'good' terms because I quit for no apparent reason. Even though I gave a 2 week notice both times and agreed to stay until they found a replacement, it didn't matter. Both employers still give me bad references to this day for quitting without good cause.
The thing that sucks is that I am paying for this now. I am currently unemployed, and I have to explain these gaps in my job history and surely cannot tell them that the gaps were because I had hair transplants. This would indicate that I may have 'psychological problems' and I will not get hired. So I have to make up other 'reasons' for these gaps.
Ideally, if you are having a medium or larger procedure (1500+ grafts) you want AT LEAST 4 weeks, if not 6 to 8 weeks. The more the better. If you get a smaller procedure, you can probably get away with less time. But everyone heals differently. The main thing you'll have to worry about is redness in your recipient and donor regions, which can make your head look "not normal" ... like you've had some kind of medical procedure done on it. And... YOU HAVE! ... a hair transplant.
Also, most hair transplant surgens shave your head to get better results, and it will take at least 6 weeks before your hair gets long enough to hide the effects of the surgery. It takes anywhere from 3 to 6 months before your head returns to a normal "pre transplant" state visually. (it will still be healing for another 9 to 12 months after that below the surface).
It SUCKS being BALD!
Wow!
I hope this doesn't sound offensive, I know it probably will, but I hope it doesnt because its not meant to be...
But your story is exactly the reason why i'd never venture down the hair transplant route, and can't really understand why anyone would. Yeah it sucks going bald, sucks really bad... especially when like me your hair is part of your style and personality. But really is it worth what you went through just to look like you have a bit of hair? Is it worth it even if you ended up with perfect hair?
How much have you spent on hair transplant's? 50 grand (that's just a guess, may well be more), plus not being able to get a job due to all those breaks in your employment history.
I think i'd rather be bald and have a sucessful career and maybe a nice house, then be unemployed and have a reasonable amount of hair on my head.
I know from your posts you have been put in a pretty awful position by a bad 1st transplant, so again please don't think this is me criticising you for your choices... I'm not sure what else you could have done tbh. All i'm saying is that those out there who are thinking of getting a hair transplant, then be aware that its not normally just a one procedure and thats it you've got a great head of hair kind of game... in fact you may well end up with multiple expensive procedures and still have sh*t hair many years later, but with scars and regrets.