How to be motivated in life? What can you do?

[Feelsbadman]

I'm motivated for maybe a day or half day

but then i just feel so apathetic

i dont get why i feel this way

just don't care

i do the bare minimum at work untl i get in trouble then work hard fora bit but i dont care

what's the point of anytihng?

 

[doubleindemnity]

I am the same. I think that guys like us work so hard 'on ourselves' and that this hasn't improved our lives to such an extent that we have no energy or patience to do anything else. The feeling is that whatever you do, nothing will change so who cares? I'm still figuring it out. This is one reason why I envy guys who had hair. They didn't have a history of losing like we did and that makes a difference to your attitude. Once again, I recommended coping by reading philosophy.

 

[Feelsbadman]

I am the same. I think that guys like us work so hard 'on ourselves' and that this hasn't improved our lives to such an extent that we have no energy or patience to do anything else. The feeling is that whatever you do, nothing will change so who cares? I'm still figuring it out. This is one reason why I envy guys who had hair. They didn't have a history of losing like we did and that makes a difference to your attitude. Once again, I recommended coping by reading philosophy.

Yes this is hwo i feel sometimes i think why do i even go to the gym? why do i even try and self improve?
why don't i just do nothing and eat mcdonalds and play video games
will it really make a big difference?

these thoughts scare me but its how i feel now