How to cope with sexual frustration and depression?

[Feelsbadman]

When I had a girlfriend i literally cant even remember it anymore which sucks but anyway
What I do remember was actually how i felt and i remember after i'd have good sex and really drill her hard i would feel good for days an just walk taller, be more motivated, happier and just felt better general it was like i had this extra energy and life force

now that was a long time ago and ive deliberately deleted it from my mind as its too painful to think about . Now all i have is prostitutes which i f*****g hate the sex is never great and mechanical and sh*t. I go on dating apps but al my matches are extrmely obese women or transvestites i dont even get how i match with htem.

This has lead to sexual frustaton and depression and other mental problems
how do you cope with this?

 

[justinbieberscombover]

Maybe start doing yoga and climb mountains bro.

 

[Feelsbadman]

Maybe start doing yoga and climb mountains bro.

just be confident bro

 

[doubleindemnity]

Like I said

-find books, movies, video games, activities, TV shows, hobbies etc. etc. that you really enjoy and make you want to wake up to do/play again. Have you looked into any of these?

-If you have legit depression, seek therapy and other help. For me, I am unhappy but don't have depression and I am not sure if therapy is suitable for me. But actual depression is serious stuff and you won't realistically beat it alone.

-Read books on philosophy and you will start thinking differently about your problems.

-Try nofap and see if it works for you. Not everybody likes it, but some people feel great.

-Consider doing stuff like suggested above, that will make you momentarily forget everything about your current life such as climbing mountains, skydiving and yoga.

Remember that you can't be the same guy that you were before. You're now the new bald version. So you're not going to have a life like you did when you have hair. But there's nothing wrong with being miserable, finding ways to cope and just living on. You're bald and not supposed to be happy. Let that give you peace of mind. Do not, under any circumstances, do what I did which was looking into 'dating theory', coaches and all. That will just get you further away from what you should have.

 

[Feelsbadman]

Like I said

-find books, movies, video games, activities, TV shows, hobbies etc. etc. that you really enjoy and make you want to wake up to do/play again. Have you looked into any of these?

-If you have legit depression, seek therapy and other help. For me, I am unhappy but don't have depression and I am not sure if therapy is suitable for me. But actual depression is serious stuff and you won't realistically beat it alone.

-Read books on philosophy and you will start thinking differently about your problems.

-Try nofap and see if it works for you. Not everybody likes it, but some people feel great.

-Consider doing stuff like suggested above, that will make you momentarily forget everything about your current life such as climbing mountains, skydiving and yoga.

Remember that you can't be the same guy that you were before. You're now the new bald version. So you're not going to have a life like you did when you have hair. But there's nothing wrong with being miserable, finding ways to cope and just living on. You're bald and not supposed to be happy. Let that give you peace of mind. Do not, under any circumstances, do what I did which was looking into 'dating theory', coaches and all. That will just get you further away from what you should have.

ok ill try these things thanks man

 

[vondoom]

just bang some chicks, bro^^

 

[czecha]

When i had a girlfriend

 

[Butterbean Head]

Mr Feelbad, do you straddle pros bareback?

 

[randolf_faust]

while you were typing this your ex-gf probably got fucked by a hunky norwood 1 guy. absolutely brutal

 

[Butterbean Head]

while you were typing this your ex-gf probably got fucked by a hunky norwood 1 guy. absolutely brutal

Whilst he is barebacking a toothless grin behind a trash-bin......

 

[Feelsbadman]

while you were typing this your ex-gf probably got fucked by a hunky norwood 1 guy. absolutely brutal

brutal


how can i cope

 

[czecha]

I doubt your ex even remembers you

the monkey branch upgrade is a few dozen swipes away

date normie -> boring/unsatisfying-> break up -> get assfucked by tinddr chads -> can’t lock them down —> emotional damage —> date normie —> use him as emotional tampon

and repeat

 

[vondoom]

I doubt your ex even remembers you

the monkey branch upgrade is a few dozen swipes away

date normie -> boring/unsatisfying-> break up -> get assfucked by tinddr chads -> can’t lock them down —> emotional damage —> date normie —> use him as emotional tampon

and repeat

well
maybe eventually he really gets her back that way...

 

[Feelsbadman]

I doubt your ex even remembers you

the monkey branch upgrade is a few dozen swipes away

date normie -> boring/unsatisfying-> break up -> get assfucked by tinddr chads -> can’t lock them down —> emotional damage —> date normie —> use him as emotional tampon

and repeat

dating for women in 2020

 

[vondoom]

i had one friend here for a while who banged one or more chicks every week and he didnt have to do anything for it... just went out with his friends, flirted with any woman nearby and later developed an eye for women who would be responsive, just by habit...
then he got bored and made it a habit to bang women with husbands and boyfriends, which apparently wasnt much more difficult, he said “well that takes three days instead of one, but sex is way better, because they dont give their lover any for whatever reason”

 

[Feelsbadman]

i had one friend here for a while who banged one or more chicks every week and he didnt have to do anything for it... just went out with his friends, flirted with any woman nearby and later developed an eye for women who would be responsive, just by habit...
then he got bored and made it a habit to bang women with husbands and boyfriends, which apparently wasnt much more difficult, he said “well that takes three days instead of one, but sex is way better, because they dont give their lover any for whatever reason”

that's actually pretty sad.

 

[vondoom]

that's actually pretty sad.

sad reality... but didnt come that unexpected, you hear that quite often...

 

[Feelsbadman]

sad reality... but didnt come that unexpected, you hear that quite often...

i actually mean what he is doing is sad,
I have a friend like that i think they are just really narcissistic, think they are special and its alpha f*****g other mens wife and girlfriend. What an immature sad mind set imo. Yea i mean it's not their fault their girls a wh*** but the guy banging them sees it as some ultimate power trip and validation its a bit weird and sad lol

 

[vondoom]

i actually mean what he is doing is sad,
I have a friend like that i think they are just really narcissistic, think they are special and its alpha f*****g other mens wife and girlfriend. What an immature sad mind set imo. Yea i mean it's not their fault their girls a wh*** but the guy banging them sees it as some ultimate power trip and validation its a bit weird and sad lol

yeah that is true... especially because that was just out of boredom... like he could have chicks anyway, they literally contacted him to meet him after he fucked their friends... i know because he showed me the messages to translate... so like every other day some girl sends him bikini pics (at least) and asks to meet him... then we usually have been at the park for a few drinks (i never went clubbing with him, because that is not my audience and he had other friends for that), sooner or later he spits a group of girls and invites them over (or invites himself over to him) and 99% chance he gets one of them...

though i think most of that was status (he was in a more or less unique position and knew some influential people, so those peoples kids always took him out), then because of novelty and because he was cooler than the other ones around...
well whatever it is, sometimes it works, sometimes it doesnt...

 

[Feelsbadman]

yeah that is true... especially because that was just out of boredom... like he could have chicks anyway, they literally contacted him to meet him after he fucked their friends... i know because he showed me the messages to translate... so like every other day some girl sends him bikini pics (at least) and asks to meet him... then we usually have been at the park for a few drinks (i never went clubbing with him, because that is not my audience and he had other friends for that), sooner or later he spits a group of girls and invites them over (or invites himself over to him) and 99% chance he gets one of them...

though i think most of that was status (he was in a more or less unique position and knew some influential people, so those peoples kids always took him out), then because of novelty and because he was cooler than the other ones around...
well whatever it is, sometimes it works, sometimes it doesnt...

i remeber the day i got cucked i never wnt to feel that feeling again nerly killed myself