How to stop being depressed and live a happy life without women?

[Feelsbadman]

go on dting apps and theres girls
go out in real life and theres women
go on soial women an there's women

they're eerywhere yet i cant have one wmen to be with me because of my horrible genetics

how can i stop feeling depressedand live ah appy life with this big void?
especially as i use to have a gf adn knw what its like and it feels really good having a gf.

 

[DyingOfTheLight]

You can't. As long as enough androgens course through your body you will desire sex. As long as the feeling of loneliness weighs on your mind you will desire companionship.

People always advise to forget about women if you can't manage to lock one down that suits your preferences. Or to date down. But both are impossible when you're young. You're not an island; you have to parakte in life, day in day out, where you will be confronted with people who have it way better than you, somtimes on all fronts.

The only thing you can do is keep improving yourself, for yourself — and that includes strengthening your mind against despair. Don't constantly give expression to it. How long ago since your ex left you? 2/3 years? And she still lives rent free in your head. That's pathetic man. Not every lad is our here slaying, most men are like you, or fare a little better, but the difference is they keep quiet and don't let that emptiness define their lives. And eventually, when everyone is old, ugly and, in despair, people match up anyway, if only to keep the loneliness away.

 

[Feelsbadman]

You can't. As long as enough androgens course through your body you will desire sex. As long as the feeling of loneliness weighs on your mind you will desire companionship.

People always advise to forget about women if you can't manage to lock one down that suits your preferences. Or to date down. But both are impossible when you're young. You're not an island; you have to parakte in life, day in day out, where you will be confronted with people who have it way better than you, somtimes on all fronts.

The only thing you can do is keep improving yourself, for yourself — and that includes strengthening your mind against despair. Don't constantly give expression to it. How long ago since your ex left you? 2/3 years? And she still lives rent free in your head. That's pathetic man. Not every lad is our here slaying, most men are like you, or fare a little better, but the difference is they keep quiet and don't let that emptiness define their lives. And eventually, when everyone is old, ugly and, in despair, people match up anyway, if only to keep the loneliness away.

Thanks actually appreciate your post.

Yes i've made a big break through she has been on my mind for years because I just can't accept that it ended or she betrayed me/ghosted me and 100% blamed myself. I thought that was a once off chance i'll never get again. I could of done all those sexual things with her, all those dates i blew it. So for years i couldn't accept it and tortured myself over it. Combined with balding and ugly genetics I felt like I had completely missed out. I'd never had a high school gf or anything. That was my chance.

But i've turned over a new leaf i've learn to accept it although the feelings of loneliness/sexless is still there i just accept it and try and be strong and focus on good things in my life. That's all i can really do. The alternative is whinging bout it and being depressed for the rest of my life.

thank you