GeminiX
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I know I usually make posts where my life is full of sunshine and rainbows, but I recieved a bit of a body blow today which has shaken me somewhat. I feel it's only fair that I share with you a tale of woe about yours truly.
Today I was left incredibly humiliated and embarrassed by a very large national chain of retailers, of whom I have been a loyal customer for a long time.
I needed to pick up a new suit or smart jacket for work due to my old one becoming too big for me. As I had a free hour, I popped into the store in question, I had seen some ones which I quite liked on their website and the store generally has god stock (and usually exceptional customer service).
The store did not have the exact jacket I wanted, so one of the assistants suggested she call a nearby branch to check if they had stock. The assistant was unable to get through, so I said i would pick one of the ones they had in this store as they were quite nice and I did not have that much time. I went back to the racks, picked up a jacket in my size and headed back to the assistant who was standing at the changing rooms entrance (which I've used on several occasions). As I returned I noticed she was chatting to another colleague, and when they saw me approach they both looked at me her colleague walked off (creepy eh), she then asked me to use a different changing room on the other side of the store, and pointed them out to me.
Assuming the ones in the section where I was must have been full, I headed over to where I had been directed, and to my dismay, on the wall outside them was the sign "Men's Changing".
It felt like that scene in Jaws where Bodie stands up and the camera zooms in on him while it's rolling back on the dolly. I could not decide whether to yell at someone or burst into tears, I headed back to the area I had left to ask for an explanation and it turned out that the person who the assistant had been chatting to earlier was the manager, and he had advised the assistant I was dealing with to direct me to the men's area because "I looked like a man".
Even now, hours after the event, I'm feeling incredibly shaken. I've written a lengthy letter to the company detailing the events of today, but I'm not sure it will help.
This is by far the most humiliating and embarrassing event which has ever happened to me, my confidence has taken a massive blow and I've spent much of the afternoon in tears.
Until today I've had no problems with transition and being full time, barely a soul gives me even a second glance and no-one seems to really notice me. And yet today, a shop where I've been a regular and loyal customer can shatter my confidence in a single statement.
Anyhoo, if you've read this far, many thanks for listening to my tale. I'll post some updates as I get them.
Shade and sweet water,
Danielle
Today I was left incredibly humiliated and embarrassed by a very large national chain of retailers, of whom I have been a loyal customer for a long time.
I needed to pick up a new suit or smart jacket for work due to my old one becoming too big for me. As I had a free hour, I popped into the store in question, I had seen some ones which I quite liked on their website and the store generally has god stock (and usually exceptional customer service).
The store did not have the exact jacket I wanted, so one of the assistants suggested she call a nearby branch to check if they had stock. The assistant was unable to get through, so I said i would pick one of the ones they had in this store as they were quite nice and I did not have that much time. I went back to the racks, picked up a jacket in my size and headed back to the assistant who was standing at the changing rooms entrance (which I've used on several occasions). As I returned I noticed she was chatting to another colleague, and when they saw me approach they both looked at me her colleague walked off (creepy eh), she then asked me to use a different changing room on the other side of the store, and pointed them out to me.
Assuming the ones in the section where I was must have been full, I headed over to where I had been directed, and to my dismay, on the wall outside them was the sign "Men's Changing".
It felt like that scene in Jaws where Bodie stands up and the camera zooms in on him while it's rolling back on the dolly. I could not decide whether to yell at someone or burst into tears, I headed back to the area I had left to ask for an explanation and it turned out that the person who the assistant had been chatting to earlier was the manager, and he had advised the assistant I was dealing with to direct me to the men's area because "I looked like a man".
Even now, hours after the event, I'm feeling incredibly shaken. I've written a lengthy letter to the company detailing the events of today, but I'm not sure it will help.
This is by far the most humiliating and embarrassing event which has ever happened to me, my confidence has taken a massive blow and I've spent much of the afternoon in tears.
Until today I've had no problems with transition and being full time, barely a soul gives me even a second glance and no-one seems to really notice me. And yet today, a shop where I've been a regular and loyal customer can shatter my confidence in a single statement.
Anyhoo, if you've read this far, many thanks for listening to my tale. I'll post some updates as I get them.
Shade and sweet water,
Danielle