I don't really see the point of living as an ugly/short guy?

[Feelsbadman]

I don't really see the point in living.

Sure, you make friends, and enjoy yourself and live life. But the reality is no women like you. If they do like you it's because of something else (i.e. money, being a provider etc).

I don't really see the point of living an as ugly male? i mean we are hard wired to mate and i can't even do that because of things outside of my control

kinda pointless living tbh no matter waht you do that void will never be filled

 

[Caillou]

If you don't enjoy living anymore, then there's no reason to live. Might as well die and be done with it instead of complaining and wallowing in self pity all the time since it won't change anything

Or you could simply dedicate your time to coping and just accept your situation like what people like me and @Isaac Newton are doing. You won't be happy. But you will at least feel OK most of the time

 

[Feelsbadman]

If you don't enjoy living anymore, then there's no reason to live. Might as well die and be done with it instead of complaining and wallowing in self pity all the time since it won't change anything

Or you could simply dedicate your time to coping and just accept your situation like what people like me and @Isaac Newton are doing. You won't be happy. But you will at least feel OK most of the time

So whwat's the point of living if you only feel ok?

 

[Caillou]

So whwat's the point of living if you only feel ok?

Because you don't know how you will feel after you die

 

[Feelsbadman]

Because you don't know how you will feel after you die

Yea true

but how do you cope with life feeling ok? wake up, work, play video games, enjoy the occasional good time with friends .. just kinda.. everyihng is so meh

 

[Caillou]

Yea true

but how do you cope with life feeling ok? wake up, work, play video games, enjoy the occasional good time with friends .. just kinda.. everyihng is so meh

By accepting that life is unfair and nothing can be done about it

We were never meant to be loved by women the same way a crippled person was never meant to walk or run or a kid with cancer was never meant to grow up and live their life

Sometimes life denies you happiness and nothing you can do about it, that's how things work. The only way out is to try to cope with it and have as much fun as you can without destroying yourself in the process and then die knowing that you did what anyone could ever do in your circumstances

 

[Feelsbadman]

By accepting that life is unfair and nothing can be done about it

We were never meant to be loved by women the same way a crippled person was never meant to walk or run or a kid with cancer was never meant to grow up and live their life

Sometimes life denies you happiness and nothing you can do about it, that's how things work. The only way out is to try to cope with it and have as much fun as you can without destroying yourself in the process and then die knowing that you did what anyone could ever do in your circumstances

It's just so hard because we are talking about an innate, biological drive that we need to fight against, nothingin the wolr dcompares i know ur right but im running low on cope fuel

 

[Caillou]

It's just so hard because we are talking about an innate, biological drive that we need to fight against, nothingin the wolr dcompares i know ur right but im running low on cope fuel

I mean you won't physically die from lack of sex and love. So eventually you will be able to adapt and get used to it. You need to let go though, because the more you keep yourself attached and consumed by it, and the more you regret and feel sorry for yourself, the harder will it be to finally learn how to live with it. You need to teach your brain to lose all hope and resign to the fact that what you want just won't ever happen, and after some time you will stop caring all together

Hope will destroy you, let it go

 

[Feelsbadman]

jfl believing life is an internal loop. If you die an incel, you will reincarnated as one.

lol made me laugh that would be funny

 

[DoctorHouse]

@Caillou, you have come along way. Very impressive. I think you are giving @Feelsbadman very good advice. Another thing I recommend is to pay it forward. You have to do service for people who are less fortunate than yourself. Or find some type of work that is fulfilling where you actually help people and be instrumental in making their lives better. @Feelsbadman have you ever done any service for your community?

 

[DoctorHouse]

I mean you won't physically die from lack of sex and love. So eventually you will be able to adapt and get used to it. You need to let go though, because the more you keep yourself attached and consumed by it, and the more you regret and feel sorry for yourself, the harder will it be to finally learn how to live with it. You need to teach your brain to lose all hope and resign to the fact that what you want just won't ever happen, and after some time you will stop caring all together

Hope will destroy you, let it go

Excellent advice. I don't know how many times I have to let things go. It's not cowardly to let things go or surrender your power in certain circumstances. Sometimes it's not worth your energy to keep holding on to all your failures in life. If I do, then I feel exactly like you do @Feelsbadman ngl. Living with low self esteem all my life can be very draining. Sometimes it is better to cope and just adapt to living without certain privileges the genetically gifted posses. But I know for a fact, that they can suffer from depression and anxiety just like everyone else. I have met many genetically gifted people who are bipolar. There is big irony in that.

 

[DoctorHouse]

I heard that if you get a high enough reaction score on Hairlosstalk, you'll be reincarnated as a chad. And if it's high enough, you'll literally be reincarnated as a stud, as in, a male horse. Something I heard.

You think I qualify yet?

 

[DoctorHouse]

You'll find out soon enough. Beyond the realms of death.

If I dream I am a chad does that count?

 

[Milkonos]

It's only youth bro. Of course you'll eventually be fucked up in the brain like a true PTSD warrior. Except that you didn't fight the nazis, but came back from the balding wars.


"I was twenty years old. I won't let nobody say it's the best age of life"
-Paul Nizan

 

[300]

Most of the time we use depression as an excuse for being unmotivated to do anything in life.To me motivation is the key in life.Sure,there is real medical depression but i think most people use it as a cover or justification for their failures.People who are motivated,hopeful,always on the go are not depressed.

 

[disfiguredyoungman]

It's only youth bro. Of course you'll eventually be fucked up in the brain like a true PTSD warrior. Except that you didn't fight the nazis, but came back from the balding wars.

Would you have supported Hitler, Mussolini and Tojo if they could have cured baldness after winning the war?

 

[300]

Would you have supported Hitler, Mussolini and Tojo if they could have cured baldness after winning the war?

Would you?

 

[Milkonos]

Would you have supported Hitler, Mussolini and Tojo if they could have cured baldness after winning the war?

What are you trying to rope me in ? Those guys weren't even scientists, wtf.

At least Hirohito was some kind of biologist and botanist. His writings are still studied today. Great scientist, poor leader

 

[disfiguredyoungman]

What are you trying to rope me in ? Those guys weren't even scientists, wtf.

At least Hirohito was some kind of biologist and botanist. His writings are still studied today. Great scientist, poor leader

They weren't, but they had an army of scientists at their disposal. Some of which would later on contribute to the moon landing. Don't dodge this deep question! Search your feelings.

 

[300]

They weren't, but they had an army of scientists at their disposal. Some of which would later on contribute to the moon landing. Don't dodge this deep question! Search your feelings.

Everybody here would have supported them.If they say otherwise ,simply they re lying.