kingdomforhair
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I like to make people who are suffering feel better... I have one friend who has major burns to his skin. I tell him it doesn't matter and that nobody notices... but it's not true. It's very noticeable and it does affect him. I tell him he's need to be strong and to keep his chin up, but I know if I was in his position I would be a wreck..
The same thing happens to hair loss suffers... I have only moderate hair loss.. I tell those in a worse situation that they shouldn't worry because there are more important matters than hair, but I know I personally could not deal with anything more than a high NW2.5. I would destroy me anymore. I would want to die. But still I tell NW2.5 men that nothing is wrong, they should toughen up. Hey what are you supposed to say?
Men with hair loss are like fat girls. You can't say the truth to them. You have to tell them positive perspectives. I see it all the time. When someone posts here for feedback they always get positive messages, allot of the time it's not warranted, they look very bad. I say nothing but I'm sure I'm not the only one thinking like this. I guess though for those in question they have no choice but to move on.
Maybe the rule is if you have to ask a question 'do I look bad' the question is already answered, almost always as a 'yes'. Otherwise maybe it's only marginal, either way, but everyone can look in the mirror. If you look good you'll know it and never have to ask the question - do you think Freddie Ljungberg or Jason Statham lookalikes would ever post here? Nope I only see men with facial shapes that don't suit hair loss here, exclusively. That's why this place is a hell hole of negativity - it's attracted the losers of hair loss. I would not be here if I looked good bald. Why would I spend time with you losers (no offense ha) when I could be enjoying my youth?
I hope for me there's a strength I think I don't have that I do. If things get worse with my hair I don't know what I'll do. I can't deal with anymore hair loss, I don't have the strength for it. I'm already self conscious and angry over what's happened... The only thing I can think of to help is that I'm getting older, so are my friends and peers, they're getting signs of aging too, like wrinkles, sun damage, more. I hope it gets better. It could go either way: I might be forever haunted that my youth was destroyed, or I might accept that I'm no longer young and that gives me a release from wanting hair. I hope it's the later but in our youth obsessed society I doubt it. If this curse haunts me to my dying day I'll never experience happiness again.
The same thing happens to hair loss suffers... I have only moderate hair loss.. I tell those in a worse situation that they shouldn't worry because there are more important matters than hair, but I know I personally could not deal with anything more than a high NW2.5. I would destroy me anymore. I would want to die. But still I tell NW2.5 men that nothing is wrong, they should toughen up. Hey what are you supposed to say?
Men with hair loss are like fat girls. You can't say the truth to them. You have to tell them positive perspectives. I see it all the time. When someone posts here for feedback they always get positive messages, allot of the time it's not warranted, they look very bad. I say nothing but I'm sure I'm not the only one thinking like this. I guess though for those in question they have no choice but to move on.
Maybe the rule is if you have to ask a question 'do I look bad' the question is already answered, almost always as a 'yes'. Otherwise maybe it's only marginal, either way, but everyone can look in the mirror. If you look good you'll know it and never have to ask the question - do you think Freddie Ljungberg or Jason Statham lookalikes would ever post here? Nope I only see men with facial shapes that don't suit hair loss here, exclusively. That's why this place is a hell hole of negativity - it's attracted the losers of hair loss. I would not be here if I looked good bald. Why would I spend time with you losers (no offense ha) when I could be enjoying my youth?
I hope for me there's a strength I think I don't have that I do. If things get worse with my hair I don't know what I'll do. I can't deal with anymore hair loss, I don't have the strength for it. I'm already self conscious and angry over what's happened... The only thing I can think of to help is that I'm getting older, so are my friends and peers, they're getting signs of aging too, like wrinkles, sun damage, more. I hope it gets better. It could go either way: I might be forever haunted that my youth was destroyed, or I might accept that I'm no longer young and that gives me a release from wanting hair. I hope it's the later but in our youth obsessed society I doubt it. If this curse haunts me to my dying day I'll never experience happiness again.
