I Feel Like I Am Cheating Girls (title Too Short)

[inmyhead]

Hi fellow comrades,

In short, i'm 20yo guy. Who is diffuse thinning, it started few years ago. So now it's only visible under certain ligthing. I've tried finasteride, but it gives me gyno, so i dropped it and currently doing nothing but thats not the point.

The point is, since i know that i'm going bald, i can't talk or try to make a relationship with any girl because i know that i'll probably get bald in few years and will look like sh*t. So whats the point of starting a relationship now if i know that after few months or years i will look like sh*t and they will abandon me? Even if i meet a girl in club or something and we have a good time it's very hard for me to write to them and even if I do i just feel like i'm wasting their time.. Does anyone else feels like this?

 

[bankopm]

What i know is that you are not the only that is thinking in that way. Many of balding guys, suffer of thoughts like these.

 

[tellersquill]

You might keep it for years. I started losing hair at 21 and I'm not even a NW3 at 30.

Imagine if I didn't meet women for all those years!

Just date people and see what happens.

 

[SmoothSailing]

Every time you start dating someone you have to consider that in a few years the vast likelihood is that either you won't like this girl anymore and/or she won't like you.

If you stretch it to a few decades then it becomes almost certain.

 

[Baldingat188]

oh yea , I know what you mean. I often feel exactly the same way.

Infact , my hair loss is like yours. I am 18 and it has just begun to thin. However I am not to hopeful about the treatments so I am expecting to be slick bald by 22-23 most likley. This mentally cripples me on so many levels. Not even in the dating world to , even just normal socail interactions. I picture being bald in a few years and suddenly I dont have any desire to socialize , let alone date.

baldness is totally going to f*** me over big time. I will be one creepy dude with it. I have been described as awkward countless times which is not a good combination with baldness

I actually recall getting complimented on my looks a few times this past year but I hardly took it as a compliment because I know when I am bald , I wouldnt get a compliment like that.

 

[blackg]

I actually recall getting complimented on my looks a few times this past year but I hardly took it as a compliment because I know when I am bald , I wouldnt get a compliment like that.

Mate, take those complements and enjoy them.
Embrace them now why ya can.
I'm not being condescending here.

 

[Baldingat188]

Mate, take those complements and enjoy them.
Embrace them now why ya can.
I'm not being condescending here.

well yea your right. they still do feel good to get even though it hurts thinking about how it will be when im bald. I may get complements with hair , however I am one of those guys who will look very ugly without hair. just my face doesnt suit the look.

 

[Notcoolanymore]

Don't worry about wasting their time. That is their problem. Bang as many as you can now before it's too late!!