I know this might sound ridiculous,but the fact that my mom doesnt notice changes in my look,bothers me

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For example: I shaved my beard today and my mom didnt even comment on it,or probably didnt notice. But when my older brother does,she realizes and say like: ''Ooh you shaved your beard''. Should i worry about it? Does it mean that my mom doesnt care about me?
 

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Probably doesn't mean anything. Do you have a good relationship with your mother? If the answer is no, then why should you even care?

As someone who grew up without a father and with an absent mother, I don't really care whether she notices my looks or not.
 

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Probably doesn't mean anything. Do you have a good relationship with your mother? If the answer is no, then why should you even care?

As someone who grew up without a father and with an absent mother, I don't really care whether she notices my looks or not.
Im sorry about you bro. I lost my father at 11,i feel ya. Well,i have a somewhat good relationship with her,yes. Thats why this upsets me.
 

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She favors him more sorry to say. Move out as soon as you can.
Dang. He is not even here,he is living with my grandma for a while,cause he got a job opportunity,and moved out for a while.

Yes,im planning to move. It has always been like that bro,my brother has always been the favorite.

Why would you think she doesnt notice small things like that? Like shaving my beard,having a haircut. I mean,this is for sure not intentional,but it shows that she is indifferent.
 

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Do you resemble your mom more or dad? How about your bro?
I resemble my mom more. My bro resembles my dad more. My dad was good looking when young(he passed away in 2011 at 61). Every member of my family talks about how he looks like my dad,since we were little. I look literally like my mom,but in a male version,while my brother looks more masculine and attractive,because,which is from my dad side. Life sucks bro.
 

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I resemble my mom more. My bro resembles my dad more. My dad was good looking when young(he passed away in 2011 at 61). Every member of my family talks about how he looks like my dad,since we were little. I look literally like my mom,but in a male version,while my brother looks more masculine and attractive,because,which is from my dad side. Life sucks bro.

Could be your mom sees you as a bit of a loser and isn't that invested in you at the moment. Can be a temporary thing to be fair. I know we all assume a parent's love should be unconditional, but in reality they are parents in the second place and human beings in the first. Sometimes things aren't so cut and dry. Try to get something going for yourself, you'll see she'll start to care more most likely
 
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For example: I shaved my beard today and my mom didnt even comment on it,or probably didnt notice. But when my older brother does,she realizes and say like: ''Ooh you shaved your beard''. Should i worry about it? Does it mean that my mom doesnt care about me?
Stop thinking about it and concentrate on yourself and your own goals. These thoughts thst are swirling around in your head are nothing but destructive to urself. It’s your mum but you don’t need validation from anyone man, only yourself and how confident you are with it when it comes to your own appearance. Good luck
 

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Stop thinking about it and concentrate on yourself and your own goals. These thoughts thst are swirling around in your head are nothing but destructive to urself. It’s your mum but you don’t need validation from anyone man, only yourself and how confident you are with it when it comes to your own appearance. Good luck
Get off this Forum you nw1 hypohondriac lmao.
 
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