I sometimes look at couples and feel like their life is boring

[Oknow]

I have had several opportunities to settle down , but I find it hard to do so

it feels like once you settle down, you’ve reached the end game and can’t enjoy the diversity that comes with going out with multiple women

It looks boring as f*** but I can understand why people do so for the stability aspect

Anyone else think this way

@justinbieberscombover @DoctorHouse @vondoom

 

[KevinEdEddEddy]

I have had several opportunities to settle down , but I find it hard to do so

it feels like once you settle down, you’ve reached the end game and can’t enjoy the diversity that comes with going out with multiple women

It looks boring as f*** but I can understand why people do so for the stability aspect

Anyone else think this way

@justinbieberscombover @DoctorHouse @vondoom

Idk boring life sounds better than life where death and suffering is everywhere

 

[justinbieberscombover]

I have had several opportunities to settle down , but I find it hard to do so

it feels like once you settle down, you’ve reached the end game and can’t enjoy the diversity that comes with going out with multiple women

It looks boring as f*** but I can understand why people do so for the stability aspect

Anyone else think this way

@justinbieberscombover @DoctorHouse @vondoom

Love is amazing. With the right person you basically find yourself evolve and grow into a better person every day.

 

[fauxhawk]

Yeah imagine not being able to have a sex doll or watch midget p**rn because your in a relationship, sounds sucky to me bro

 

[Feelsbadman]

I disagree having meaningless sex with different women is boring
well not boring but not fullfillig

 

[vondoom]

you can be in a relationship without settling... always thought that is normal...
and if life is boring, then its up to you to change it...
i personally dont spend much time on the couch, or in front of the tv...

always going for girls also gets boring...
not only that, it also gets exhausting and it isnt getting any easier the older you get, because there are way less singles out there and even less people who would go for a one night stand...
it is also a time issue...
glad that i got those times behind me...
well lets say i could have done that forever, if it would be as easy as it used to be...
but other than that, you also dont really want to live alone, for practical reasons alone...

 

[Feelsbadman]

you can be in a relationship without settling... always thought that is normal...
and if life is boring, then its up to you to change it...
i personally dont spend much time on the couch, or in front of the tv...

always going for girls also gets boring...
not only that, it also gets exhausting and it isnt getting any easier the older you get, because there are way less singles out there and even less people who would go for a one night stand...
it is also a time issue...
glad that i got those times behind me...
well lets say i could have done that forever, if it would be as easy as it used to be...
but other than that, you also dont really want to live alone, for practical reasons alone...

isnt that immoral?

 

[vondoom]

isnt that immoral?

what?
i dont have high moral standards, maybe i overlooked something...

 

[Feelsbadman]

what?
i dont have high moral standards, maybe i overlooked something...

you said you can be in a relationship with someone without settling i interpreted that as leading them.on etc?

 

[vondoom]

you said you can be in a relationship with someone without settling i interpreted that as leading them.on etc?

ah no of course not... if i am in a relationship i am committed and take that seriously... i also view that as something that lasts a lifetime (of course often it doesnt)...
im just not keen on getting married and stuff, even though life together would be most likely the same, just without contract...

when i hear settling, i always think about couples who do nothing but watch tv and sometimes go to restaurants blabla, the typical (in my opinion) lame relationships...
that isnt for me... so i am committed 100%, but i dont play that family game...

 

[justinbieberscombover]

ah no of course not... if i am in a relationship i am committed and take that seriously... i also view that as something that lasts a lifetime (of course often it doesnt)...
im just not keen on getting married and stuff, even though life together would be most likely the same, just without contract...

when i hear settling, i always think about couples who do nothing but watch tv and sometimes go to restaurants blabla, the typical (in my opinion) lame relationships...
that isnt for me... so i am committed 100%, but i dont play that family game...

"Watch TV and go to restaurants" is a bit of a shallow observation, you look at the activity itself on a very superficial/mechanical level while in reality they vary a lot.. it's the chemistry and communication healthy couples have that make the relationship worth it. You don't need to sky dive together every week to have a good relationship. It's rather about deep conversations, taking care of each other, inner jokes, etc..

 

[vondoom]

"Watch TV and go to restaurants" is a bit of a shallow observation, you look at the activity itself on a very superficial/mechanical level while in reality they vary a lot.. it's the chemistry and communication healthy couples have that make the relationship worth it. You don't need to sky dive together every week to have a good relationship. It's rather about deep conversations, taking care of each other, inner jokes, etc..

yeah as i said, that is not for
me and i find it incredibly boring...
other people think the way i live is not the best idea...
the observation might be shallow, but this is all i ever hear people are doing...
works for you? fine, go for it...

i dont even need to skydive or something, a walk somewhere is good enough enough for me... since i am naturally curious, i like to be here and there...

when i am at home, all i do is being creative (or skill up) and that is probably the reason why i am not very comfortable just sitting doing nothing...
i am aware that most people are not like that... funnily people always had more of a problem with my lifestyle, while i dont have any with theirs (i just dont want to live like that)...

 

[debyne]

This is the same reason why many people without kids just see them as a burden and a ball and chain. Those same people will never comprehend what they're missing.