I’d Lost Touch With Reality And Needed To Take Some Time Away From This Site: Shout Out To Fred

kj6723

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It’s been a minute peeps: here’s what’s been going on with me

Shout out to Fred for talking sense into me, and Finasteride for restoring me emotionally

As some of you know, I was planning on a hair transplant recently. The events of my life, literally in the week or two leading up to it, led me to decide it was a poor decision

First off, I jumped the gun by scheduling it so soon. I scheduled it out of panic. I’d barely allowed medication the time it needed to work, and I was literally seeing gains in the weeks leading up to the transplant. I’m essentially a NW2 at this point. It was to the point where I was literally pulling back my hairline a week before I was supposed to have the procedure, and thinking “where the f*** is he even going to transplant?” To test it out, I even went and got a short haircut, and realized I basically just looked like someone with a normal head of hair! Minor recession, but finasteride has been good to me, no doubt.

@WhitePolarBear (seems to have changed his name?) made a post around this same time that really got me thinking about the rationality of a hair transplant solely for looksmaxing purposes, and although I resisted his idea at the time, he was right. It’s a reckless, perhaps even greedy move for someone in my position.

Since moving back to my home town and getting on medication, NOT A SINGLE PERSON has called me out for thinning hair, something for which I was becoming known in the social group where I previously lived, at which time I was a NW2.5 with visible forelock diffusion developing . Lately, the common response to people hearing my age is SHOCK(I’m 28, people think I’m in my early 20’s). I do have a young face, but I doubt if they thought of me as balding they would think such things. I feel semi at peace with my hair situation for the first time since I became aware of it (I say semi because of course it would be amazing to be a NW1).

NW2 feels amazing when you've been on the other side of it

As far as the transplant goes, I lost my deposit, but was able to get everything else fully refunded. I spoke with the surgeon, and he was super cool, made no effort to pressure me, and the bridge was left open for coming to him if in the future I decide my hair loss warrants a transplant. I’ve also avoided putting myself in a less than ideal financial situation, as I was planning to go in debt to pay for the procedure. I know there were those of you looking forward to seeing the results of my surgery, for better or worse I have none to show!

I’ve also changed my regimen, added a couple things, I’ll post about it in my story thread in a little bit

Anyway, although a break, and forcing myself to face reality was for sure healthy, I’m glad to be back. I’ve had some other experiences over the last several weeks that I think will make for good discussion here on Impact, and I look forward to posting

Long live finasteride!
 

kj6723

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what is your current regimen ? finasteride only ? or minoxidil too ?

Both. I'll update my story thread soon with what I'm currently doing
 

CopeForLife

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finasteride brought me to the mental stable as well although I do not see massive (any) regrowth but the fact that I do 90% of FDA that approved for hairloss treatment soothes me.
 

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It’s been a minute peeps: here’s what’s been going on with me

Shout out to Fred for talking sense into me, and Finasteride for restoring me emotionally

As some of you know, I was planning on a hair transplant recently. The events of my life, literally in the week or two leading up to it, led me to decide it was a poor decision

First off, I jumped the gun by scheduling it so soon. I scheduled it out of panic. I’d barely allowed medication the time it needed to work, and I was literally seeing gains in the weeks leading up to the transplant. I’m essentially a NW2 at this point. It was to the point where I was literally pulling back my hairline a week before I was supposed to have the procedure, and thinking “where the f*** is he even going to transplant?” To test it out, I even went and got a short haircut, and realized I basically just looked like someone with a normal head of hair! Minor recession, but finasteride has been good to me, no doubt.

@WhitePolarBear (seems to have changed his name?) made a post around this same time that really got me thinking about the rationality of a hair transplant solely for looksmaxing purposes, and although I resisted his idea at the time, he was right. It’s a reckless, perhaps even greedy move for someone in my position.

Since moving back to my home town and getting on medication, NOT A SINGLE PERSON has called me out for thinning hair, something for which I was becoming known in the social group where I previously lived, at which time I was a NW2.5 with visible forelock diffusion developing . Lately, the common response to people hearing my age is SHOCK(I’m 28, people think I’m in my early 20’s). I do have a young face, but I doubt if they thought of me as balding they would think such things. I feel semi at peace with my hair situation for the first time since I became aware of it (I say semi because of course it would be amazing to be a NW1).

NW2 feels amazing when you've been on the other side of it

As far as the transplant goes, I lost my deposit, but was able to get everything else fully refunded. I spoke with the surgeon, and he was super cool, made no effort to pressure me, and the bridge was left open for coming to him if in the future I decide my hair loss warrants a transplant. I’ve also avoided putting myself in a less than ideal financial situation, as I was planning to go in debt to pay for the procedure. I know there were those of you looking forward to seeing the results of my surgery, for better or worse I have none to show!

I’ve also changed my regimen, added a couple things, I’ll post about it in my story thread in a little bit

Anyway, although a break, and forcing myself to face reality was for sure healthy, I’m glad to be back. I’ve had some other experiences over the last several weeks that I think will make for good discussion here on Impact, and I look forward to posting

Long live finasteride!
Very wise decision. I have been in a similar situation to you has far as wanting a transplant. Like you, I have never been called out for thinning hair. Not only that I was talking to a co-worker who is starting to bald in his early 20's and he said he does not see anything wrong with my hair. I would be greedy too if I got one. Right now I am back on minoxidil and I am getting regrowth at the hairline. If I am getting it there I must be getting it all over.

I agree that you have to change your regimen sometimes to see if you can jump start some new growth. Glad to see you are back as you have always been a great poster.
 

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Very wise decision. I have been in a similar situation to you has far as wanting a transplant. Like you, I have never been called out for thinning hair. Not only that I was talking to a co-worker who is starting to bald in his early 20's and he said he does not see anything wrong with my hair. I would be greedy too if I got one. Right now I am back on minoxidil and I am getting regrowth at the hairline. If I am getting it there I must be getting it all over.

I agree that you have to change your regimen sometimes to see if you can jump start some new growth. Glad to see you are back as you have always been a great poster.

Appreciate the kind words, as always from you

I have been called out for my thinning hair, but it was before getting on meds and getting improvement. I was also living in a different state at the time. I've since moved back to my home state, and so far avoided the balding stigma altogether with everyone here, which is nice as I see myself staying here for a while.
 

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Forgot to mention the main reason :D

About looking like a science experiment in front of all your colleagues, and class mates.

cant wear a hat if I remember correctly?



this is generally the hardest part of surgery. Looking like total sh*t, with a bald red scalp thats inflamed... taking months to go away
 

kj6723

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Forgot to mention the main reason :D

About looking like a science experiment in front of all your colleagues, and class mates.

cant wear a hat if I remember correctly?



this is generally the hardest part of surgery. Looking like total sh*t, with a bald red scalp thats inflamed... taking months to go away

Lol the funny thing about that is it would have put me on blast for balding when no one here even realizes I have hair loss
 

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amazing to be a nw1 again? theres no real difference between 1 and 2 unless you are pulling your hair back or looking at your head from the top. here i am sitting with a nw6 lol

you reached your Final Form
 

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Does anyone else find it hard to be happy for people who respond to treatments?

Like, if I'm gonna be a half-head then everyone else should be a half head as well

I genuine happy for them.
 
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