If baldness was cured, do you think dating would be easier?

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Imagine, no bald guys, every guy has hair.

That is now your competition.
 

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It would help a lot of men with self esteem. If you have self esteem then I think dating would feel easier. Because without hair you will feel that every rejection is due to balding which is a flaw you feel you can never fix. Without hair loss then it is most likely something you can work on.
 

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nothing would change... the dateless will remain dateless... that is the way it is with all of those hypothesises...

if everyone has perfect hair, they go for height/skin/race/fingernails/eyelashes...

lets say now apparently 60% of all men loose hair and that wouldnt be the case, then nobody would have ever cared about hair and they would care about something else that is out of anybodies control...
 

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nothing would change... the dateless will remain dateless... that is the way it is with all of those hypothesises...

if everyone has perfect hair, they go for height/skin/race/fingernails/eyelashes...

lets say now apparently 60% of all men loose hair and that wouldnt be the case, then nobody would have ever cared about hair and they would care about something else that is out of anybodies control...

Yes - they will probably find something else to complain about
 

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the only way any of this is going to stop is when nobody cares about looks anymore and really just goes for character as they always pretend...
but i guess that means you would have to date fatties/manlets/baldies/single mums..
 

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the only way any of this is going to stop is when nobody cares about looks anymore and really just goes for character as they always pretend...
but i guess that means you would have to date fatties/manlets/baldies/single mums..

what I find ironic is how people on here are complaining that women don’t go for them cos they are bald and having preferences, yet discriminating against fatties for being fat and undatable
 
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what I find ironic is how people on here are complaining that women don’t go for them cos they are bald and having preferences, yet discriminating against fatties for being fat and undatable
that is what im saying for ages...
i also still say bald men and fat women are most likely just looksmatches, like if you ask a woman whats the worst and ask men whats the worst, i wouldnt be surprised if those are the answers...

then they answer with all fatties want chad only of course...
whatever you say they try to counter... but im bald! then get a system or do whatever you can to make it better (i absolutely understand hating being bald and that it makes things difficult), still no one does it because “i want my real hair”... yeah maybe your real hair is gone? transplant or system it is, or try treatments and then toppik if that helps, or whatever...
it is excuses over excuses...

final argument “but muh height”... not once in my life did i hear a woman say that she wants 6’ and everyone else can f*** right off... i got no idea how many women i banged, dated, talked to, but none of them ever had extremely high standards... dont be obese, dont be unemployed and thats it...
 

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that is what im saying for ages...
i also still say bald men and fat women are most likely just looksmatches, like if you ask a woman whats the worst and ask men whats the worst, i wouldnt be surprised if those are the answers...
The difference is one you have control over and the other you don't unless you act quickly and respond well.

I'd rather be 200 lbs overweight than have balding genes because I would do something about my weight and it is guaranteed to work. But finasteride isn't guaranteed to work because 10% of the people on the drug still lost hair.
 

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The difference is one you have control over and the other you don't unless you act quickly and respond well.

I'd rather be 200 lbs overweight than have balding genes because I would do something about my weight and it is guaranteed to work. But finasteride isn't guaranteed to work because 10% of the people on the drug still lost hair.
Plot twist:

Or you can date a fattie and get her to lose weight

A friend did that as a NW4

he’s now happily married and she is slim
 

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The difference is one you have control over and the other you don't unless you act quickly and respond well.

I'd rather be 200 lbs overweight than have balding genes because I would do something about my weight and it is guaranteed to work. But finasteride isn't guaranteed to work because 10% of the people on the drug still lost hair.
system or transplant (if still possible)...

also doesnt change the fact that balding men and fat women might be equally unattractive...
most likely fat women are as often going to be slim as bald men are going to get hair...
 

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system or transplant (if still possible)...

also doesnt change the fact that balding men and fat women might be equally unattractive...
most likely fat women are as often going to be slim as bald men are going to get hair...
If you have the genetics to wind up as a norwood 6 or 7 then you are screwed if you don't stop it.
 

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Depends on your norwood level. But in general I would say yes. Western societies are shifting towards hypergamous/ polyamorous dating structures, especially for the young age bracket.
Don't wanna go into incel territory, but it's not really that removed from reality to say that many young women prefer to share one sexual partner with many other women instead of dating someone ugly/significantly less attractive. So if a good portion of men turned more attractive the dating pool of these women in question would just increase, without it being a complete zero sum game.
 

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Depends on your norwood level. But in general I would say yes. Western societies are shifting towards hypergamous/ polyamorous dating structures, especially for the young age bracket.
Don't wanna go into incel territory, but it's not really that removed from reality to say that many young women prefer to share one sexual partner with many other women instead of dating someone ugly/significantly less attractive. So if a good portion of men turned more attractive the dating pool of these women in question would just increase, without it being a complete zero sum game.
Idiotic post

then explain all of the monogamous married couples?
 

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Idiotic post

then explain all of the monogamous married couples?
How could I ever explain the existence of married couples, after stating that many young women live a certain lifestyle...think retard, think.
 

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Yes and I think that the world would be a little different. We would have more families and fewer 'spinsters' I think. Many people would rather stay single than date a bald guy. If there were no bald guys, such a person might go on dates and end up having a family. There are no positives with baldness. It destroys everything around it.
 

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Idiotic post

then explain all of the monogamous married couples?
This post is actually accurate. I think female hypergamy wouldn't be about 80% of women going for the top 20% of men, it would be like 80% going for top 30-35% of men.

I think 35% of men fit enough height requirements (5'10 +) and about 1/3 men experience hair loss between 20 and 40. So about 20% have neither deficiency. You take balding out of the equation and now the pool of men who meet the female standard increases.

I know that I can attract women with my hair, face, and height (which isn't great at 5'9) but balding might toss me into the incel tier so I have to fight for my life. Just imagine averge men who suffer hair loss who are now no longer eligible for a relationship because they didn't meet the minimum standards for attraction. Hypergamy is a real thing since religion and family is dead, and in order to have relationships with women, it's not enough to be self reliant, successful and able to take care of yourself. You need to be physically wanted and hair loss forums on tressless and here have taught me that bald is a very bad trait to have. I read one post on tressless about a bald guy who tried speed dating and he did like 50 events with 0 matches. Some women cruelly yelled at him for balding.
 

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i wonder why people think that now women are all poly/hyper...
they always went for rich dudes and better looking dudes if they could and i dont mean that in a negative way...
men did and do the same, they usually just think they are way more attractive than they actually are...
and people always fucked around, and always will be... people on the internet apparently just havent been a part of it...
 

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i wonder why people think that now women are all poly/hyper...
they always went for rich dudes and better looking dudes if they could and i dont mean that in a negative way...
men did and do the same, they usually just think they are way more attractive than they actually are...
and people always fucked around, and always will be... people on the internet apparently just havent been a part of it...
I disagree. Before you didn't have dating options on a handheld device it had to be through connections.
 
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