If We Get Our Hair Back Should We Forgive The Physical Faults Of Others?

[nameless]

Look, I get it that this question looks like it comes from a place of bitterness. It does not. Still, some posters will include in their responses that the question is bitter. For the record, those posters are unintelligent because my question comes from a different place.

My question comes from a place of basic equity/fairness. Look, if I'm forgiving towards you but you're unforgiving towards me there's no equity/fairness in that proposition. In that proposition I'm getting an unfair deal.

Here are the possible fair deals:

1. I'm forgiving towards you and you're forgiving towards me.

2. I'm unforgiving towards you and you're unforgiving towards me.


Here are the possible unfair deals:

3. I'm forgiving towards you but you're unforgiving towards me.

4. I'm unforgiving towards you but you're forgiving towards me.

Basic principles of equity and fairness indicate that if we get our hair back we should live in accordance with option number 1 or number 2. If we get our hair back and live in accordance with option number 3 or number 4 then either we ourselves will be getting an unfair deal or the other party is/are getting an unfair deal. The other party/parties being the people with hair.

The other party/parties have already made their choice and their choice paints us into a corner (metaphor added to please Pasbrillantebrunette). They have decided to be unforgiving towards us. If we get our hair back we should ONLY select the most attractive mates we can get, at the expense of unattractive people, because that is the only fair option left to us.

I would like to be wrong but unfortunately I think I have a valid point.

 

[buckthorn]

Look, I get it that this question looks like it comes from a place of bitterness. It does not. Still some posters will include in their responses that the question is bitter. For the record, those posters are unintelligent because my question comes from a different place.

My question comes from a place of basic equity/fairness. Look, if I'm kind and forgiving towards you but you are unkind and unforgiving to me there is no equity/fairness in that proposition. In that proposition I am getting a bad deal.

Here are the possible fair deals:

1. I'm forgiving towards you and you're forgiving towards me.

2. I'm unforgiving towards you and you're unforgiving towards me.


Here are the possible unfair deals:

3. I'm forgiving towards you but you're unforgiving towards me.

4. I'm unforgiving towards you but you're forgiving towards me.

Basic principles of equity and fairness indicate that if we get our hair back we should live in accordance with option number 1 or number 2. If we get our hair back and live in accordance with option number 3 or number 4 then either we ourselves will be getting an unfair deal or the other party is/are getting an unfair deal.
The other party/parties being the people with hair.

The other party/parties have already made their choice and their choice paints us into a corner. They have decided to be unforgiving towards us. If we get our hair back we should ONLY select the most attractive mates we can get, at the expense of unattractive people, because that is the only fair option left to us.

option one should always be the option we pursue, despite any condition including hair loss. I am not sure I understand the question. I simply don't interact with people that are "unforgiving" towards me, as I am forgiving towards everyone.

 

[nameless]

option one should always be the option we pursue, despite any condition including hair loss. I am not sure I understand the question. I simply don't interact with people that are "unforgiving" towards me, as I am forgiving towards everyone.

You would be right in a perfect world. And I agree with you in the sense that I would like to live in that nice world you envision. But the world isn't really so nce. As I see the world, we ARE ALREADY being treated unforgivingly in it. Women do not want us because we lack hair. And men don't want the balding women here because they (balding women) are missing hair.

 

[nameless]

And I am very pleased with it, thank you

It was good for me too.

 

[nameless]

option one should always be the option we pursue, despite any condition including hair loss. I am not sure I understand the question. I simply don't interact with people that are "unforgiving" towards me, as I am forgiving towards everyone.

For example Buckthorn, let me ask if any woman has rejected you or dropped you because of your hair loss?

If a woman has done that to you would you go out with her down the road if you got your hair back and she wanted to go out with you because you become better looking when you get your hair back?

 

[shookwun]

I will continue destroying other men within, and outside of the club.

Twinks will worship me

masculine men will envy me

women will submit to me



It will be a new beginning.

 

[nameless]

I will continue destroying other men within, and outside of the club.

And that's fair because that's what they try to do to you.

 

[buckthorn]

For example Buckthorn, let me ask if any woman has rejected you or dropped you because of your hair loss?

If a woman has done that to you would you go out with her down the road if you got your hair back and she wanted to go out with you because you become better looking when you get your hair back?

oh, i see what you're saying now. No, I have left them because of my hair loss. Because hair loss made me depressed and it's not fair to date someone when you're miserable wth yourself.

 

[buckthorn]

No way a sane woman would reject Buckthorn. Period.

tu es tre s belle. danseras-tu avec moi? Tu as de beaux yeux mademoiselle.

 

[buckthorn]

I will continue destroying other men within, and outside of the club.

Twinks will worship me

masculine men will envy me

women will submit to me



It will be a new beginning.

true, other men are already afraid to f*** with me, which is nice... bald? I will scare them shitless. but, it will also be the end of my social life.

 

[nameless]

oh, i see what you're saying now. No, I have left them because of my hair loss. Because hair loss made me depressed and it's not fair to date someone when you're miserable wth yourself.

OK. You have a point. I know that because I have a few women interested in me but I won't do it in part because I would be unhappy even in a relationship. Also, they're not real easy on the eyes and if I got my hair back I would probably move on. It's totally unfair to get together with someone if I know I would move on if I got my hair back.

I guess my question would be more to the guy(s) who believe that women don't want us because we're missing hair. Lots of guys here do believe that.

 

[shookwun]

it also comes down to fair battlegrounds, and knowing that the women I am with can easily be replaced. I want her to feel like she got lucky, and not the other way around.


Without hair this is out of the question, as most women will discriminate against men who are balding. They will often slowly lose interest over something we have no control over, and use this as a weapon against our own will. Each norwood making couples more distant within the process.

 

[nameless]

But that's the thing. They can understand, but not the way we do here. At some point you are just diving them down... and are to aware of it not to leave them.

I understand and I'm also experiencing that same situation you and buckthorn are talking about so I know from whence you speak.

But me and lots of other guys here also think that the bulk of women out there would not give us the time of day because they wouldn't like the way we look without our hair. I guess my question is more to those guys than the guys who are declining to be in relationships.

 

[nameless]

it also comes down to fair battlegrounds, and knowing that the women I am with can easily be replaced. I want her to feel like she got lucky, and not the other way around.


Without hair this is out of the question, as most women will discriminate against men who are balding. They will often slowly lose interest over something we have no control over, and use this as a weapon against our own will. Each norwood making couples more distant within the process.

You are absolutely correct. And I've raised the same issue in other threads. For example, check this out: When I had a girlfriend if she started treating me badly I would put my foot down and say, "That's it, I'm going out!" and my girlfriends knew that "I'm going out!" was really code for I'm going to put myself around a bunch of fliratious women so they would instantly cool their jets.

You are absolutely right! Our hair/attractiveness is a defense weapon that we can use to keep other people, including our one woman, from taking us for granted or mistreating us

 

[blackg]

I will continue destroying other men within, and outside of the club.
Twinks will worship me
masculine men will envy me
women will submit to me

Ahhh sh*t, here we go...

 

[Grasshüpfer]

oh, i see what you're saying now. No, I have left them because of my hair loss. Because hair loss made me depressed and it's not fair to date someone when you're miserable wth yourself.

Seriously? Just did that, too. Similar mindset.

 

[CopeForLife]

Ahhh sh*t, here we go...

I wrote already

shook delivers amazing posts like 10%, 60% is gymcelling bullshit, 10% mocking Dante for his "exuses" and 10% of how cool guy is he and how his diffuse NW1 "ruins" him and 10% "low T cuck" and another sluthate rubbish

but that 10% of decent posts are gem, maybe top quality

guess in what 10% hit this post

 

[hellouser]

LOL, no!

They'll sh*t on you hair or no hair. People are generally assholes.

 

[tellersquill]

I don't mind people being average - in fact it makes me feel better about myself - but nobody deserves to be below a 5.

Everyone ought to be at least fuckable.]

Even my enemies.

 

[nameless]

I don't mind people being average - in fact it makes me feel better about myself - but nobody deserves to be below a 5.

Everyone ought to be at least fuckable.]

Even my enemies.

I agree. Everyone should get to be at least a 5. For example, I read about people with major cleft lip problems in undeveloped countries and I wonder what kind of all-loving all-merciful God would do this to people. I feel this way about all disfigurements, including baldness. I think that disfigurements really stand as part of the proof that there is NO God.