I’m A Marxist-feminist sl*t—how Do I Find An Open Relationship?

[Afro_Vacancy]

https://www.thenation.com/article/im-a-marxist-feminist-sl*t-how-do-i-find-an-open-relationship/

I’m a Marxist-Feminist sl*t—How Do I Find an Open Relationship?
Another reader asks how to handle a trash-talking comrade in a tight-knit activist community.
By Liza FeatherstoneTwitter
September 8, 2017

Dear Liza, 


I’m a 32-year-old woman who would like to have kids and a life partner in the not-so-distant future. And lucky me! I’ve recently started dating an excellent candidate. But I can’t even pretend to think it’s possible (or desirable) to have sex with just one person for the rest of my life or even, frankly, for a few years. 


Monogamy feels antithetical to the type of feminism and anticapitalism I subscribe to. I am repulsed by the idea of being a man’s property. Also, monogamy—like capitalism—requires us to believe in a false scarcity: that we have to struggle for every little bit and that everything we gain comes at someone else’s expense. The kind of liberatory future I’d like to see is one of abundance and generosity and sharing. One of the few places we can experiment with that now is in our love lives. 


But ALL the decent men I’ve dated are really opposed to open relationships, while the men I’ve slept with who say they fancy the idea don’t ever stick around long enough for the “relationship” part of an open relationship. 


This leaves me feeling like once I find a partner, the options are: 1) cheating (crummy and unethical, also a big anxiety-inducing headache); 2) waiting for the mythical “one” who will magically make me never attracted to anyone else (I’m fairly certain this is a hoax); or 3) retire from my glorious days as a loud, proud sl*t and gradually wither away inside as I suffocate one of the parts of my life, personality, and politics I cherish most. Please tell me there is another option out there.
—A Marxist-Feminist sl*t



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You can find the columnist's answer at the link.

 

[RegenWaiting]

Do people really need to clinge to something so badly after throwing religion out the window,
they really end up just replacing it with something else?

Can't people just stop to hyperpolarize the sh*t out of everything
in order for it to complete their world view - make sense of reality for them?

The very thing she claims to so deeple despise - she is the product of.
She nurtures the egencentrism like she's the only one left on planet earth.

I must stop here...but...the human arrogance never ceases to amaze me.

 

[Medina]

Welcome to the gender war.

The smart guys like myself find a submissive b**ch that worships his feet but still fucks around when he can. There is NO OTHER choice. Why? Because even the submissive b**ch will still f*** you over if you become weak and boring. This is the kind of WARZONE the feminists have created. They think they are "anti-capitalist" but ironically they are promoting the most severe form of dog-eat-dog Darwinist natural selection..where women are free to f*** like animals while the state (or beta males) provide for them.

You would have to be f*****g insane to go along with this.

 

[blackg]

https://www.thenation.com/article/im-a-marxist-feminist-sl*t-how-do-i-find-an-open-relationship/

I’m a Marxist-Feminist sl*t—How Do I Find an Open Relationship?
Another reader asks how to handle a trash-talking comrade in a tight-knit activist community.
By Liza FeatherstoneTwitter
September 8, 2017

Dear Liza, 


I’m a 32-year-old woman who would like to have kids and a life partner in the not-so-distant future. And lucky me! I’ve recently started dating an excellent candidate. But I can’t even pretend to think it’s possible (or desirable) to have sex with just one person for the rest of my life or even, frankly, for a few years. 


Monogamy feels antithetical to the type of feminism and anticapitalism I subscribe to. I am repulsed by the idea of being a man’s property. Also, monogamy—like capitalism—requires us to believe in a false scarcity: that we have to struggle for every little bit and that everything we gain comes at someone else’s expense. The kind of liberatory future I’d like to see is one of abundance and generosity and sharing. One of the few places we can experiment with that now is in our love lives. 


But ALL the decent men I’ve dated are really opposed to open relationships, while the men I’ve slept with who say they fancy the idea don’t ever stick around long enough for the “relationship” part of an open relationship. 


This leaves me feeling like once I find a partner, the options are: 1) cheating (crummy and unethical, also a big anxiety-inducing headache); 2) waiting for the mythical “one” who will magically make me never attracted to anyone else (I’m fairly certain this is a hoax); or 3) retire from my glorious days as a loud, proud sl*t and gradually wither away inside as I suffocate one of the parts of my life, personality, and politics I cherish most. Please tell me there is another option out there.
—A Marxist-Feminist sl*t



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You can find the columnist's answer at the link.

I like the sound of this girl. A woman with a mind of her own excites me.

 

[blackg]

. They think they are "anti-capitalist" but ironically they are promoting the most severe form of dog-eat-dog Darwinist natural selection..where women are free to f*** like animals while the state (or beta males) provide for them.
.

Not in this case. This is exactly what the woman doesn't want. Hence her delema.
She is a woman of standards, I believe, and I applaud her stance.

 

[PappinAce]

i think what she is getting at is that a sense of community is more closely aligned with a healthy human existence. that means to be friends with each other, be involved in each other's lives, be physically and emotionally intimate with each other, even if it is a dozen of you. and do not get jealous of the other one. the community is more important than your own self.

i think we have already seen enough of why this isolationist, divisive nuclear family model ends up failing. it feels good for like five years and then the endless problems manifest themselves. the marital partners do not live their lives to nearly their full potential and neither do the kids. we can do way better, but we're so entrenched in one way of doing things that we can't see outside of it.

i dream of living in a community where the rote memorization of public school is not the children's primary source of "education". one where the adults still have meaningful lives. one where love is the baseline, not fear. monogamy CAN be a way this happens, but it usually isn't.

 

[blackg]

Do people really need to clinge to something so badly after throwing religion out the window,
they really end up just replacing it with something else?

Can't people just stop to hyperpolarize the sh*t out of everything
in order for it to complete their world view - make sense of reality for them?

The very thing she claims to so deeple despise - she is the product of.
She nurtures the egencentrism like she's the only one left on planet earth.

I must stop here...but...the human arrogance never ceases to amaze me.

This is actually a great post!

What is it inside each of us that makes us yearn for something to believe in, to cling to, to male us belong somewhere???
A belief system for the soul..
Even if that belief system conflicts with our very core.
What is this great void!

 

[PappinAce]

This is actually a great post!

What is it inside each of us that makes us yearn for something to believe in, to cling to, to male us belong somewhere???
A belief system for the soul..
Even if that belief system conflicts with our very core.
What is this great void!

indeed. the job of consciousness is simply to identify what is own and what is other. food and water and oxygen and regenerating cells, we appropriate to ourselves. but we are also looking for someone to appropriate ourselves to.

 

[Rudiger]

I like the sound of this girl. A woman with a mind of her own excites me.

I think people Liked this because they thought you were joking.

 

[irondude221]

Welcome to the gender war.

The smart guys like myself find a submissive b**ch that worships his feet but still fucks around when he can. There is NO OTHER choice. Why? Because even the submissive b**ch will still f*** you over if you become weak and boring. This is the kind of WARZONE the feminists have created. They think they are "anti-capitalist" but ironically they are promoting the most severe form of dog-eat-dog Darwinist natural selection..where women are free to f*** like animals while the state (or beta males) provide for them.

You would have to be f*****g insane to go along with this.

I think you'd like where I live, where the most valued trait a woman can have is her virginity.

 

[blackg]

I think you'd like where I live, where the most valued trait a woman can have is her virginity.

And her ***!

 

[rclark]

I think you'd like where I live, where the most valued trait a woman can have is her virginity.

That was popular in the U.S., in the 1990s. Women tried to "reclaim their virginity".

After a certain age in life, I kind of look down on virgins. I would think something was wrong with a
thirty year old or older virgin, I really would.

 

[irondude221]

That was popular in the U.S., in the 1990s. Women tried to "reclaim their virginity".

After a certain age in life, I kind of look down on virgins. I would think something was wrong with a
thirty year old or older virgin, I really would.

even if it's to keep your damn life? In more conservative families, losing your virginity before marriage can be a death sentence - literally, honor killings are a thing here. My country is the no.2 most p**rn watching country for a reason.

 

[ManinBlack]

I give up. I am throwing in the towel on relationships. I want nothing more of women and their mind games. I have evolved from incel to volcel.

 

[JohnathonNY]

Came for the memes.

Left feeling a vast emptyness in life.

Only on this website.

 

[JohnathonNY]

I give up. I am throwing in the towel on relationships. I want nothing more of women and their mind games. I have evolved from incel to volcel.

Lol nah you just coping. Inb4 hopecels

 

[ManinBlack]

Lol nah you just coping. Inb4 hopecels

Whatever, you call it cope, I call it maintaining my sanity and dignity.

 

[JohnathonNY]

Whatever, you call it cope, I call it maintaining my sanity and dignity.

Maybe it isn't cope. But why not have non-committed relationships than? Why not sign-up for pre-nup? Why not put your foot down and divorce her when she acts out? I feel like you can easily fight back. Most of the men from the previous generation wouldn't have it with their women. Nowadays, most women are marrying push-over men just so they can have it their way.

Even in the media and movies, most men are portrayed as the morons of the family, that go to work and drink beer infront of the TV until they fall asleep while the women manage the taxes, kids, and holds the job. It's this portrayal that is f*****g up our society. Remember Gary Cooper, the strong silent type?


btw that pro pic is awesome

 

[CaptainForehead]

I would think something was wrong with a
thirty year old or older virgin, I really would.