It makes you wonder why more people don’t get a system...

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This guy broke into tears after seeing the results


Adam's bragged women are overwhelming him with messages in the hope he'll take them on a date, going on his first last Friday (August 20).

He said: "I cannot explain to you how many girls have messaged me over the past few days, it's unreal. They're just jumping into my inbox and that feels good.


"I've never struggled to meet people but I feel like I've gone from chasing to being chased. I was fighting against the tide because my personality was there but my hair wasn't.

"I've ceremonially thrown away all my caps. I never thought I suited them anyway but it was better than walking around looking very old.

“A lot of blokes think you're trying to trick someone, but 2.5million people know I have a hair system and girls do not care. If you're confident in how you look it shines through.”
 

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I feel like the main problems with systems and such stuff is just knowing that you're walking around with someone else's hair glued to your head, like it's just not your real hair. While transplants for example are artificially placed on your head, it is still your real hair growing out, the same is not so for a system. Also just the stigma about it, with all the toupee jokes and being viewed as "insecure" and whatnot. And also the stress of wondering if the system has lifted during the day or if it looks off etc. It just isn't a very viable option for most people, at least not yet.
 

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I feel like the main problems with systems and such stuff is just knowing that you're walking around with someone else's hair glued to your head, like it's just not your real hair. While transplants for example are artificially placed on your head, it is still your real hair growing out, the same is not so for a system. Also just the stigma about it, with all the toupee jokes and being viewed as "insecure" and whatnot. And also the stress of wondering if the system has lifted during the day or if it looks off etc. It just isn't a very viable option for most people, at least not yet.

seems to have turned this guys life around
 

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When you're younger you think; "I won't care when I'm 30", but that's almost never the case when we actually hit 30.

The thing is, good hair is kinda like being in great shape; it's a bigger flex the older you get. Even if you get a transplant & people know about it, not only does it look better, but it signifies that you have money. This is the next step down, but the guy is in tears ffs. Probably a classic example of someone whose friends would have claimed is perfectly happy being bald too.
 

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yeah that is what i think people what people should do, when there isnt any other way anymore and they are seriously convinced that hair is what is lacking to have any success...

for one night stands/casual, women most likely wouldnt notice, in a serious relationship, it most likely doesnt matter and unless you want to, the wife wouldnt see you bald anyway...
 

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I actually sent a message to this person on a social medium and they told me the same thing. They suggested that I could just get the system and openly tell people the truth that I wanted a hair transplant but wasn't a good candidate, and so decided on a system. I'm giving bald a try for a few months first, however. I think that I'd choose a system over SMP for sure.
 

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yeah that is what i think people what people should do, when there isnt any other way anymore and they are seriously convinced that hair is what is lacking to have any success...

for one night stands/casual, women most likely wouldnt notice, in a serious relationship, it most likely doesnt matter and unless you want to, the wife wouldnt see you bald anyway...

I think by the time you get into a serious relationship with someone, if you open up they probably won’t care
 

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I use concealers and waited 9 months before showing my girlfriend what I look like without them. I was always open about having hair issues and explained that I used styling products to make my hair look thicker, but never went into much detail.

Using concealers or a system gives you a chance to get your foot in the door and let your personality shine. Once they get to know you they won't care about what you do to make your hair look good.

Imagine dating a girl with an awesome personality and she was gorgeous, but wore makeup. Then after falling for her you find out without makeup she isn't nearly as attractive... would it change how you see her?
 

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I read a story of a dude who got a hair system and then went on a date with a woman while wearing it, and was complimented on his "hair". Then later on they had sex which became rough and then she accidentally ripped the system off, and then accused the guy of being a fraud and liar and whatnot, and that was the end of that.

That must be embarrassing.
 

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I think by the time you get into a serious relationship with someone, if you open up they probably won’t care
they are most likely never going to see you bald anyway...
also nobody pulls your hair during sex (that is something i always read people are afraid of, not to mention you have to have sex for that to happen anyway)....

nobody will notice, maybe at the hairline and that can be covered with a haircut...
problem is that most go straight for chads haircut (most likely to add an inch or two to get out of manlet territory)...

outside nobody cares anyway (leads to the next problem: “bbbut im invisible to women”^^)... i bet nobody even looks that long on somebodies head...
 

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I read a story of a dude who got a hair system and then went on a date with a woman while wearing it, and was complimented on his "hair". Then later on they had sex which became rough and then she accidentally ripped the system off, and then accused the guy of being a fraud and liar and whatnot, and that was the end of that.

That must be embarrassing.

Think people are a lot more acceptable these days when it comes to hair transplant and systems
 

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I use concealers and waited 9 months before showing my girlfriend what I look like without them. I was always open about having hair issues and explained that I used styling products to make my hair look thicker, but never went into much detail.

Using concealers or a system gives you a chance to get your foot in the door and let your personality shine. Once they get to know you they won't care about what you do to make your hair look good.

Imagine dating a girl with an awesome personality and she was gorgeous, but wore makeup. Then after falling for her you find out without makeup she isn't nearly as attractive... would it change how you see her?
it could change my attraction, yes...
had that happen quite a few times that the woman looked way different without make up...
 

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Think people are a lot more acceptable these days when it comes to hair transplant and systems
Haven't heard too much talk about systems and the like irl, but I'm just not convinced that wearing a rug is stigma-free, maybe some day it will be, but not now. And there's also the internal embarrassment many would feel. I feel like transplants have a better rep since it's your real hair, but even then it's not 100 % stigma-free, but I think that is mostly clouded by bad outdated results.

Although if someone is unironically one of those bald = worse than death people it would be a bit stupid to refuse wearing.

Also I've never understood, but how do wearers explain themselves? Like one day they're a NW6, and then the next day a NW1 with a stylish haircut? Do they just say that they're wearing a rug?
 

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Haven't heard too much talk about systems and the like irl, but I'm just not convinced that wearing a rug is stigma-free, maybe some day it will be, but not now. And there's also the internal embarrassment many would feel. I feel like transplants have a better rep since it's your real hair, but even then it's not 100 % stigma-free, but I think that is mostly clouded by bad outdated results.

Although if someone is unironically one of those bald = worse than death people it would be a bit stupid to refuse wearing.

Also I've never understood, but how do wearers explain themselves? Like one day they're a NW6, and then the next day a NW1 with a stylish haircut? Do they just say that they're wearing a rug?
they will refuse wearing one, because they refuse everything...

the stigma is only bad if you care about what other people think, which of course you shouldnt... the people who say “is he wearing a rug”, are the same who say “wtf look at that horse shoe”...

same goes for explaining, why should you explain anything? and if someone asks, in that situation it is obvious and you just say “yo is system”...
 

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they will refuse wearing one, because they refuse everything...

the stigma is only bad if you care about what other people think, which of course you shouldnt... the people who say “is he wearing a rug”, are the same who say “wtf look at that horse shoe”...

same goes for explaining, why should you explain anything? and if someone asks, in that situation it is obvious and you just say “yo is system”...

the guy in the original post is happy with his rug, if he listened to others he would still be a horseshoe right now
 
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