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[CCS]

Just because a woman will settle for having sex with you does not mean you will get to see her naked. At least half of the women out there like to turn the lights out first before taking off any clothes. They spare your ego by saying it is because they are self conscious about their looks. And half the time this may be true. But probably 80% of the time it is because they just want your feel and want to imagine another guy who looks better. They don't want to have to look at you. It is kind of like putting a brown paper bag over you, but more socially acceptable. You've seen it on TV shows too. She reaches for the light switch, and does it in a way as if it is so seductive.

Has anyone on here besides me every been with a pretty woman, but is unable to say he saw more of her body than any other guy on the street? Just when I think I've scored, it turns out I have not.

Some of those stats are made up though. What percentage of women you've been with prefer darkness during sex? I don't mind it as dark as a bar, but I want to at least be able to enjoy how she looks.

 

[CCS]

And I broke up with the last woman I was with over this. It was mutual. We are still friends though.

If I put in 3 hours per day 3 days a week for a month I'll probably find my next woman. Who knows if she will be compatible though. I'll have to put in my ad that I'm visual and need some light at least half the time.

 

[GeminiX]

A lot, probably most, of my female friends prefer to get naked in the dark, and it has nothing *AT ALL* to do with anyone's hair loss or pandering to a male ego.

It does however have everything to do with feeling self concious that we don't look like a catwalk model or the girl on the calendar in the 'shop, or that girl on page three, or that girl on the pictures you downloaded off the interwebs...

 

[somone uk]

thinking about it even paris hilton turned out the lights out though this just proves that women are generally too self critical, i mean i don't think paris hilton is the hottest thing ever but i don't see her as being someone who really needs to hide anything
i agree that only a thick NW1 and megan fox would realistically have sex with the lights on though
i pesonally would rather have sex in the dark so i am personally fine with it

CCS maybe you should look for a girl that is terrified of the dark

 

[s.a.f]

I think you've been watching too many porno's CCS, the truth is even the hottest girls are extremley self concious these days. And although not all would want to do it in the dark most would prefer to at least dim the lights as it adds to intimacy. Nothing to do with not wanting to see you.

 

[skallagrimur]

Have you been dating any Vampires lately?

 

[HughJass]

I've been with a couple of girls who didn't seem in a hurry to be naked in front of me as much as I would have liked, even though much sex had taken place. I couldnt' work out whether it was due to insecurity with their looks or because they enjoyed teasing me or something.


Anyway, how's it going with the condom thing CCS? perhaps you need one custom fitted?

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Spray-on_condom

 

[Bald Dave]

Yeah i have found this to be true as well. I do think every woman is self-concious one way or another. I was in the bakers this morning and this hot girl was in front of me talking to her mate. She was hot and i mean hot dammit! She could get any guy she wanted but she was going about the fact she needed to lose some weight as she thinks that she is too fat. So thats proof right there that all women are self-concious!

CCS next time you have sex with the lights off turn on the tv and say that you need to fall asleep in front of the tv. Then when you're having sex the bright lights from the tv screen should help you see her a bit. Ok it might not be like a p**rn film when you get to see everything in detail but at least you'll be able to see a nipple

 

[Ori83]

it never bothered me actually, i think minimal lighting creates better atmosphere, and i dont have sex just to see her body... total darkness is kinda weird tho, i wont let it happen in total darkness. if she insists ill just talk sweet to her until she will accept minimal lighting.

 

[s.a.f]

Yeah i have found this to be true as well. I do think every woman is self-concious one way or another. I was in the bakers this morning and this hot girl was in front of me talking to her mate. She was hot and i mean hot dammit! She could get any guy she wanted but she was going about the fact she needed to lose some weight as she thinks that she is too fat. So thats proof right there that all women are self-concious!

Gotta love bald daves way of thinking :mrgreen:

 

[CCS]

I just posted the question on a forum that good looking guys are likely to frequent. Most of them said the lights are on, or the lights are dimmed.

So my question for us then is, do you typically have the lights dimmed, or is it very dark? Dark enough you just see a silhouette? Or can you see curves just fine but not pores? I'm still trying compare one forum to the other, so please specify just how dark you normally have it.

I just remembered: the first two women I was with, both 23, did it with me with the lights on. Just the milf who wanted them off.

 

[s.a.f]

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"So in conclusion we have the theory Norwood = light and 2.56399 / $ x 3.5356"
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"What??? You're telling me that even with my scientists salary I have to do it in the dark !?!?"


"What say you CCS?"
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[oni]

Sorry..... never had a woman ask for the lights out......could be because they are worried about what is coming next................... :whistle:

 

[CCS]

It might have more to do with the woman the guy gets. If she looks good, it is more likely she will be OK with the lights on. For her to want it dark so she does not see the guy, he would have to look really bad, or she would want to do it for herself so she can imagine stuff.

 

[s.a.f]

It might have more to do with the woman the guy gets. If she looks good, it is more likely she will be OK with the lights on. For her to want it dark so she does not see the guy, he would have to look really bad, or she would want to do it for herself so she can imagine stuff.

You are deluded about this, I dont know what type of girls you know but I cant think of any except for the Anna Nicole Smith type that would sleep with a man they found physicly unnatractive.

 

[CCS]

I agree SAF. Most will not sleep with a guy they don't find attractive.

Many will not go on a date with a guy they don't find attractive, but many will if he seems harmless and easy to take advantage of. They will also let most guys buy them drinks even if they don't find him attractive. But if you have tons of money like donald trump, I'm sure you heard the saying that there is no such thing as an ugly millionaire. And I bet they would prefer the lights out if they don't find him physically attractive.

You don't have to be donald trump rich though. Many women working fast food their whole lives will readily marry a mechanic who is not that attractive, and many secretaries will readily marry an engineer whom they don't find attractive.

Now if your only unattractive feature is that you are short, they are more likely to have the lights on. Probably half the women who like tall guys want one for sub/dom reasons. Looking up at them is a turn on. But in the bedroom, you can position it so they are looking up at you, so it makes up for the rest of the day.

 

[s.a.f]

I agree SAF. Most will not sleep with a guy they don't find attractive.

Many will not go on a date with a guy they don't find attractive, but many will if he seems harmless and easy to take advantage of. They will also let most guys buy them drinks even if they don't find him attractive. But if you have tons of money like donald trump, I'm sure you heard the saying that there is no such thing as an ugly millionaire. And I bet they would prefer the lights out if they don't find him physically attractive.You don't have to be donald trump rich though. Many women working fast food their whole lives will readily marry a mechanic who is not that attractive, and many secretaries will readily marry an engineer whom they don't find attractive.
Now if your only unattractive feature is that you are short, they are more likely to have the lights on. Probably half the women who like tall guys want one for sub/dom reasons. Looking up at them is a turn on. But in the bedroom, you can position it so they are looking up at you, so it makes up for the rest of the day.

Lol, seriously, where do you get this stuff?

Think about it, would you marry a ugly fat woman because she earned 30% more than you?
Is that extra $10000 a year that enables you to live in a slightly better house, and drive a slightly better car and afford an extra night out at a resturant, or the extra pair of shoes once in a while?
Is all that really enough to sacrifice your dreams and any chance of true happiness and forever be haunted by the thought of what could have been, have to spend the rest of your life with someone you dont really want and have that ugly guy effectivly rape you (because thats what unwanted sex is) on a regular basis?

Sorry but this is just in your deluded mind, you really have a pathetic view of women. Anyone would think you live in Afghanistan or something.

 

[somone uk]

I agree SAF. Most will not sleep with a guy they don't find attractive.

Many will not go on a date with a guy they don't find attractive, but many will if he seems harmless and easy to take advantage of. They will also let most guys buy them drinks even if they don't find him attractive. But if you have tons of money like donald trump, I'm sure you heard the saying that there is no such thing as an ugly millionaire. And I bet they would prefer the lights out if they don't find him physically attractive.You don't have to be donald trump rich though. Many women working fast food their whole lives will readily marry a mechanic who is not that attractive, and many secretaries will readily marry an engineer whom they don't find attractive.
Now if your only unattractive feature is that you are short, they are more likely to have the lights on. Probably half the women who like tall guys want one for sub/dom reasons. Looking up at them is a turn on. But in the bedroom, you can position it so they are looking up at you, so it makes up for the rest of the day.

Lol, seriously, where do you get this stuff?

Think about it, would you marry a ugly fat woman because she earned 30% more than you?
Is that extra $10000 a year that enables you to live in a slightly better house, and drive a slightly better car and afford an extra night out at a resturant, or the extra pair of shoes once in a while?
Is all that really enough to sacrifice your dreams and any chance of true happiness and forever be haunted by the thought of what could have been, have to spend the rest of your life with someone you dont really want and have that ugly guy effectivly rape you (because thats what unwanted sex is) on a regular basis?

Sorry but this is just in your deluded mind, you really have a pathetic view of women. Anyone would think you live in Afghanistan or something.

CCS is right, where do you think bald people come from :whistle:
it's not exactly rape, just prostitution
every woman has their price and every guy has their value (annual-free-expenditure/NW²)