leaving manchester

antonio666

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i am seriously thinking of leaving manchester because of my hair loss because everybody knows me for having fantastic hair and it is being killed even though i am using avodart daily and 150 mg of oral spironolactone,nothing is working,i have loads of ex girlfreinds in the area and when they see what i have become amd they will comment on it,it will kill me,thinking of somewhere there are very few peopl like northern scotland so i can take my dog and just relax that nobody can see me
 

Nick4441

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I sympathise..seeing ex's with hair going down hill is not good..certainly damaged my confidence, a feeling of embarassment and unattractiveness. I don't think women see it quite like that tho..they see past that far more than blokes do.

Make sure you are keeping in good shape and if you do see an ex then looking good in the body department is still something and still being happy and upbeat on the outside even if pissed off about hair on the inside.

I wouldn't move due to hairloss and hope you don't unless you really want to move for other reason. All the best Antonio....Who know's the treatments could kick in at some point so do keep a glimmer of hope always..i'm struggling too..
 

Balth06

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yea they might comment on it, then forget about it. Really, nobody cares nearly as much as we do. Besides they probably will have gained a few pounds or have other issues with growing older. Happens to us all. :puke:
 

HrZ

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The government should provide hairloss benefit, anyone who starts losing their hair under the age of 30 should be on £5,000 a month at least.
 

Captain Planet

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I'm from that neck of the woods. You need to shave your head and go out to Sports Bar or the Printworks on a weekend. The women there are mostly thick scum - but fit - and love a guy with a shaved head. I know it's a bit tongue in cheek saying that, but it's the truth. You probably won't find a girlfriend there, but you'll find a trophy bird to carry on your arm. That'll boost your confidence.....
 

metalheaddude

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antonio666 said:
i am seriously thinking of leaving manchester because of my hair loss because everybody knows me for having fantastic hair and it is being killed even though i am using avodart daily and 150 mg of oral spironolactone,nothing is working,i have loads of ex girlfreinds in the area and when they see what i have become amd they will comment on it,it will kill me,thinking of somewhere there are very few peopl like northern scotland so i can take my dog and just relax that nobody can see me

Ha! I can 100% relate to your situation. In fact I moved to another state for reasons VERY similar to this. To be honest it was a massive weight off my shoulders, because I got a new job and some new friends who have only ever knowen me with my hair in my current condition. Initially it was buzzed and I wasnt ashamed because I didnt know these people, so it didnt matter as much.

Good luck.
 

Tallinn

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antonio666 said:
i am seriously thinking of leaving manchester because of my hair loss because everybody knows me for having fantastic hair and it is being killed even though i am using avodart daily and 150 mg of oral spironolactone,nothing is working,i have loads of ex girlfreinds in the area and when they see what i have become amd they will comment on it,it will kill me,thinking of somewhere there are very few peopl like northern scotland so i can take my dog and just relax that nobody can see me
what a nice success! You win at life.

no seriously :lost:
 

ginger-uk

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Mate get a #0, #1 or #2 and no one will care. I put it off for years worried people would see my hair for what it was. The fact of the matter is after a week nobody took the piss once (mates love winding each other up, its only banter) and to be honest I get no remarks at all. Where as before being ginger that was the first line of attack for anyone.

After the first day I buzzed my head I was gutted, deflated and felt awful and unattractive. I'm a 27 year old bloke it pretty good shape if I'm honest but I felt like the ugliest bloke alive. I was wrong, while I'm being honest I might as well tell the whole story. I have great remarks from female friends, my girlfriends friends, infact alot say I look sexy. I get attention in town, bars and clubs from women that very rarely happened before.

The bottom line is, some men check your hairline, but when its clippered no women do! Stay possitive mate. For me shaving lifted a massive weight off my shoulders, I no longer spend every morning infront of the mirror checking my hair line and trying to hide it. This stuff brought me to tears ffs. My self esteem is 10x what is was.

If I make any headway with my treatments then thats a bonus, if not i'll carry on. Lifes short and you only get one chance, its taken me nearly 10 years to realise that, and more importantly how insignificant hairloss really can be.

Good luck pal!
 
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