Exactly, which is what makes this difficult. People think their life is over if they're balding in their 20s. But if you made this deal with the devil, fast-forward to 49 1/2 and I bet you would seriously regret making the deal. Easy to say you'd take it when you're 21 and balding, but you lack serious perspective.The point is it depends on where you're standing, i.e. what years you've lost and what's remaining
Easily I'd take living with a full head and live to 50 years of age.
I believe that wanting to live a long life (no offense to anyone) is a very selfish desire. I'd rather live an incredibly happy and healthy short life than a long miserable one.
What? Are you kidding? I'd take forty years with a full head of hair - in a heartbeat. I've always felt like I'm not gonna make it to old age for some reason, which is why I always wanted to at least live my life well.
If I didn't have kids and I was at peace with myself and I wasn't petrified of going to hell, I'd be ok with dying now. I've had a beautiful life, unlike many other people in this world. It'd be selfish of me to ask for anything more. I felt this way before I started losing my hair too.
Selfish? To want to live is selfish? No. Wanting to live is just basic human instinct. Like Captain James T. Kirk said, "Survival is the first order of business gentlemen."
I said it would be selfish of me to ask for anything more, meaning if I were diagnosed with a terminal illness, I wouldn't think, "Why me?" but rather, "Why not me?" I want to live for those who need me, not because I'm attached to this world.
Starting your life over...if you could have a full head of hair but knowing you'll only live to 50, would you make that trade-off?
If I didn't have kids and I was at peace with myself and I wasn't petrified of going to hell, I'd be ok with dying now. I've had a beautiful life, unlike many other people in this world. It'd be selfish of me to ask for anything more. I felt this way before I started losing my hair too.
What ifs wont fill the gap on top of my head. Although, my hypothetical would be for all bald guys to get their hair back and for all full heads to go bald. Role reversal. Then subject them to a the hateful prejudical rejection that they once inflicted on us.... and watch them squirm. I know kinda mean and not very creative but still a justified justice if I do say.
Joan you shouldn't be worried about going to hell, from what I've read of your posts you're by far and away the kindest and most selfless person on this forum
Let me guess, are you religious? Religion is in the business of riddling its followers with guilt in order to control them in fear of going to hell. I was raised super religious and the best thing I ever did was leave and rid myself of that poison. It's a serious mind-FIf I didn't have kids and I was at peace with myself and I wasn't petrified of going to hell, I'd be ok with dying now.
Thank you for your kind words. The longer you live and the more suffering you see, the more your faith is shaken. It's easy to believe in God when you live in a nice house, have an abundance of food, clothing, a warm bed to sleep in every night and people in your life who love you. What about those who don't have all that through no fault of their own? My biggest question is how a loving God can allow children to be molested and raped day after day. They're praying for help that doesn't come. I think about this almost every day. It's made me realize that my faith has been pretty much a sham all these years. As long as life went my way, God was good. There are no miracles in life. Life just happens. Mine has been a happy one for the most part. Once I make peace with myself and pay for some poor choices I've made (and my kids are on their own), I think I'll fear death less.