Lurker posting after 6 years with regimens

HopeBringer

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Hi,

First post here, doing it so that I can bring back some of what this site has given me. Been a "lurker" for quite some time. As it was, it was through this site that I learned of the alternatives when I discovered my hair loss. I am now 26, and I have been "fighting" actively for 6 years.

It all began probably 7-8 years ago, when I was still a teenager. Before that, I was actually known for my thick curly hair, which could easily grow into an afro if it wasn't kept in check. I guess since I had so much to start with, and since my hair always grew long and had a curly texture, I was quite slow to notice the changes. Lost my temples without really thinking about it, since I wore my hair long, and the curls easily covered them.

As time went by, I had trouble grooming my hair into a cool look, couldn't really point the finger on the problem either. (Although I felt my hair sometimes looked thin...) A girlfriend of mine who cut my hair noticed it looked quite thin all of a sudden, especially at a select spot at the back, and asked if maybe my shampoo was damaging my hair. My mother had also noticed the changes when I asked.

I regret that I did not act straight away. Yet, I was living with the misconseption that nothing really could be done. Same thing happened to my father, starting to lose as a teenager, Norwood 5 by 26. And, I was still in denial...

The situation worsened, looked like a clown with thinning top and bristling sides. When friends and aquiantences started teasing me that I was going bald, I finally started searching the net for a cure, after a tip from a hairdresser. (Tried my doctor, who was clueless) By then I was probably a Norwood 2.5, and I had a thin spot at my vertex. This was 6 years ago.

Found the secret of finasteride here, and got a prescription. It halted further loss, and I added minoxidil in a gambit to reclaim my temples. Although I had plenty of vellus hairs growing, very few matured into regular texture. Nevertheless, I improved into a Norwood 2 withing the first year. Vertex improved so that nothing remained but a marked whorl. (Always been there) Still a little bit thinner overall than I'd used to be, but it was no longer noticeable.

I added Avodart to see if I could make further ground, and kept going for 1.5 years. Didn't see an improvement, kinda felt that my temples and front were worse off, so changed back to finasteride. Norwood 2.5

Kept going until 1 year ago, when I again saw something was changing, pics were somewhat worse, my "landmarks" saw some hairs retreating, and I shedded quite a lot. Probably a Norwood 2.5-3. Tried Avodart again, and started using the minoxidil foam for better compliance.

Today, my hair still looks good, same Norwood, but I believe Avodart made it thicken up a bit. Not like when I was 17 anymore, but who can expect that? Still, my girlfriend thinks my hair is soo thick, and a roommate actually found the minoxidil foam, but refused to believe it was mine. ("Nobody has more hair than you") I'm glad I have a curly texture, and that despite large temples, the rest of my hair is relatively thick. It hides most of the loss, and just makes me look distinguished.

Over the years, I've learned a few thing: You ARE not your hair. There are plenty of things that matter more, and when confronted by those, thoughts about hair really seem silly. Girls have said to me that I'll look handsome with or without hair, and I guess that is probably true. It all boils down to self-confidence, your personality, and what you accomplish in life, in the end. Not your scalp hairs. Still, I feel my hair is a part of me and actually my life history...so I will try to keep it. Probably jinxing everything by posting that is doesn't really matter that much now, "fate" will have me scrambling if I suddenly start losing more:)

Just writing this to you out there who want to keep your hair going: It is possible. Perhaps not forever, but I have at least attained 6 years. That can bring some hope. Besides that, I have accomplished far greater things the last 6 years, than keeping a full head of hair. Life is good, enjoy it while you can, and do not let obsessive thoughts about losing hair spoil it.


PS! Oh, by the way, been using Ketoconazole shampoo for the entire time.
 

Nighthair

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thanks for posting your story! It really inspired me to keep taking my finasteride!
 

decro435

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Nice story mate, cheers for coming back and updating us!

I find it hard to understand how some people who start losing their hair so early can manage to keep it so long, I guess it's the luck of the draw. My guess is you got no sides from Finasteride right?

Also, while it might be easy for you to accept hair loss some of us look like cancer patients with it. "Girls have said to me that I'll look handsome with or without hair, and I guess that is probably true" unfortunately this doesn't apply to all of us.

Anyways fair play for the update, keep up the good work!
 

HopeBringer

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Well, I guess it all has to do with how great a part the blood-level DHT plays. Some might be more sensible even for a low DHT-level, while others maintain once the DHT creeps behind a certain level. A treshold, which varies. That is my theory anyway...


An interesting thing, is that my body hair stopped "spreading" after I went on meds. (You might remember when you were young, and the body hair darkened and thickened slowly across the body, bit by bit) It's progress has really slowed since then, I've gained very little body hair since I started finasteride, so I guess the DHT circulating plays a big part for me. My father who had the same initial loss has a lot more body hair than I do...and he never used meds.

A friend of mine who started losing at the same time as me 6 years back, is bald now. (Well, almost, he has a few wisps left on top, which I would have shaved if I were him) He did not go on meds, since he feared the side effects.
So, I keep that in mind when I consider continuing my regimen...

It might stop working tomorrow for all I know, but I hope to hold out a few more years. I have had no real sides, although my ejaculation may be somwhat more watery. When I first started finasteride, I also felt that my "urge" for sex was reduced. That not being a problem, since my hormone levels at the time, 19, were plenty enough. I could still do it 4 times a day if with the right gal:) I was actually glad to have more control at parties and at disco's, since I used to chase girls like a rabid dog. It allowed me to be somewhat more refined... (Or maybe it was age kicking in after I was no longer a teenager, hard to tell if it was that or a side effect)
 
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