My hairloss strikes again

[brent20]

I seriously believe i'm never gonna have a gf again because as my hairloss gets worse so does my luck with the ladies which i had no prob with before, and i have another prime example. My best friend and i met up with these two chicks who are also best friends to go on a double date and a few days before i talked to the one chick for hours on the phone and we seemed to have a lot in common and it sounded like we would definetly hook up. Well she saw pics of me on myspace which consists mainly of pics of me with a hat and she thought i was hot. So we finally meet and i decided not to wear the hat which i usually do and apparently it was a bad idea because the whole date was worthless the only talking was done by me she just sat there like she didn't want to be there and i know she kept glancing at my hair, but i tried my best to keep it cool. And my friend who also was there hit it off with the chick he was with because he has a full head of emo hair and i know he's no better than me because people think we are brothers cuz we look alike except for the hair department. So basically moral of the story is she completely loss interest in me cuz of my hair and i tried talking to her today and she told me she would call me back, but that was 7 hours ago so i'm assuming the calls not coming. Thanks for the rant guys it just seems hopeless anymore

 

[bubka]

that sucks man, its sad but true, all things being equal between two guys, the girl will take the one with the hair...

also, experienced girls usually know if a guy has a hat on in public or all his pictures, its for a reason :yes:

 

[brent20]

well on my myspace i have a pic of myself without a hat and its a close up and it clearly shows i don't have a full head of hair, so i figured she would have looked past that but who knows. My friend is still tryin to get us together because he thinks the whole best friends dating thing would be kool which would be alright i guess but the chick is ignoring me, but he claims she told him for me not to worry?? so i'm like wtf i hate women then why doesn't she talk to me?

 

[Nathaniel]

It sucks dude, I know it hurts but you probably need to move on. Yeah easier said than done, but you need to find someone else. How old was she?

 

[brent20]

she's 18, gonna be 19 soon, she's a freshmen in college

 

[bubka]

how old are you then? at the same school? if not then hey there are plenty of reasons why she may not be interested...

 

[kalbo]

No need to stress out on that chick if she's ignoring you b/c of your hair. It's obvious that she's not looking for a long-term serious relationship... especially considering her age and the fact that she's just starting college (so she's just probably looking to have some fun). Besides, you don't wanna get involved in the whole dating-your-bestfriend's-girlfriend's-bestfriend situation. Nothing good can come out of that imo.

To sum up: There's plenty other fish in the sea so just forget her and move on. No need to waste your time on a girl like that anyways.

 

[Goingat20]

hey brent
that sh*t happens, its annoying when younger girls look at things like hairloss and stuff. I would suggest giving it another crack at her if you really want her. Put the hat on and work your magic man... keep us updated

 

[brent20]

how old are you then? at the same school? if not then hey there are plenty of reasons why she may not be interested...

I'm 20 gonna be 21 next month, and she doesn't go to the same school but she lives less than 10 minutes away from me when shes home and the school she goes to is only 45 min away from me, so i know its not distance.

 

[Nathaniel]

Besides, you don't wanna get involved in the whole dating-your-bestfriend's-girlfriend's-bestfriend situation. Nothing good can come out of that imo.
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Yeah I was going to mention this. I have gone this route before and it was awful dude. Trust me, you do not want to date someone who is your bestfriend's girlfriend's best friend. She will know EVERYTHING about you because your buddy will tell his girlfriend ALL your moves and BOOM game over. Even if you tell your boy to shut it he will do it. Boyfriends and girlfriends tell each other 99% of the stuff. Human nature.

Oh and thats what I suspected, thats why I asked her age. Only some little girl would obssess over a guy's hair.

 

[Guest]

im feeling with you mate. its hard to get rejected from a chic just coz of your hair. maybe next time go for older chicks who are 23 or 24. they maybe accept it more.

 

[Diffused_confidence]

The pain

 

[Pacho]

myspace lmao

i wonder if he commited suicide by now

 

[b4sedt0ny]

over for pre-iPhone cels