Need Translation For: Hot Chick Profile Statement

[KyleTroy]

"""""Im looking for a grown man who is secure and knows what he wants. A confident and self assured man is attractive to me. Bonus points for a man who has a college degree and loves his mama """"

Can someone please "translate" what this means in "hotchick" "match.com" speak?

 

[hanginginthewire]

Secure = rich

 

[Murkey Thumb]

It means; "anybody else apart from you because I'm hotter than you and i know it"

 

[kj6723]

Im looking for Chad a grown man who is secure and knows what he wants. A confident and self assured man is attractive to me. Bonus points for a man who has a college degree and loves his mama

 

[KyleTroy]

So....each of these is a reference to CASH ON HAND?
a. Secure

b. college degree

c. knows what he wants

d. self assured

She makes no reference to LOOKS at all. I guess it is implied she means "SECURE" and ( "RICH")

 

[Saurabhaj]

She is matured enough to chose a guy on qualities and not just depending only on guy's physical attractiveness.

Man being secure means..guy should have financial backup in case of emergency.
She would like to have guy who has some educational qualification
and last one directly translate to: Boy who is a family person.

One warning :
Do not brag/fake in front of such girls..they have excelled in art of finding boy who fakes confidence.


Self assured man:
This is a very complex subject.

It's criteria varies from person to person.

This is one of the most important criteria where some particular guy becomes successful in getting girl.



Imagine a situation where some girl is liked by three guys who are on same attractiveness level.
In this case..
Having good looks is just a basic filtering criteria and nothing more than that.
Such girl will select guy based on what you mentioned in your post.

Having good looks is not requirement of many girls.They want guy who are at least decent looking.

Just make sure to successfully qualify in her minimum level of attractiveness criteria.

 

[rclark]

"""""Im looking for a grown man who is secure and knows what he wants. A confident and self assured man is attractive to me. Bonus points for a man who has a college degree and loves his mama """"

Can someone please "translate" what this means in "hotchick" "match.com" speak?

TRANSLATION: RICH and PUSSY WHIPPED guys only.

 

[IdealForehead]

"""""Im looking for a grown man who is secure and knows what he wants. A confident and self assured man is attractive to me. Bonus points for a man who has a college degree and loves his mama """"

Can someone please "translate" what this means in "hotchick" "match.com" speak?

I'll take a stab because I find these sorts of overly demanding profiles grotesquely interesting at times and I wonder what they're trying to accomplish. I absolutely never want to message any girl with these types of profiles.

Grown man - When women say they want a "man not a boy", they either mean they want a tall masculine guy, or they want a settled guy with job/money. In this case based on the rest I think she means the job/money primarily.

Secure and knows what he wants - Again, I think this one is a money request and her looking for someone willing and able to pay her for "what he wants".

Confident and self assured - Since we know women perceive "confidence" from straight forward attractive men and "creepiness" from straight forward ugly men, I always take any reference to "confidence" to represent "good looking" instead.

College degree - Obvious, again money.

Loves his mama - She may want to have kids some day and wants a guy who will likely be stable enough to stick around for it and/or put up with her crap.

That's my best interpretation. I find female psychology interesting when it comes to dating because most women have so little insight and have absolutely no idea why they even do the things they do.

 

[MorningGlory]

She probably took a few minutes writing it, didn’t proof read it, and hasn’t even thought about it since she posted it.

 

[Dontwannabeabetabob]

she's looking for betabuxx

 

[KyleTroy]

This is a college educated guy who looks like a CHAd, however he is too old to be playing the field

He now has a good career or else he is not in the running

And he has enough hair to be not likely to be cueball, he could be receding but she is accepting that now.

 

[jasonstatham]

In my experince it means: She had a different dating profil prior to what you read. One that did not say college degree, or respect his mama blah blah. So, she went out with a lot of "badboys" and of course got fucked left and right. Now, she had enough of get dicked down and is looking to settle down. How old is she?

 

[Chromedome1990]

"I want a beta pussy whipped cuck who also earns a good living."

 

[blackg]

I'll take a stab because I find these sorts of overly demanding profiles grotesquely interesting at times and I wonder what they're trying to accomplish. I absolutely never want to message any girl with these types of profiles.

Grown man - When women say they want a "man not a boy", they either mean they want a tall masculine guy, or they want a settled guy with job/money. In this case based on the rest I think she means the job/money primarily.

Secure and knows what he wants - Again, I think this one is a money request and her looking for someone willing and able to pay her for "what he wants".

Confident and self assured - Since we know women perceive "confidence" from straight forward attractive men and "creepiness" from straight forward ugly men, I always take any reference to "confidence" to represent "good looking" instead.

College degree - Obvious, again money.

Loves his mama - She may want to have kids some day and wants a guy who will likely be stable enough to stick around for it and/or put up with her crap.

That's my best interpretation. I find female psychology interesting when it comes to dating because most women have so little insight and have absolutely no idea why they even do the things they do.

Women have a lot more insight then what you give them credit for.
What this particular female is saying is;

She wants a guy who can hold down a steady job.
Which is very reasonable.
Whether this job is in Wallmart or on Wall Street, it really doesn't matter.
She wants a man. A man! Not a living-at-home-with-his-mother type guy.
A guy who spends his long days drinking and playing Destiny 2 while also keeping track of international sporting results due to gambling reasons.
This guy is not her type.

She wants a guy who will have a future in mind for the both of them.
Not a small minded, in debt, gamer man-child.

I applaud her clarity and ambition with regards to her romantic future.
I hope she meets Mr. Right.
She deserves it.

 

[baldcorpse]

"Im a used up c*m dumpster who is tired being pumped and dumped by chads and i need a beta provider cuck"

 

[Alternative]

"""""Im looking for a grown man who is secure and knows what he wants. A confident and self assured man is attractive to me. Bonus points for a man who has a college degree and loves his mama """"

She's a feminist.

Glad to see so much fellow Red Pillers.

 

[joeblack2017]

It means financially secured, or has a job and steady source of money. Knows what he wants means he is not some just employee doing what he's told but rather a guy who does what he love for a living (ex.love for cooking = chef, sports = athlete). Confident and self assured means he can hold a decent and fun conversation with a woman and has eye contact.

I'd still rather have hair though than possess all these qualities lol. I want hair in my head, for MYSELF, not for these b****s.