holy **** that was pretty ****in awesome man
crazy coincidence because the song is one of my holy favorite songs ever that i listen to in the dead of night fantasizing about crazy shiz lol. it's one of my favorite bands too. that is "elegia" by new order. the original is 17 minutes long and was dedicated to the old lead singer they had who killed himself (ian curtis)
it definitely matches with the video too, everyone is all dead inside looking for some bull**** stuff that will bring them "happiness"
yea sorry but if you could i'd like this video taken down tho. thats my song and i dont want it poisoned by hair loss talk or the guys here haha
lol i agree. 15/10 song. i always imagine the way i felt when i first saw my balding head when i hear it. It really fits any situation like that, i.e. of trying to come to terms with something horrible and traumatic. it makes sense since they made the song for their old lead singer. i bet they were just sitting in their rooms, drowning in the fact of their best friend dying (or at least very very good friend)epic song
awaiting Captain forehead
A woman in my line the other day was going on about how happiness is a choice... choose happiness she kept saying. I told her everyone wants to be happy, but its not like flipping a switch. You cant decide to be happy just like you cant decide to fall in love. This woman was trying to force happiness on me, calling me a grump and why arent you smiling, smile. I asked her about people with severe depression due to a chemical imbalance and how thats involuntary. She told me then you decide to take the medication for depression to achieve happiness. I told her that prolonged use of anti depressants can chemically rob you of the ability to experience true happiness... that it neutralizes your emotions which goes against her whole point.
five charactersI agree with you UC Man Anti depressants are B.S. in my opinion, people cant just take a pill and be happy, or everyone would be on them. Imagine a world of happiness with no discrimination against bald people or people in general,seems like a nice thought, but most people are in highschool or workplace mode,they all have their social groups and exclude everyone who isn't like them or conforms to their standards as a group.
Even though I have a mental illness and a bald head I'm in a good mood 99% of the time,so what does that say about the quote on quote, so called, "normal" people" of society, if I'm insane, than just about everybody is. Just some food for thought.
Shoulda punched her in the throat, then landed one on the old baby-maker
Don't encourage him, he is already prone to violence upon reading many of his posts. He is one angry baldie.
If you have swingline's body, maybe. If you have you have my body... Well, no, not at all.
About that woman uncomfortable man, you should always keep an electric razor on your. Whip it out, shave a part of her hair in the middle.
Let her scream, burst in tears and curse at your. Then tell her: "come on, be happy now! It's a choice right? Come on, make the choice to be happy!"
These morons have no clue.
If you have swingline's body, maybe. If you have you have my body... Well, no, not at all.
I but the community here is firmly grounded in reality.
Grounded in negativity, most of it. And serious neativity, gone to pathologic.
This is their reality, more than a true reality.
Delusion? How do you call a guy who says that his life is "on halt mode" because of hairloss and he waits, waits and waits for a cure? Wtf, our life is finite...
This is not delusion since it actually happened to me when I first started shaving my head down to a 0.
They can laugh all they want but at least we're grounded in reality as Wolf Pack said.
I agree that positive delusion is more positive than rational negativity. But how do you turn a blind eye on what it is real?
It's nearly impossible to do unless you take substances. I was delusional at a point, and I mean truly delusional.
It happened because I took antidepressants while not being depressed. It made me uninhibited.
I thought I was awesome, that I could get any girl, that it was no big deal that I had a thin mess for hair.
This delusion is scary even to myself now, and my family and friends were very worried about it.
Sure it got me some tail, as we know that women are very attracted to what they think is confidence in a man.
Women don't seem to be able to tell if your confidence is grounded in reality or delusional.
But besides that, I wouldn't like to be in that state again. So be delusional if you're able to do that.
No, I wouldn't be able to wake up to morrow, go all "slybaldguys" and shave my head to the bone, then hit the bar scene convinced that I will clean up.
This won't happen. I know baldness doesn't look good at all, especially because I'm pale and thin.
So to me, the slybaldguy mentality = mental illness. How can you even tell yourself that women of your age give you the time of the day if you show up with a NW5 at the age of 23?
You are right, but simply ranting all day and tormenting about your hair loss, like here, does no good, imo.
Better be positively-deluded like those on SlyBald(yes, i've looked in there), than be negatively-deluded like some seem to be here. Calling yourself a freak, etc.
Yes, reality is that a bald dude isn't that attractive, but reading here, all bald men are monsters, frankensteins, people cross the street to not walk by them, etc. It's the opposite delusion.
And i've seen forums where people laugh about HairLossTalk.com, they laugh about the dudes here taking finasteride, minoxidil, having hair transplant's, SMP's, etc.
I'd agree that slybald guys are completely deluded but I kinda envy and admire them. In their ignorance it doesn't seem to affect their functioning, they get on with little regrets.