Conversation going on in the hallway. Just talking small talk, topic to topic, she went on about her dance uniform and how the team picked the colors, and other stuff in her life. If the guy had been struggling to think of what to say next, instead of listening, I'm sure he would have looked and sounded like he was not paying attention. Instead he listened and just empathized, and she did most of the talking for a while before he came in with a new topic.
The beginning is just about showing interest with tone of voice, eye contact, and contribution to the conversation. You don't have to be super interesting, but the fact you are trying to say something shows that you are interested. Still go to mention stuff in common though and have something to list when you say what you do for fun. Not sure saying you spend 6 hours per day on internet forums would go over well. Been talking the last 20 minutes. Winds down eventually and they exchange contact info of some kind, even if it is there schedule.
They probably could have gone faster than that though. Hard to tell if the guy was nervous, just a good listener, or if he was uninterested. The woman had the most variation in her voice and seemed the most interested from the interaction. My guess is he has a chance with her, but I don't know how he should go about getting physical from there. If he does not know how, it could turn to just friends and her thinking he won't make a move or not interested. I did not get to look out there to see what their ratings were though.
The beginning is just about showing interest with tone of voice, eye contact, and contribution to the conversation. You don't have to be super interesting, but the fact you are trying to say something shows that you are interested. Still go to mention stuff in common though and have something to list when you say what you do for fun. Not sure saying you spend 6 hours per day on internet forums would go over well. Been talking the last 20 minutes. Winds down eventually and they exchange contact info of some kind, even if it is there schedule.
They probably could have gone faster than that though. Hard to tell if the guy was nervous, just a good listener, or if he was uninterested. The woman had the most variation in her voice and seemed the most interested from the interaction. My guess is he has a chance with her, but I don't know how he should go about getting physical from there. If he does not know how, it could turn to just friends and her thinking he won't make a move or not interested. I did not get to look out there to see what their ratings were though.
