thanks all. the pics i took (one of which is above) were at a level 3 on the my shaver, so i'll have to remember that for my next set of pictures.
i just totally shaved it today because it looked kinda wierd how my sides were really black (good hair) and the top part was thin/non-existant.. it shows obvious balding.. well at least it looks more bold completely shaved off. its kinda "in" these days. in fact, im surprisingly content with the way it looks. although i was devastated when i realized i was gonna go bald (i was about 21 years old at that time).
not sure if you guys ever read The Game by Neil Strauss but honestly, anyone can look attractive if they take the right steps to work on themselves. In his case, he was a monkey-looking pale dude, nerdy with thin hair, glasses... his physical transformation when getting into the seduction community was impressive. he got a tan, shaved his head entirely, improved his style of dress, started wearing contacts, got a tan. he was effectively charismatic and attracted loads of women.
also, there's alot more to being attractive than purely the physical component. the mind is a powerful thing. your psychology and behavior traits, how you treat people and how you respect yourself are deeply ingrained forces of attraction. most of all, confidence, assertivess and being a man are key.
"a gentleman is comfortable with conflict, battle and war." - Dr. Paul
i realize some of you aren't concerned about losing your hair because of a fear of becoming less attractive, but rather you may feel like you're losing a part of yourself (as said by Spencer Kobren), like a limb. i can empathize with you.
"attachment causes suffering" - Buddha