Propeciahelp.com doesn't have a hidden agenda, it is a forum to try and piece together how the drug affected those with side effects and how to try and recover from them. Obviously those that are on the site have disdain for the drug, because since quitting the side effects did not resolve, contrary to Merck's claims.
The site is meant to give you a fuller perspective on what the potential impact of the drug may be to your health, so you can weigh the pros and cons. The studies on that website are not opinions, they are fact. You are encouraged to read them and make up your own mind wether you want to take the drug or not, nobody is forcing you to... just be informed about the potential risk, however small.
I should know, I am one of these men that still has physical/sexual side effects 20 months off the drug. Physical changes to one's body are not in one's head, for one.
Anyway, good luck with whatever you decide to do. If I could take Finasteride without issue, I would. Unfortunately I paid a high price and found out the hard way that not everything is as we are told by the drug's manufacturer... hopefully you don't meet the same fate or you'll be looking for answers like the rest of us.
Cheers.