Quick note to all u unfortunate ladies out...... there......

[PALIN]

Knowing from experiance on dealing with a girlfriend that suffers from Androgenetic Alopecia.....what I wanted to say is that I feel that this forum is a great thing and if people want to talk about politics and other ways of degrading women, especially women that have problems by making fun of them is just evil...

I know because I'm a guy and I know that women are more sensitive to issues they deal with so I just wanted to tell all you males out there to be more sensitive and if you have nothing good to say just keep your mouth shut. And if for some weird reason you can't do this then there are always other forums where you can go and post your crap but dont bring it here, it is not the place to make fun of people or to go and get off topic about something that is totally out of the subject at hand.

I know that this is not the place to be posting this but I guess there is no other way or place...... I'm a friend of "HERALOPECIA" aka Laura

Anyway I just feel that this whole forum thing can become something great, I mean it already is getting there but I still think you gals can make it a bit better and more specific. Ok well I'm out of here I don't feel like writing anything else, I have nothing else to say but good job and keep up the good work

And again for all you men please if you have nothing good/nice to say don't say nothing at all and trust me you will not feel less of a MAN if you dont make fun of people, you will still be masculine, no offence to anyone...


PS. This is me Laura and you know it I'm so 8) what was that Laura did you just say I'm cool.........

PSS. This one is just for you Laura :hairy: you know what I mean?

 

[Guest]

Thanks Palin love ya,

He was referring to the thread posted a long time ago (Humpty and Maya would know) where some men were saying not too nice things about dating women with hair loss problems. http://www.hairlosstalk.com/discussions ... highlight=

I do agree, it is not right for anyone, man or woman, to make a person feel bad if they are suffering from something that is bringing them down.

People can be dumb about these kinds of things, maybe for a minute they forget that they are encountering another human being with feelings and emotions. The other day I was looking at a PCOS message board where this woman felt so sad because when she and her husband went to the supermarket, these punk teenagers were making fun of her mustache, loudly, in public. She was humiliated and degraded.

Even though it is not good to wish harm upon others but sometimes I wish those who do not understand or have little time for understanding or caring that another person is upset about their hair loss or something else, would get whatever the other person was suffering from just to know how awful it feels.

I was fortunate to have found a boyfriend who didn't think anything of my hair loss, who I felt comfortable crying and ranting about it.

Love leased: ,

Laura

 

[Vanessa118377]

Palin,

Thanks for the wonderful post. It's nice for the women here to read that not all men have a problem with women losing their hair.

My Fiance has been supportive as well even though he's half way around the world on a peacekeeping mission in Kosovo.

Thank you again!

Vanessa

 

[PALIN]

Well what can i say..............I'm just great like that :wink:


So Laura whats going on?

 

[Guest]

OH MY GOD......I just read the link that Laura posted. I can't believe what I just read. I feel like I should apologise for all those insensitive pricks(pardon my french). I mean how shallow can a guy be. There's a lot more to a woman than the appearance of her hair. I think most men know this and feel the same. Well the intelligent ones anyway. My girlfriend had thinning hair when I first started dating her and it didn't bother me one bit...She's smart, she understands me, she puts up with me, doesn't play head games, she's got the most beautiful blue eyes and she's a pretty confident woman. She's my soul-mate. Most of the women in her family have hair loss and hers will probably get worse with time but I don't care. She's a beautiful person..inside and out. She recently had a bout with breast cancer where she needed chemo and radiation. She was completely bald at one point and was as attractive as she's ever been maybe even more so.....Sorry I just needed to say something after I read that thread.

 

[BadHairDecade]

THat message above was from me. I guess I forgot to sign in before I posted the above message....Didn't want to leave it anonomous.

Laura,

you said
Even though it is not good to wish harm upon others but sometimes I wish those who do not understand or have little time for understanding or caring that another person is upset about their hair loss or something else, would get whatever the other person was suffering from just to know how awful it feels.


The scary thing is the guys in that other post are the same guys who are crying and complaining about their own hairloss in the mens forum....That just simply amazes me....They know how much it sucks, and yet still say things that they know will hurt others.