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[Eureka]

Question: How would you feel if you saw a sextape on the internet involving your X?

 

[s.a.f]

Depends who with and what. Also depends on the ex if she was a true love or just a hoe.

 

[Eureka]

Mmm, let's say the girl was no hoe. And since true love only exists in romantic comedies.. let's say you were definitely very serous about her at the time.

Let's also say she dumped you, so you didn't end the relationship.

 

[s.a.f]

Hhmmm, I think its not really something you can know for sure until it actually happens.
I've known girls who I had feelings for who have met the wrong type of guy and totally changed to be unrecognisable from the girl I knew and its pretty upsetting to see them as 'tainted'.

 

[Eureka]

Hhmmm, I think its not really something you can know for sure until it actually happens.
I've known girls who I had feelings for who have met the wrong type of guy and totally changed to be unrecognisable from the girl I knew and its pretty upsetting to see them as 'tainted'.

This drives me "crazy"

Are we all that impressionable? That one single person, even a lover can so drastically change you for the worse? Or perceived worsening in some cases I suppose.

I've had girls say that to me, and I've definitely said that to a few girls in my time.

 

[Cassin]

I would look at it that its none if my business.

 

[The Gardener]

I would look at it that its none if my business.

FTW

 

[Harie]

I would ask her to make an even raunchier sex tape with me and put it on the internet to trump the previous guy.

 

[Eureka]

I would look at it that its none if my business.

Your like Buddha then Cassin.

It sure as hell bothered the hell out of me.

 

[Cassin]

I would look at it that its none if my business.

Your like Buddha then Cassin.

It sure as hell bothered the hell out of me.

That makes no sense...the relationship is over...let it go.

I was with a gal for half a decade and once we broke up I cut the cord and moved on. I love her to death and I dearly want her to find someone she is happy with.

When she meets that guy I will be at her wedding wishing her happiness because the fact is while she is a great gal but she is not for me and I have let the possessive emotional side go.

I can't understand why this would bother you unless you have unresolved issues and still want to be with her.

 

[CCS]

I can't understand why this would bother you unless you have unresolved issues and still want to be with her.

Bingo. If she dumps you, and you see her with someone else, you get really jelous, and think it means he is somehow better than you. That is how I felt in the past in similar situations. Now that I know understand stuff better, I just accept it and move on. Women can't get my hopes up or get their hooks in me.

 

[Eureka]

I can't understand why this would bother you unless you have unresolved issues and still want to be with her.

Bingo. If she dumps you, and you see her with someone else, you get really jelous, and think it means he is somehow better than you. That is how I felt in the past in similar situations. Now that I know understand stuff better, I just accept it and move on. Women can't get my hopes up or get their hooks in me.

Mmm. I think it has more to do with the fact that this was my first contact with her in quite some time. And knowing her if she were to see it she would lose her mind.

Although there's certainly irony in the fact That I initially found it cheap, considering I was the one on a site like that.

And CCS.. Aren't you running the risk that by always keeping your guard up, and not allowing a girl to "get her hooks into you" That your actually missing out?

I would look at it that its none if my business.

Your like Buddha then Cassin.

It sure as hell bothered the hell out of me.

That makes no sense...the relationship is over...let it go.

I was with a gal for half a decade and once we broke up I cut the cord and moved on. I love her to death and I dearly want her to find someone she is happy with.

When she meets that guy I will be at her wedding wishing her happiness because the fact is while she is a great gal but she is not for me and I have let the possessive emotional side go.

I can't understand why this would bother you unless you have unresolved issues and still want to be with her.

See maybe this is an age thing, Probably just different personalities. But I've never been able to do that, Just that whole attitude of cutting the cord. Perhaps I'm just spineless but I find it hard to care about someone to certain degrees then simply shut that off. Although there are certainly women out there I could care less to see in a tape like that, this would just be the one I personally wouldn't.

 

[s.a.f]

I would look at it that its none if my business.

Your like Buddha then Cassin.

It sure as hell bothered the hell out of me.

Link? :woot:

 

[Cassin]

Link? :woot:

I was waiting for someone to ask! hahaha....

 

[HughJass]

Question: How would you feel if you saw a sextape on the internet involving your X?

Lucky.


I'd most definetley masturbate to it.

 

[ali777]

I think it would have an effect on me...

I agree with Cassin that it's none of our business and we should cut the cord but it's not that easy. Even though he says he's cut the cord, then he contradicts himself by implying that he cares about her happiness.

From my ex's, I think two of them would have that effect on me. It is a sign of unresolved issues and I do admit it. With the rest, I couldn't care less and I would probably distribute the link to everyone I know....

Eurika, I feel for you!!!

PS: Eurika, could you PM me the link?