Scared To Death Of Female Friend Leaving Me Because Of Hairloss

[Norwood]

I am a 24 year old kissless handholdless virgin, but a several weeks ago (after a few months of lifting weights, jogging, dieting, losing a lot of weight, and becoming better looking than I've ever been in my life by a long shot) I met the nicest girl, a slightly chubby 19yo college student, through my sister. She is really the only female friend I have ever had, and she is really nice to me, and talks very sweetly with me, and laughs at my jokes. I think she might like me because she keeps texting me and making excuses for us to hang out, and sometimes she brings up sexual topics and talks about her vagina.

I'm worried that I could have a shot with her, but I will go bald and she will start to despise me, since it is a well established fact that all young women despise bald men. I have DUPA which makes my hair look really awful. I can cover it up to an extent with a clever combover, but without the combover my hair looks extremely subhuman, like Brendan Frasier's recent hair. Today in the shower, about 50 of my few remaining hairs fell out. For all I know I could be totally bald before the New Year. I feel like I'm in a race against time to get this girl.

 

[Baldingat188]

I see where you are coming from , really but I would say just go for it

What do you have to lose anyways. Plus imagine if you turn her down and spend the next 5 years thinking how you could have done things different

 

[buckthorn]

1) yes, she obviously likes you very much

2) she can probably tell you're balding if you have DUPA.. she's 19. she sees thick NW1's every single day

3) she's still very much into you.

4) she's insecure about her weight the same way you are about your hair loss. chances are, she's never really wanted the perfect looking NW1 because women with their own physical "flaws" at that age learn to care more about relationships than purely physical things. she's probably into you BECAUSE you're a little "imperfect"

go for it man. next time you're close to her, kiss her on the cheek and see how she responds.

 

[rafiles]

I am a 24 year old kissless handholdless virgin, but a several weeks ago (after a few months of lifting weights, jogging, dieting, losing a lot of weight, and becoming better looking than I've ever been in my life by a long shot) I met the nicest girl, a slightly chubby 19yo college student, through my sister. She is really the only female friend I have ever had, and she is really nice to me, and talks very sweetly with me, and laughs at my jokes. I think she might like me because she keeps texting me and making excuses for us to hang out, and sometimes she brings up sexual topics and talks about her vagina.

I'm worried that I could have a shot with her, but I will go bald and she will start to despise me, since it is a well established fact that all young women despise bald men. I have DUPA which makes my hair look really awful. I can cover it up to an extent with a clever combover, but without the combover my hair looks extremely subhuman, like Brendan Frasier's recent hair. Today in the shower, about 50 of my few remaining hairs fell out. For all I know I could be totally bald before the New Year. I feel like I'm in a race against time to get this girl.

If you are scared now, what would you do, when you have sex with her.

 

[Dench57]

rafiles pls

 

[Notcoolanymore]

If you are scared now, what would you do, when you have sex with her.

Maybe you should give him your number so you can show him what a real man would do.

 

[Notcoolanymore]

and talks about her vagina.

What does she say about it? And what do you do when she is talking about it?

 

[blackg]

If you are scared now, what would you do, when you have sex with her.

Orgasm too quickly.

 

[tellersquill]

I am a 24 year old kissless handholdless virgin, but a several weeks ago (after a few months of lifting weights, jogging, dieting, losing a lot of weight, and becoming better looking than I've ever been in my life by a long shot) I met the nicest girl, a slightly chubby 19yo college student, through my sister. She is really the only female friend I have ever had, and she is really nice to me, and talks very sweetly with me, and laughs at my jokes. I think she might like me because she keeps texting me and making excuses for us to hang out, and sometimes she brings up sexual topics and talks about her vagina.

I'm worried that I could have a shot with her, but I will go bald and she will start to despise me, since it is a well established fact that all young women despise bald men. I have DUPA which makes my hair look really awful. I can cover it up to an extent with a clever combover, but without the combover my hair looks extremely subhuman, like Brendan Frasier's recent hair. Today in the shower, about 50 of my few remaining hairs fell out. For all I know I could be totally bald before the New Year. I feel like I'm in a race against time to get this girl.

All you can do is go for it and see what happens.

Who knows, you may not go fully bald. It might stop at nw3 like it did for my dad.

Or, it might not be a deal breaker.

The important thing is to lose that V card.

Go out and have some fun while you are young

 

[pjhair]

I am a 24 year old kissless handholdless virgin, but a several weeks ago (after a few months of lifting weights, jogging, dieting, losing a lot of weight, and becoming better looking than I've ever been in my life by a long shot) I met the nicest girl, a slightly chubby 19yo college student, through my sister. She is really the only female friend I have ever had, and she is really nice to me, and talks very sweetly with me, and laughs at my jokes. I think she might like me because she keeps texting me and making excuses for us to hang out, and sometimes she brings up sexual topics and talks about her vagina.

I'm worried that I could have a shot with her, but I will go bald and she will start to despise me, since it is a well established fact that all young women despise bald men. I have DUPA which makes my hair look really awful. I can cover it up to an extent with a clever combover, but without the combover my hair looks extremely subhuman, like Brendan Frasier's recent hair. Today in the shower, about 50 of my few remaining hairs fell out. For all I know I could be totally bald before the New Year. I feel like I'm in a race against time to get this girl.

You have known her for several weeks and you haven't made your move yet? Make your move dude. Take her out on a date and kiss her. If you don't make a move, someone else will and you will be left with nothing but regret. A lot of us dudes have made the same mistake, especially at the beginning of our dating life, and missed out on some really beautiful girls. If you make a move and if she rejects you, at least you wouldn't have to live with regret.

 

[nameless]

I am a 24 year old kissless handholdless virgin, but a several weeks ago (after a few months of lifting weights, jogging, dieting, losing a lot of weight, and becoming better looking than I've ever been in my life by a long shot) I met the nicest girl, a slightly chubby 19yo college student, through my sister. She is really the only female friend I have ever had, and she is really nice to me, and talks very sweetly with me, and laughs at my jokes. I think she might like me because she keeps texting me and making excuses for us to hang out, and sometimes she brings up sexual topics and talks about her vagina.

I'm worried that I could have a shot with her, but I will go bald and she will start to despise me, since it is a well established fact that all young women despise bald men. I have DUPA which makes my hair look really awful. I can cover it up to an extent with a clever combover, but without the combover my hair looks extremely subhuman, like Brendan Frasier's recent hair. Today in the shower, about 50 of my few remaining hairs fell out. For all I know I could be totally bald before the New Year. I feel like I'm in a race against time to get this girl.

Give it a go and do NOT talk to her about your hair loss.

 

[davesmith420]

Take her on a date to Poundtown. She's obviously into you.

Making sexual jokes most of the time is a sure sign she's into you. I had a girl do that to me a few years back but I didn't think she was into me. Turns out she was.

 

[nameless]

Even if you feel scared it's a bad idea to let a potential mate see that. I think you should keep these feelings to yourself because she could end the whole thing if she thinks you're too needy.

 

[rclark]

Don't be scared. It will happen. It's our future.

 

[Roberto_72]

A lot of us dudes have made the same mistake, especially at the beginning of our dating life, and missed out on some really beautiful girls.

Well...

 

[buckthorn]

Norwood dude, don't listen to @buckthorn and kiss her on the lips!

dudes never kissed anyone... baby steps.