Seriosuly Why Do You Lot Waste Your Time With Tinder ?

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All I see on here is people complaining that they get rejected as soon as their profile comes up because of balding or some other negative trait.

For Gods sake go out into the real world and persue some genuine interests that overlap women's interests. You might not get a date but you'll be doing something genuine with your lives.

Here is a short list of some of the things i followed and either got short term/long term relationships from

-pub quizes
-cycling clubs
-walking my dog
- running/jogging groups
- volunatry work
- making time for old friends and meeting new ones in the process.

Before you accuse me of being blue-pilled. NW4, 5ft 9, average guy red pilled tothe eye balls and hoping for a cure
 
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Netsky said:
All I see on here is people complaining that they get rejected as soon as their profile comes up because of balding or some other negative trait.

For Gods sake go out into the real world and persue some genuine interests that overlap women's interests. You might not get a date but you'll be doing something genuine with your lives.

Here is a short list of some of the things i followed and either got short term/long term relationships from

-pub quizes
-cycling clubs
-walking my dog
- running/jogging groups
- volunatry work
- making time for old friends and meeting new ones in the process.

Before you accuse me of being blue-pilled. NW4, 5ft 9, average guy red pilled tothe eye balls and hoping for a cure
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lmao @ bluepilled moron

how adding 10 minutes of Tinder per day will impact your daily life? stop cope
 
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Because. No matches or matches few and far between or with land whales means you're ugly. Rejection irl is only more brutal because you witness the disgust in their faces, or eventually you'll learn they've only entertained the interaction because they felt bad for you and are just playing nice.

Tinder isn't brutal. No matches in the first place means you won't become humiliated. It's a nice barrier to have.
 
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For me it's just efficiency. I have no interest in pub quizzes, cycling clubs, owning a dog, joining a running/jogging groups, or doing volunteer work, although I have done an incredible amount of volunteer work when I was younger and I have never once gotten a date from it.

My hobbies are primarily solitary. When I hang out with friends it is just that - we hang out and then go our separate ways. My female friends do not get me laid.

I have tried cold approach in bars and clubs and I think it is the second best way after online to meet women if you're unattractive and no longer in school. If you're unattractive you need to spam massive numbers of women. Bars and clubs allow this, but still there is the nuissance factor of getting dressed up, cabs, pricey drinks, and shouting over music to be heard.

Online dating allows the same opportunity for spamming large numbers of women, but from the comfort of your couch. Being good looking enough to succeed on Tinder is the holy grail of looksmaxing, because if you can do it, getting women becomes as easy as ordering a pizza.
 
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Trivia nights at the local club are good.
Women love a knowledge man.
 
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How did you approach these women at the pub quizzes, cycling clubs etc.? Did you use a game style canned opener? Or spontaneity, awkwardness etc.? Precisely how did you pull it off? I'd really love to follow your advice and get off Tinder.
 
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doubleindemnity said:
How did you approach these women at the pub quizzes, cycling clubs etc.? Did you use a game style canned opener? Or spontaneity, awkwardness etc.? Precisely how did you pull it off? I'd really love to follow your advice and get off Tinder.
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Just answer a lot of questions at these trivia nights and the ladies usually approach you.
 
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Xander94 said:
Made female tinder.

Result thousands of matches within first day. Chads left and right messaging me etc.

Whoever I want is ready to take me to whatever place with his car pay for everything etc.

Just lol at being a male
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I do the same. Constantly comparing myself to females in my looks bracket or Chads and the completely different life hey have. As frustrating as it is futile.
 
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cantara said:
I do the same. Constantly comparing myself to females in my looks bracket or Chads and the completely different life hey have. As frustrating as it is futile.
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You guys are masochistic af.

Either way, f*****g shallow people isn't everything. It left me empty when I was still capable of doing it and I always preferred longer term relationships with women, who had more similiarities with me than f*****g a tons of easy chicks.
There are drawbacks to both, but I feel many of you guys might crave this playboy lifestyle just for self-validation reasons, which is a motivation for all the wrong reasons.
 
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disfiguredyoungman said:
You guys are masochistic af.

Either way, f*****g shallow people isn't everything. It left me empty when I was still capable of doing it and I always preferred longer term relationships with women, who had more similiarities with me than f*****g a tons of easy chicks.
There are drawbacks to both, but I feel many of you guys might crave this playboy lifestyle just for self-validation reasons, which is a motivation for all the wrong reasons.
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I won't disagree.

Yes, I do regret the most that none of the girls I'd develop a genuine interest for consider me as a romantic option, even when they find many positives in me when getting to know me. But I have to admit, I'm also unhappy with the simple fact I do not have the vast, effortless choice that is presented to the looks-elite. That would perhaps still be the case if I were to find one who I like and finds me attractive enough as a whole - to some, that one would definitely be enough as it's all that's needed for a healthy realtionship. So yes, it's most likely also an ego-thing in my case.
 
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swingline747 said:
Ive always wanted to make a tinder profile just to see what kind of matches I would get but I know my dumb *** would get caught. I wouldnt go anywhere with it but have always been curious.
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Not getting matches at all when swiping in accordance with your taste is no shame. It's when you see the few girls who "like" you that you know where you stand...and it's so funny: you can even get a lot of positive feedback on pages like photofeeler. Thing with them is:
1. Do girls rate you on an abstract level or as a potential romantic interest for themselves? Words versus actions and that stuff...
2. A high attractiveness rating there can - if resulting in no success on Tinder - frustrate you even more, because you are apparently looks-/picsmaxing and still failing.
 
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Netsky said:
All I see on here is people complaining that they get rejected as soon as their profile comes up because of balding or some other negative trait.

For Gods sake go out into the real world and persue some genuine interests that overlap women's interests. You might not get a date but you'll be doing something genuine with your lives.

Here is a short list of some of the things i followed and either got short term/long term relationships from

-pub quizes
-cycling clubs
-walking my dog
- running/jogging groups
- volunatry work
- making time for old friends and meeting new ones in the process.

Before you accuse me of being blue-pilled. NW4, 5ft 9, average guy red pilled tothe eye balls and hoping for a cure
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I'm not sure if you're serious or if you're trolling, but I'll give you the benefit of the doubt.

Tinder is used because it takes moderately little effort, though personally I prefer Bumble that's besides the point.

The other things you do can take tremendous effort. Those of us with careers don't have an infinite amount of time for hobbies, we have jobs and we need to take care of our health too. If you're doing hobbies for fun, that's fine, but if you're doing them to meet women then you simply need a huge amount of time.

It is also the case that past age 25, most women are in relationships. I actually do volunteer, I make time for friends, I invite them over and entertain, I go to other people's parties, and I've tried quizzes, etc. I do in fact meet women -- and they are virtually always in relationships. It's just not efficient. I joined some meet ups in my last location, I mostly met people who were 10, 20, 30 years my senior.

Your advice is however good for North American college students. I remember being an undergraduate once and I in fact met a lot of people writing for the college newspaper and being involved in student politics at a minor level. I made lifelong friendships that remain to this day, some of them with women, and other people did start dating from those environments. That was effective, because at that age people have more time, more energy, and a larger fraction of women are single.

The women who go to your cycling club? They don't go there to have single 34 year-old men hit on them. The majority of them already have boyfriends or husbands and/or children. They go there to ... *drumroll* ... ride their bicycle more often.
 
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b****s are on Tinder to collect Chad matches to show to their basic friends. It’s like when I was 7 years old and collected Pokemon cards. An Omega Chad match is like a shiny Charizard to them, the only difference is that they get railed by their Charizard. Incels are the Energy cards that nobody wants.
 
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Agreed, OP.
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