sleeping with girls

[amrod]

this is a disaster... for the first time in SO long ive hooked up with this girl taht i actually really like

ill go back to her house but i can never sleep in bed with her INCASE MY TOPPIK RUBS OFF DURING THE NIGHT AND MY NORWOOD IS DISPLAYED. so i stay awake all night... the first time i left at like 8am with no sleep and she thought i was being an a**h** and had just left without saying goodbye

but ITS BECAUSE I CANT f*****g SLEEP BECAUSE OF MY NORWOOD. at my college house i keep my door locked when i go to sleep so no one can observe my norwood. no one.

the toppik hides the top but even if i had a solution for that i cant control my hairline and where it goes in my sleep. f*** it all

 

[Guest]

do you never use hairspray or gel? lol. do that and it wont fall out anymore. if you use hairspray you even can make very much toppik in your hair and fix it after it and then you will even be able to fix your hairline.

 

[sonicthehedgehog]

You can't keep your head in a bubble, blocking out all life, for the sole reason of keeping your hair looking good.

And also have it dictate the hours of sleep you get. And extent of interaction with the opposite sex.

Your hair owns you.

 

[Guest]

lol

 

[amrod]

yeah its sad but i am my hair's b**ch

so this hairspray sh*t is it a specific kind that will keep the powder in place or what? can i cop it offa the toppic site?

 

[hairwegoagain]

Geez...maybe you should slowly, er, come out of the closet. I can't imagine feeling compelled to hide hairloss so much that you sit in bed awake all night after knockin' boots. If you're ever discovered w/ this coverup stuff (just a matter of time) it will be much worse than just being you. I'd rather have hairloss as part of my identity than being branded the guy who gets "outed" by accident. Just my opinion.

yeah its sad but i am my hair's b****

so this hairspray $#iT is it a specific kind that will keep the powder in place or what? can i cop it offa the toppic site?

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[sonicthehedgehog]

Geez...maybe you should slowly, er, come out of the closet. I can't imagine feeling compelled to hide hairloss so much that you sit in bed awake all night after knockin' boots. If you're ever discovered w/ this coverup stuff (just a matter of time) it will be much worse than just being you. I'd rather have hairloss as part of my identity than being branded the guy who gets "outed" by accident. Just my opinion.

Well I was going to quote just a part of your post, but it was too good to cut anything out of it. Well said.

Can anybody tell me what it feels like to run your fingers through toppic? Does it feel like hair?

When you move on to having 24 hour filthy sex romps with this girl amrod that toppic will be all over the place (in fact I dread to think just where it may end up). Hair gel / any other non-permanent adhesive or not.

 

[amrod]

when a girl tries to touch my hair i move back aggressively like a serpent defending its eggs

i fuckign hate hairloss...

and no touching toppik aint feel like touching hair. and i refuse to ever be discovered.

 

[hairwegoagain]

You can refuse all you want, but it's going to happen sooner or later. Some of that powder sh*t is gonna rub off on somethin', or your girl will catch you offguard, or someone will stand behind you and sense that somethin's not quite right. The latter has probably already happened.

By recoiling when a girl tries to touch your hair, guess what? She knows somethin's up. You can bet she'll be extra-attentive each time she sees you. If she's nice, she probably won't confront you so as to not humiliate...

Not tryin' to be a downer...just hoping to spare you from an eventual, decisive kick in your ego's crotch.

when a girl tries to touch my hair i move back aggressively like a serpent defending its eggs

i fuckign hate hairloss...

and no touching toppik aint feel like touching hair. and i refuse to ever be discovered.

 

[Guest]

ok, see, i use this toppik too. and i have no problems with it. my gel and hairspray fixes it and i dont have to care about it. but yes, if you dont fix it, its really dumb for you. doesnt it fall off if you shake your head? and what will your girl think if she cant touch your hair? and isnt it awful if you always have to have fear that it falls off or that someone wants to touch it? your life must be awful due to it.

 

[amrod]

its normally fine enless i rub sh*t against it

what spray do u use to keep it in place? does it stay in place even when ur sleep ?

 

[made_guy82]

damn dude, you could be dealing with this your whole life if you don't grow a pair and be a man about it. You're not losing hair cos you eat people or something hideous lilke that, its nature, its a b**ch, men control b****s (in a nice way). nuff said.

 

[Guest]

yes, amrod, spray keeps toppik in place even when you sleep. use it!

 

[amrod]

what spray to use? can i get it from toppik websitE?

 

[oDD_LotS]

amrod: In my experience, there is a spray available from the Toppik website that will help lock the fibers in place, but you can use any hair spray for the most part. I usually chose a non-aerosol when I wore Toppik, so as to avoid blowing the powder about.

You're right about the fact that it doesn't hold up well under many situations. However, I avoided many problems by being upfront with the one girl I've been serious with since using it (my fiancee). She was my best friend prior to getting "involved", so she knew ahead of time that I was losing hair and used Toppik.

I've actually quit using Toppik, now using only Prothik. It allows my hair to feel MUCH more like hair and I can use an aerosol or pump-style hair spray.

Either way, you definitely should follow all the suggestions to use a bit of hairspray to secure the Toppik. Whether you use the Toppik spray or regular non-aerosol hairspray, it'll be a definite improvement.

And, I also second (third?) the suggestion to not worry as much! Like someone else mentioned, the more mortified you are of anyone noticing your receding hairline, the more it'll bother you when someone figures out the Toppik (if they don't notice now, they probably will as the hair continues to thin).

 

[Wezz]

i got a great idea :lol:

when u are about to sleep say your hair is allergic to other pillows or back of you head bleeds because of an open skin so that you need to put a black blanket over it , if u are sneaky when your girlfriend is asleep just put the black blanket and wake up before she does and remove it to avoid attention, or say that its your lucky charm or something

good luck, always have excuses and you will be excused from complicated sh*t

 

[recboi]

How do you even have the confidence to get girls? When I was in college, I couldn't, and my hair was much better then than it is now.. I would practically sleep with my hat on..

this is a disaster... for the first time in SO long ive hooked up with this girl taht i actually really like

ill go back to her house but i can never sleep in bed with her INCASE MY TOPPIK RUBS OFF DURING THE NIGHT AND MY NORWOOD IS DISPLAYED. so i stay awake all night... the first time i left at like 8am with no sleep and she thought i was being an a**h** and had just left without saying goodbye

but ITS BECAUSE I CANT f****ing SLEEP BECAUSE OF MY NORWOOD. at my college house i keep my door locked when i go to sleep so no one can observe my norwood. no one.

the toppik hides the top but even if i had a solution for that i cant control my hairline and where it goes in my sleep. f*** it all

 

[amrod]

its not a confidence thing

i have a shitload going for me. overal i still feel good about myself regardless of hairloss. its just a b**ch so long as i can make myself look good ill still be okay it hasnt got bad enough that i cant get ti to look acceptable with styling and toppik

its just i cant face someone finding out my problem... i f*****g hate that sh*t

 

[recboi]

We share the same problem.. I'd jump off a building if anyone told me they knew I had transplants... My greatest shame. My shrink says that it's a psychological problem to be that ashamed of it, so she put me on Zyprexa... But I personally think that's totally BS, because society dictates that hair IS important.. THink about it.. With only a few exceptions (Ed Harris), bald guys are portrayed really badly in hollywood.. WOuld george castanza have been as big of a loser had he had hair? I doubt it... They played on his hairloss with him wearing the hairpiece in an episode.. Bald guys are alwaysplaying the bad guy. Ever seen a bald action hero other than Vin Diesel, and he just shaves his head..

its not a confidence thing

i have a shitload going for me. overal i still feel good about myself regardless of hairloss. its just a b**** so long as i can make myself look good ill still be okay it hasnt got bad enough that i cant get ti to look acceptable with styling and toppik

its just i cant face someone finding out my problem... i f****ing hate that $#iT

 

[Aplunk1]

Dude,
that's all hearsay. You dictate what your life is, not society. f*** society. You need to be happy with yourself no matter who the f*** you are.