So Far My Life With Hairloss For 12 Years

Fidelity123

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I've shaved my head when I got 22, as it became evident it's not going any better. Back then, no solutions were, except minoxidil and finasteride. Neither worked for me, or perhaps I was too late.
Damn I don't want to remember all the pain I went through.
There are some things though, I think are important.
Basically, anyone can improve their image today, as even if you're a nw7 like me, you can make a micropigmentation. It doesn't matter where, as I'm sure today there are many clinics.
Whether it works for you, is up to you. For me it worked a great deal. So much, that I browse this forum maybe once a year.
About women. Indeed, most of them will be turned off by your shaven, or receiding head. Let's face it. But what's more important, is if you can play with perception. if you can hit their subcouncious image match, you have high chances. Unfortunately though, you don't know if you match it, so it's a chance.
Your depression will affect your image and frame you're projecting onto others. So do whatever you can to fix the problem and move on. There's so much to this and you can miss it, wasting your time.
There are so many more variables than just hair, like your height, body type, face, the particular type this woman prefers, age, your way of communication.
Yes, perhaps your chances will decrease like 50%. But are you sure you were successful when you had hair? It's often not as much true as it might seem. So people rely on restoring their hair, thinking it will make them hit any girl. It's not true. There are namy things to this, and if you have hair, you're not necessarily will be successful with women. For me it seemed like I was dandy when i had hair, but it's some kind of delusional mind trick. No, I wasn't.
So it's wise to spend your time to study, education, communication skills. It will help you a long, long way.
The nature is a bit shallow. We judge others by looks, and good-looking people understand this and despise, as they did nothing to achieve it. Is it really your game if it's so predefined? You can make so much more with your life. If all you want is to be liked by pretty women, to put your inside? Don't worry, you will, if that's your goal.
Oh yeah, it's your wish to be back-patted saying "no, you're fine. You're good-looking". Because you're not sure. Maybe you're ugly. You already lost reality with all this stress. that's why most bald men are injured with insecurity, and need support so much. And that's not good, as you can easily be manipulated.
But you know, women are just shallow in general, as we are. And if you want to just bang them, why then to worry? There are many ways to do this. In any case, don't worry, you will find pussy in any case.
If you want to have a family, consider that family is not based on love for the most part. It's where you will have to pay the bills for the sake of children. Yes, children is the main point of having a family. If you're worried about sex, don't. There are many women and ways to have it.
I became more skeptical to women. I don't preise them anymore. I know how different they behave then they want you or not. It's all a game and in the end it's pussy you get. And some back-patting yourself, saying "I'm cool. I banged another cuty". But will it change yourself? It's only children which makes a difference. So if you can find a good girl for kids, this is important. Either than that, it's just some fun.
Even children don't necessarily be yours with our laws, and having a wife is not the recipe for hapiness.
So you won't be excluded from society. that's what you will do yourself until you're in depression.
Hitting the gym has little to do with muscles, but with your general health and blood circulation. It will make your mind work well. That what helped me, plus miscopigmentation. I just look like a shaven guy. For me it's fine, as I wemt through all the hell circles of hairloss.
Once the cure will be found, even those who have it won't be perceived as bad as today. As if something is fixable, it's not dangerous. If fat people could lose this problem by taking a pill once a month without side-effects, would it be a trait, like a different hairstyle.
When you hit a problem it seems all the world revolves around it. No, it doesn't. There are many, many more things, fun, and things are not like what they look. Don't overestimate women, they have their place in your life, but it shouldn't be the first one.

Some fun: I was poposed a marriage and having kids with a women, who is 4 years older than me, but has perfect body, and face. But she is stupid. Only because of that I don't want to have anything with her. So her looks didn't help her.
I currently have a girlfriend, and she is not 10 by any means, but she is fun. She knows math, and helps me with studying it. She is average-looking, but not ugly. by the way, she thinks I'm just lazy to take care of my hair and that's why i shave it. That's so strange, as she rubbed my head many times.
So I can see it from another side of the fence. Pretty women are not necessarily the best mates.
 
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