I had just met her in a bar and things seemed to be going well. Then she says, "you know, you'd look a lot better with longer hair. you would get a lot more attention from women." I'm generally a very easy going, laid back guy, but this topic is obviously sensitive for me, so I got a little pissed off.
I was thinking in my head, "did it ever occur to you that I would love to have longer hair, but I can't because it's so damn thin that I have to buzz it down very short. I'm doing the best with what I've got."
So I told this girl I wouldn't be interested in a woman who judged me based on my hair anyway. I said it's sad that we live in such a superficial world. I then told her it's very easy to find flaws in someone's appearance, and if I really wanted to, I could point out a few of her own, but I'm above that. So I walked away, and that was that.
It's funny, because just a few years ago I had long, thick, dark hair and something like that never would have happened. Hairloss really changes things. But I'm trying not to let it affect me negatively. I'm lucky that I have a decent head and facial structure, so I can pull off the buzzed look. If some people don't like it, so be it.
I was thinking in my head, "did it ever occur to you that I would love to have longer hair, but I can't because it's so damn thin that I have to buzz it down very short. I'm doing the best with what I've got."
So I told this girl I wouldn't be interested in a woman who judged me based on my hair anyway. I said it's sad that we live in such a superficial world. I then told her it's very easy to find flaws in someone's appearance, and if I really wanted to, I could point out a few of her own, but I'm above that. So I walked away, and that was that.
It's funny, because just a few years ago I had long, thick, dark hair and something like that never would have happened. Hairloss really changes things. But I'm trying not to let it affect me negatively. I'm lucky that I have a decent head and facial structure, so I can pull off the buzzed look. If some people don't like it, so be it.