Solve For Happiness - A Successful Bald Guy Explains

[macaroni]

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[PappinAce]

thanks for posting, that's a really good outlook. especially when confronting things you have no control over.

 

[Recedinghairgrowingbank]

This is a wonderful video thank you for sharing it. Have any of you read his book? The price is a bit steep for me at the moment but I might get it for my birthday if it is good. Prefer this forums opinion than "good"books or amazon.

 

[CharAblaze]

It's all cope, bro.
It's wanting something that makes us human.
When I gave up once, I felt hollow existance. I understood that something crucial was missing. And it was looking like a young man when one is supposed to have the most beautiful years as a young person.

If you have balls, fight to the bitter end, no matter what, giving up is just not manly at all. Just fighting, makes me feel a bit better, gives hope that maybe someday this sh*t will end.
I tried giving up for a year, I couldn't handle it. I continued to bald since I quit all meds, even Minoxidil. Then I saw my rat nest on security cams and wanted to die, girls started treating me shittier and shittier. At least I restarted Minoxidil and now it is fixing some of the damage which I suffered when I quit it for a year. Why did I quit meds, I tought If I gave no sh*t I could escape reality, I tought that f*****g Rogaine didn't work since it didn't regrow my hairline which continues to recede up to this day. In 2-3 years I'll be completely fucked if nothing new is released or I'll risk and take finasteride again at a lower dose. I'm scared that I will someday reach the point where I'll have to consider a rug since not even f*****g transplants at best clinics will be able to help me.

They don't call it blue pill for a reason, choose blue pill and suffer from blue balls for the rest of your life.

 

[Recedinghairgrowingbank]

Hard to see it that way when you're young, ugly, short with a shitty physique to boot.

But being bluepilled is always easier than facing the truth.

Why Matyr yourself to the red pill? Taking the blue pill for life isn't bad, most of the planet do it, including me. Rather be delusional and content than seeing the truth and depressed (for me at least).

 

[Recedinghairgrowingbank]

It's all cope, bro.
It's wanting something that makes us human.
When I gave up once, I felt hollow existance. I understood that something crucial was missing. And it was looking like a young man when one is supposed to have the most beautiful years as a young person.

If you have balls, fight to the bitter end, no matter what, giving up is just not manly at all. Just fighting, makes me feel a bit better, gives hope that maybe someday this sh*t will end.
I tried giving up for a year, I couldn't handle it. I continued to bald since I quit all meds, even Minoxidil. Then I saw my rat nest on security cams and wanted to die, girls started treating me shittier and shittier. At least I restarted Minoxidil and now it is fixing some of the damage which I suffered when I quit it for a year. Why did I quit meds, I tought If I gave no sh*t I could escape reality, I tought that f*****g Rogaine didn't work since it didn't regrow my hairline which continues to recede up to this day. In 2-3 years I'll be completely fucked if nothing new is released or I'll risk and take finasteride again at a lower dose. I'm scared that I will someday reach the point where I'll have to consider a rug since not even f*****g transplants at best clinics will be able to help me.

They don't call it blue pill for a reason, choose blue pill and suffer from blue balls for the rest of your life.

Started finasteride in January never looked back, thank god for this forum.

 

[Recedinghairgrowingbank]

Because it makes you delusional, then angry and frustrated, then you end up hating women for rejecting you and thinking personality is more important than looks and that you're entititled to be loved or have sex with a decent-looking woman.

Pure madness. If you're fucked, then you must accept it for your own sake and peace of mind.

Hmm, do you find yourself happier accepting reality than being blind to it? I am genuinely curious/interested. Most people are the other way around (including myself).

 

[Recedinghairgrowingbank]

You can't be happy when you look like a rotting corpse and are mocked everyday. But you feel at peace, like when you know you're dying. You know that you can't do anything to change things for the better, and you just let go and accept what it is bound to come.

People mock you? Are you still in school or what? Can't imagine adults behaving like that. "But you feel at peace, like when you know you're dying". < That's disturbingly beautiful.

 

[sunchyme1]

No, I'm 25, but I live in a country where looks are the only thing that matters they mock you relentlessly if you're ugly and, worse of all, bald. Get a look at my threads to read what happened at my workplace.

whats its like at your current workplace in england dante?

 

[blackg]

Why Matyr yourself to the red pill? Taking the blue pill for life isn't bad, most of the planet do it, including me. Rather be delusional and content than seeing the truth and depressed (for me at least).

But you just can't hide from the redpill reality. It will sneak up and bite you on the *** right when you're deep in the middle of your bluepilled reverie.

 

[blackg]

Because it makes you delusional, then angry and frustrated, then you end up hating women for rejecting you and thinking personality is more important than looks and that you're entititled to be loved or have sex with a decent-looking woman.

Pure madness. If you're fucked, then you must accept it for your own sake and peace of mind.

Nicely put, Dante.

 

[PappinAce]

In 2-3 years I'll be completely fucked if nothing new is released or I'll risk and take finasteride again at a lower dose. I'm scared that I will someday reach the point where I'll have to consider a rug since not even f*****g transplants at best clinics will be able to help me.

why not go the rug route now? sounds like you're fighting an uphill battle of which you already know the eventual result.

how did it go when you restarted treatment? did girls treat you less shitty?

 

[CharAblaze]

why not go the rug route now? sounds like you're fighting an uphill battle of which you already know the eventual result.

how did it go when you restarted treatment? did girls treat you less shitty?

1. Don't tell me what to do and your bald spot is nothing major.
2. Nobody knows their balding pace, it may even stop itself.
3. I don't like sh*t on my head.Concealer is another story, but it sucks and I hate it + glue will kill the surviving follices. I don't use concealer everyday. In fact I rarely do.
4. If any of the tratments are out in 2018/2019 I'll have a decent chance of complete/partial recovery if I get an expensive hair transplant at good clinic. Assuming they arrest hairloss.
5. It's detectable and requires insane maintenance and may look like sh*t.
6. Gooby pls.
7. I don't want to wear a rug. If I get fucked to that point I'll be forced to do it.
8. It's f*****g expensive

As for the restart, my hair sure looks thicker in photos now and my scalp is not visible if there is no bright light(no concealer).As for their treatment, well it's a bit better, but the issue is the f*****g hairline.

 

[EvilLocks]

But you feel at peace, like when you know you're dying. You know that you can't do anything to change things for the better, and you just let go and accept what it is bound to come.

 

[Captain Rex]

It's difficult to look at life this way but it really is the best way to do it. The goal should be to not expend time or energy in things you have no control over. This could be translated into "giving up" by some, but that is not the case - it is simply being smart about the things you can and cannot control.

When i get upset about my situation i like to think of life as a video game - if you look at it that way don't you just feel like exploring and interacting with other characters? If life were like a video game then the experience is all that matters, and our bodies are merely avatars that enable us to experience it, good or bad.

Why Matyr yourself to the red pill? Taking the blue pill for life isn't bad, most of the planet do it, including me. Rather be delusional and content than seeing the truth and depressed (for me at least).

Because it makes you delusional, then angry and frustrated, then you end up hating women for rejecting you and thinking personality is more important than looks and that you're entititled to be loved or have sex with a decent-looking woman.

Pure madness. If you're fucked, then you must accept it for your own sake and peace of mind.

I love this debate. Both sides are correct in their opinion. Kind of like this..............

Too much of bluepill keeps you in a delusional mindset and hides the reality of life which when we come to realise, destroys us in all the possible ways.
Too much redpill keeps you in a aggressive state where you see no friends but only enemies. For example, a girl somewhat ignored you when you were talking to her, you kind of started feeling that she is judging you based on your looks and the truth may be something else - she was lost in her thoughts or wasn't interested in the topic at all. With this mindset, you can't meet new people and gain their trust. The chances of becoming successful in life decreases eventually. Not every people cares about looks, the percentage may be drastically low for sure but this complete redpill approach is terrible.

Solution would be to have realistic expectations from life. Know your limits and make progress where you have your talents - have a balanced mindset - somewhere between this blue pill and red pill thing.
A Magenta pill!

 

[Patrick_Bateman]

I love this debate. Both sides are correct in their opinion. Kind of like this..............


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Too much of bluepill keeps you in a delusional mindset and hides the reality of life which when we come to realise, destroys us in all the possible ways.
Too much redpill keeps you in a aggressive state where you see no friends but only enemies. For example, a girl somewhat ignored you when you were talking to her, you kind of started feeling that she is judging you based on your looks and the truth may be something else - she was lost in her thoughts or wasn't interested in the topic at all. With this mindset, you can't meet new people and gain their trust. The chances of becoming successful in life decreases eventually. Not every people cares about looks, the percentage may be drastically low for sure but this complete redpill approach is terrible.

Solution would be to have realistic expectations from life. Know your limits and make progress where you have your talents - have a balanced mindset - somewhere between this blue pill and red pill thing.
A Magenta pill!

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[Captain Rex]

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[Guzam]

It's all cope, bro.
It's wanting something that makes us human.
When I gave up once, I felt hollow existance. I understood that something crucial was missing. And it was looking like a young man when one is supposed to have the most beautiful years as a young person.

If you have balls, fight to the bitter end, no matter what, giving up is just not manly at all. Just fighting, makes me feel a bit better, gives hope that maybe someday this sh*t will end.
I tried giving up for a year, I couldn't handle it. I continued to bald since I quit all meds, even Minoxidil. Then I saw my rat nest on security cams and wanted to die, girls started treating me shittier and shittier. At least I restarted Minoxidil and now it is fixing some of the damage which I suffered when I quit it for a year. Why did I quit meds, I tought If I gave no sh*t I could escape reality, I tought that f*****g Rogaine didn't work since it didn't regrow my hairline which continues to recede up to this day. In 2-3 years I'll be completely fucked if nothing new is released or I'll risk and take finasteride again at a lower dose. I'm scared that I will someday reach the point where I'll have to consider a rug since not even f*****g transplants at best clinics will be able to help me.

They don't call it blue pill for a reason, choose blue pill and suffer from blue balls for the rest of your life.

Never give up brother. No way I'm willing to have regrets if I lose this war against this baldness. No 'what if' will be allowed.

Regrets once cueball = worse than death

 

[CharAblaze]

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Not every people cares about looks, the percentage may be drastically low for sure but this complete redpill approach is terrible.

I haven't met a single girl in her late teens-early 20s who wasn't grossed out by baldness. The current generation of women have different values. In 1950s USA, 50 year olds married 17 year old girls and nobody gave a sh*t. Look up Charlie Chaplin. And women had less rights, far less rights back then + religious traditions. Now, women want pretty boys until they hit their 30s and "settle down". I guess, you never heard conversations between groups of young women, where the only thing they discuss is how some dude looks hansome and how all of them want his dick.

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Solution would be to have realistic expectations from life. Know your limits and make progress where you have your talents - have a balanced mindset - somewhere between this blue pill and red pill thing.

Why be a person with limitations if you didn't have them before. Limitations create an obstacle, they must be eliminated. If you don't do that you will fail to fullfil your full potential in this journey of life. I have talent as a singer and an actor, but my looks keep me from achieving my dream of career in entertainment and I'm forced to study a boring subject in uni with people who had been drained of their youthful energy way before they were supposed to be, oh well at least they are not dead inside like me.

Why be a king, when you can be god?

 

[Guzam]

relevant because he's bald
i do know how much sh*t i'll get for posting this haha

Also this man makes me furious. His accent and his phony Orientalistic-Muslim thinking for low IQ sheep is extremely upsetting.
His is no intelligent discourse. It's a big cope for the death of his beloved son. A noble cope, but just a cope indeed.

2/10. low value