You guys need to stop looking for vids etc about people being negative about balding, its not doing you any good just making you feel even worse, it dont even sound like venting since most vids is people looking for the them, so you wouldnt even come across it had you not looked for it. There is negative people out there, its time you start dealing with it, "why should we its not fair we are bald" you may say, thats true but **** dont work like that, what about me when i HAD hair yet was still mocked? where was my justice? and to others out there dealing with their problems? you cant win against them, but you letting them win by letting them have this hold on you about it, instead of looking for those vids or whatever, use that time for things you enjoy doing, it sounds more worth while dont you think?, i dont want to seem "bossy" and tell people what to do, not my thing, just my opinion on the matter, let it go "easy said then done" yes very true, but you might aswell try, what you got to lose? more name calling? thats life folks, i never wanted people to take the mick out of me when i was younger, but **** happens, noone said life would be easy, take care.
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You wont let it continue? what are you doing about it?
rocklegends
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what i wish for is for every single person to just shave it off and leave it for an extended period time (im no talking about those with male pattern baldness, but rather, everyone) I just don't understand the rationale for the different behavior between have dead cell son your head and without them.
they make a significant impact because most people who shoot down those who are losing or have lost their hair are extremely vain themselves. Just desserts would indeed be if they were to suffer the same fate.
they make a significant impact because most people who shoot down those who are losing or have lost their hair are extremely vain themselves. Just desserts would indeed be if they were to suffer the same fate.
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a few obviously jealous "haters" (for lack of a better term) calling you "too tall" doesnt count as being mocked lmao. thats obviously envy and society would see it as such.
bald discrimination is another story as its accepted and lots do it x.x
bald discrimination is another story as its accepted and lots do it x.x
Like i said i didnt think anything of it, i only mentioned it cause you was talking about it, i would look at the other examples in all honesty, and its still people being dicks regardless WHY they are doing it.
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big difference between a few people being obvious dicks and large groups actively making fun of baldies. and then add in the way baldness drastically changes your identity and how its heavily stereotyped in fiction and yea baldness is way different
Taking the mick out the way i talk cause i cant say some words? i cant help that, the way i look? (like being called a gorm) i cant help that, like one time when i was in the school gym for P.E, even the teacher had a dig, "evil" stares, group of kids ganging up on me, all in that one example in the gym by the way its all the same, people making me feel like crap, its not about who has it worse, bullying is bullying (again i wasnt going on about being tall but still), with that logic people dissing you for being bald is nothing cause there is people starving in Africa "theres a difference between being mocked for being bald and..."
My point was anyway, in starting the thread, was its pointless looking for vids etc about people mocking it, do something better with your time, do something you enjoy, those people who diss are there if you like it or not, dont give them the attention.
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its harder to get pussay without hair, so ppl are pissed, if balding didnt affect your chances with girls, people would take all sorts of bullying related to hair, or not be this pissed at least. But the reality being the fact that balding affects your dating life, bald shaming becomes more hard to tolerate. All the people saying it is/was a part of their identity and all, i am pretty sure they would have made peace with balding if hypothetically speaking, balding ddn make em less attractive. But then you ve got to wake up every motherforking day and look into the mirror the first thing after that. Perfect beginning for the day huh.Its even worse when big 3 is not doing **** but you are tolerating some sides.
Dannyboy i appreciate what you are trying to do, but its hard not to think about it. I ve seen really bad things in my life, and m not saying this to gain symapthy, but i got over them one way or the other, but this motherfaker. . man, . . sometimes i just wonder what i did wrong to deserve this. . . but glad you ve made your peace dannyboy.
Sooner or later, we ll be over this. How soon, i dont know.
Dannyboy i appreciate what you are trying to do, but its hard not to think about it. I ve seen really bad things in my life, and m not saying this to gain symapthy, but i got over them one way or the other, but this motherfaker. . man, . . sometimes i just wonder what i did wrong to deserve this. . . but glad you ve made your peace dannyboy.
Sooner or later, we ll be over this. How soon, i dont know.
Well what you said is one thing, but im on about people who go out their way looking for vids about people dissing or whatever, i just dont get it. With the dating thing though, im sure one day you will find someone, i know i know its the typical thing to say yawn yawn, but its true, maybe it is harder dont mean you should stop trying, and with you saying you will be over it sooner or later, i hope its very soon, cause honestly being at peace you just see things differently, this is coming from someone who worried about hairloss for two years, take care.
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Wat do u mean people called u a gorm? I have never heard that word lol
And true hairplea, if it didnt affect ur attractiveness i wud definitely care a lot less
And true hairplea, if it didnt affect ur attractiveness i wud definitely care a lot less
Gorm is short for gormless means you're stupid, "braindead", dumb etc etc, my face and how i was acting apparently gave that vibe lol.